The fact that I precisely don't care anymore.
I could blow 50k on surgeries, force everyone to refer to me a certain way, do a legal name and gender change, I could probably even "pass" after all that because I look androgynous as-is, but I don't care anymore. Really I've grown out of giving a fuck. It would bring no tangible benefit to my life, in fact it would probably make it worse due to being a time/money/effort sink, and that's without stuff like medical complications. How people perceive me and how I look is very low on my daily list of concerns.
This is me too.
As a small child I literally believed I would grow up to be a man because I 'felt' like a boy.
I was a tomboy growing up and had no desire to be like my older sister who was very feminine.
I was devastated to realise puberty would make me a woman no matter what and at that point in my life, if puberty blockers were available, I 100% would have wanted them.
Puberty was fairly late and luckily for me, didn't result in large breasts or noticeable hips.
As an adult I just live as a GNC woman, I don't wear dresses or makeup and dressed in whatever was most comfortable, which was often mens clothing, and have been mistaken for a man quite a few times.
I realized I had gotten over my gender dysphoria by simply not having enough time/energy left after living life, to worry about gender. I completely ignored my gender and it no longer mattered.
Now I'm an old lady, I look like an old lady (I thought) but last year, I was approached by the pride committee in my town asking if I, as a trans man, would like to represent the older LGBTQ demographic.
They were visibly offended when I laughed and said I'm just an old lady who cares more about comfort than gender, and that I didn't think it would be appropriate for me to pretend to be a woman pretending to be a man.
Anyway, all this to say, gender dysphoria is real, but it doesn't have to be the focus of your life, and you will most likely grow out of it as you age, as long as you actually build some kind of life that's not centered on your sex/gender.
Edited to Add: I definitely believe that hormones have a
lot to do with 'feeling' like a man or a woman.
when I was pregnant was the only time I 'felt' like a woman, and I think there should be way more research done into giving people with gender dysphoria hormones that correspond to their actual sex and see if their dysphoria is alleviated.