Fuck it, I'm doing this.
I've been in this kiwi hell for years, and I've come to accept that I will never "get this".
I don't get "coding" in fictional characters.
It is a fiction. It isn't real. How can something be gay, autistic, straight, trans, whatever, unless it is a specific part of the story? How does one assign sex traits to a drawing? How can we make a definitive statement to determine the neuropathology of a cartoon character?
I'm not even memeing, it's a legit question.
These people are arguing about a nonexistant nonperson's mental problems.
I legit got nothing here. It's beyond the pale. We have people with a legitimate investment in whether or not Batman or Mario or the Michelin Man is gay.
Batman isn't real. It's not that I don't have a counter argument, it's that there isn't an argument to be had. He doesn't exist. He can't feel anything, because he's a fiction created to sell comics to sad nerds like me who like Batman.
We've hit a point where we are having an argument about the nature of our imaginary friends.