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Well...They are just throwing shit and hope it sticks. I wonder what happens if they find out that he also wears dresses as a joke. Trigger warning!11!!11
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No, it's specialer because it's transphobia against transwomen specifically, who are more beautiful and special than those dang, dirty transmen!
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The "spoon" business is idiosyncratic and dumb. Tumblrinas latch on to arcane lingo to exclude "uncool people".
Normal people call that "energy"; Frenchaboos call that "joie de vivre"; RPG spergs call that "mana". None of these term is speshul enough for tumblr.
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Mark, I never really loved your videos, but I kinda love you now. Any man who responds to this shit with open antagonism is cool as far as I'm concerned.Well...
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"Clothes don't have a gender!"
"HOW FUCKING DARE YOU WEAR A DRESS IF YOU IDENTIFY AS MALE!?"
"HOW FUCKING DARE YOU WEAR A DRESS IF YOU IDENTIFY AS MALE!?"
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is there a tumblr blog where someone goes through every word in the dictionary and explains why it's problematic?
actually, that would be an interesting story. where someone is so PC they stop using words as they go through the dictionary.
and explaining why each word is problematic is harder because they have to stop using certain words (and will disappear early so that causes a lot of issues)
Ron Paul 2024
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The word 'and' is problematic, because it means someone always gets mentioned second, like they're not as important. What if that someone is a POC, or LGBTQIBBQLMNOP?
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See as a man- you can only wear dresses if you play by the rules the sjw special snowflakes invented. That means that you can't wear dresses/make up for fun or as a joke. It's only allowed if it has something to do with jendah and it's countless variations.
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Maybe eventually they would just entirely disappear up their own asshole and fall silent forever.
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ok im late here with the hygiene shit here, i'll admit, BUT i have things to say and i don't shut my trap so - from my experience its a matter of willpower.
of course you can't say that on tumblr because obviously its "ableist" to tell mentally ill people that they can (in most cases) heal and cope and improve, but they sure as hell won't do it without doing a lot of things that will make them feel absolutely miserable, and learning to just do the everyday things they don't want to do. because guess what? a mental illness is a fucking disorder. it means you were dealt a bad hand, and life just sucks and its unfair and you need to go on despite your setbacks. they harp on and on about mental illnesses being on par with physical illnesses, having the same legitimacy and severity, but they go on saying shit like "i dont need to heal its the world that has a problem with my disordered behavior and actions :~) neurotypicals can suck my psycho ass ha ha! fuck doctors! im not going to school!"
you want it to be better. you should want to heal. its getting to the point where its "ableist" to tell people that mental illnesses aren't good to have and learning to heal and cope with the challenges presented to you in productive ways should be an acute focus rather than shaping your world around your own needs.
i'm chronically ill and i have been for years and there was a point where i couldnt easily shower because i had a bunch of tubes in me 24/7 and shit that i couldn't get wet, plus walking and moving was hard, standing for long periods of time was difficult. that's a spoon thing. i stay far away from my disease's community on tumblr bc its all about spoons and shit and personally i dont get anything done that way. i just power through what i need to do, i learned to cope with the pain after a time, because the world's not gonna stop and slow down just because i'm sick, yknow?
then there was a point too where i didn't shower because i was dealing with the miserable throes of mental illness, but i quickly discovered that i did, in fact, have the energy (urgh... "spoons") to do it, i just had to get past the fucking mental block that prevented me from showering. that isn't a spoon thing. it wasn't physical. it was something i could do but i felt like i couldnt because i was miserable and didn't want to. i had energy to do things i wanted to do, but suddenly my spoons ran dry when i was faced with schoolwork, housework and other unpleasant things! oops! its the same with these people.
then there was a point too where i didn't shower because i was dealing with the miserable throes of mental illness, but i quickly discovered that i did, in fact, have the energy (urgh... "spoons") to do it, i just had to get past the fucking mental block that prevented me from showering. that isn't a spoon thing. it wasn't physical. it was something i could do but i felt like i couldnt because i was miserable and didn't want to. i had energy to do things i wanted to do, but suddenly my spoons ran dry when i was faced with schoolwork, housework and other unpleasant things! oops! its the same with these people.
of course you can't say that on tumblr because obviously its "ableist" to tell mentally ill people that they can (in most cases) heal and cope and improve, but they sure as hell won't do it without doing a lot of things that will make them feel absolutely miserable, and learning to just do the everyday things they don't want to do. because guess what? a mental illness is a fucking disorder. it means you were dealt a bad hand, and life just sucks and its unfair and you need to go on despite your setbacks. they harp on and on about mental illnesses being on par with physical illnesses, having the same legitimacy and severity, but they go on saying shit like "i dont need to heal its the world that has a problem with my disordered behavior and actions :~) neurotypicals can suck my psycho ass ha ha! fuck doctors! im not going to school!"
you want it to be better. you should want to heal. its getting to the point where its "ableist" to tell people that mental illnesses aren't good to have and learning to heal and cope with the challenges presented to you in productive ways should be an acute focus rather than shaping your world around your own needs.
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That's why it's helpful to split the tasks into smaller tasks. I have adhd and I'm often so overhelmed by the things I have to do that sometimes I don't feel able to do anything. So I think about the steps I need to take to get the work done. First this, then this and so on. It really helps.
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I actually keep a battery meter on my blog, mostly to inform people of how much bullshit I'm willing to put up with since I can turn on someone at the drop of a hat.
Also to others with ADHD here, compulsive eating is characteristic for those with the disorder? My parents always told me I eat because I'm "bored". Been struggling with it for years.
Also to others with ADHD here, compulsive eating is characteristic for those with the disorder? My parents always told me I eat because I'm "bored". Been struggling with it for years.
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I don't think so? I have pretty severe ADHD but I don't eat compulsively. Or at least I don't think I do. I mostly just pace. A lot. I guess it's different for everyone.
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I've always eaten compulsively, as long as I could remember. When I'm out of meds, eating is basically all I can do.
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@Wilhelm
I don't know if it qualifies as compulsive, but ADHD and eating out of boredom/lack of stimulation rather than hunger is a thing in some people. I've never heard of it as a defining or major characteristic though.
And to not be too off-topic: I just want to mention something thats been annoying me (possibly too much) about tumblr drama llamas lately, which is that a lot of the time they seem to assume only one person in any given interaction can have problems that matter (and that person is, of course, them). Have to retreat from someone having a violent, death-threat-spewing meltdown because it's compounding your own anxiety/and or mental illness? Drifted away from someone because they were having a negative effect on your mental state? You insensitive ableist bastard.
I don't know if it qualifies as compulsive, but ADHD and eating out of boredom/lack of stimulation rather than hunger is a thing in some people. I've never heard of it as a defining or major characteristic though.
And to not be too off-topic: I just want to mention something thats been annoying me (possibly too much) about tumblr drama llamas lately, which is that a lot of the time they seem to assume only one person in any given interaction can have problems that matter (and that person is, of course, them). Have to retreat from someone having a violent, death-threat-spewing meltdown because it's compounding your own anxiety/and or mental illness? Drifted away from someone because they were having a negative effect on your mental state? You insensitive ableist bastard.
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Ron Paul 2024
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As far as I know, no. ADHD means I often get distracted and don't eat, and even when I'm hungry I'd rather be doing something more interesting than preparing or going out and getting food.
Plus the pacing and fidgeting burns lots of calories.
ETA: I also eat really fast when I do it, and have to consciously remember to pace myself.
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