I'm looking at that sub, and at least 90% of the posters HAVE to be self-diagnosed.
And no, self diagnosis is NOT valid.
I've said this before but over the last 30 years, autism has become a catch-all term for
anything, so much so that it means literally nothing at this point.
It doesn't help these little bubble communities exist online, where they spout "self-diagnosis is valid because not everyone can afford a diagnosis" and these TikTok retards "showing off" that autism is cool and quirky like a Zooey Deschanel character (when it's really not, if you actually know what it's like).
A lot of (self-diagnosed) "autistic" people are just straight up immature assholes who don't want to be held accountable for being cunts, and they make it
your problem. "Don't yell at me I'm autistic. Don't make me do the dishes or clean my ass, I'm autistic. Don't make me spend money on bills rather than anime figures and Pokémon games, I'm autistic"
It's the same thing with these people who say they have BPD, DID, etc. imho.
If you are yelling over a goddamn bong, maybe you
are being immature? I get that they are expensive pieces of glass, but most people I know who use bongs keep them put up somewhere safe. They go out of their way to keep it safe. They just don't leave it in a garage, where other people can possibly harm it?
There has to be more context to this than that.
(Also I'm assuming she kept it by the floor since it got knocked down by them stacking seltzers. I personally only really stack cans like that close to the floor.)