AITAH for finding somewhere else to be on Christmas after seeing that my sister’s new bf has hate symbols on his social media?
I love my family, but I draw a hard line at breaking bread with sexual predators, people who hurt children, or people who publicly affiliate themselves with hate groups. When my sister made her relationship Facebook official I saw her new man's profile for the first time. The confederate flag punisher skull, to me, is not ambiguous in the least. That's some proud boy nonsense and I am totally unwilling to break bread with a person who displays it.
I know he is invited to Christmas dinner and I'm finding somewhere else to be. Of course my family is deeply upset by this and trying to say all sorts of things about how "it doesn't mean that to everybody" or "maybe he doesn't know", but this sounds ridiculous to me.
AITAH for (in their view) being "intolerant" and "punishing" my family by removing myself from a situation where I would be forced to interact with this man?