Relationships - You know, those things we have with people close to us?

CaptainMappy

CaptainMappy

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Let's sperg about relationships; not just those with a significant other, but friends and family as well. The good, the bad, funny stories, whatever - talk about them here.
 
im singel becaused girls just dontt understand meeeee1!!!! im so weidr and unUSUAL totALLY STRANGEA!!!!!!! :))))))))))) :33333333 ;33333333

To be serious for a moment though, I believe good relationships take time and alot of care. Abusive relationships are formed because one party rushed a relationship and didn't know what they might've been getting into.

I'll watch this thread, interesting topic, surprised it hasn't been done yet.
 
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Lurkman said:
To be serious for a moment though, I believe good relationships take time and alot of care. Abusive relationships are formed because one party rushed a relationship and didn't know what they might've been getting into.
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lol @DNJACK knew exactly what he was getting in to and basically has it coming
 
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I bet you can't hit my ass. You are too weak for that. Prove me wrong.
 
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I found out my girlfriend had been cheating on me for a month and a half on the exact day when Kiwifarms closed doors temporarily. Boy was that fun. Got home and wanted to see if I could get a laugh out of some lolcow only to find the forums were gone. Sucked like hell.
 
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GeorgeDaMoose said:
I found out my girlfriend had been cheating on me for a month and a half on the exact day when Kiwifarms closed doors temporarily. Boy was that fun. Got home and wanted to see if I could get a laugh out of some lolcow only to find the forums were gone. Sucked like hell.
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Holy shit, I'm really sorry to hear that. Nobody, regardless of who they are, should have to experience infidelity. I hope you take some time for yourself to recover.
I'm getting over my insecurities one by one, but I'm still afraid of infidelity. There are times in my relationship where I feel as if regardless of what I do, nothing will ever be good enough for her and that she'll leave me for someone else. I'm slowly learning to get over it, but it's trying.
 
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CaptainMappy said:
Holy shit, I'm really sorry to hear that. Nobody, regardless of who they are, should have to experience infidelity. I hope you take some time for yourself to recover.
I'm getting over my insecurities one by one, but I'm still afraid of infidelity. There are times in my relationship where I feel as if regardless of what I do, nothing will ever be good enough for her and that she'll leave me for someone else. I'm slowly learning to get over it, but it's trying.
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Yeah it's hard as hell. Really absolutely killed me when I found out, it was terrible. Went over to her house to check on her. Don't want to get into it, but shit happened earlier and there were problems going on unrelated to us. Wanted to make sure she was okay. She was staying at a "friend's" house, of course didn't tell me. Came up with the very unlikely excuse that she was helping someone who was really in trouble. Of course that was bullshit and she caved pretty much the day after.
Every day sucks man. I still have feelings for the cunt and all of the sudden she changes personalities and starts treating me like AIDs after I find out. What's even worse is that she straight up lied to the dude about me. Said that she left me a year ago, that I fucking tried to hurt myself/kill myself or some shit when we broke up. She used that excuse with him to explain our flirty texts and shit. So fucked up because I have struggled with suicide and self-harm and she not only knew it, but lied about it and used it against me. Really have no clue who I was dating. I never expected any of this. Blog over.
 
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GeorgeDaMoose said:
I found out my girlfriend had been cheating on me for a month and a half on the exact day when Kiwifarms closed doors temporarily. Boy was that fun. Got home and wanted to see if I could get a laugh out of some lolcow only to find the forums were gone. Sucked like hell.
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lol you're a cuck

GeorgeDaMoose said:
Yeah it's hard as hell. Really absolutely killed me when I found out, it was terrible. Went over to her house to check on her. Don't want to get into it, but shit happened earlier and there were problems going on unrelated to us. Wanted to make sure she was okay. She was staying at a "friend's" house, of course didn't tell me. Came up with the very unlikely excuse that she was helping someone who was really in trouble. Of course that was bullshit and she caved pretty much the day after.
Every day sucks man. I still have feelings for the cunt and all of the sudden she changes personalities and starts treating me like AIDs after I find out. What's even worse is that she straight up lied to the dude about me. Said that she left me a year ago, that I fucking tried to hurt myself/kill myself or some shit when we broke up. She used that excuse with him to explain our flirty texts and shit. So fucked up because I have struggled with suicide and self-harm and she not only knew it, but lied about it and used it against me. Really have no clue who I was dating. I never expected any of this. Blog over.
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hahhahahhaa cuck

CaptainMappy said:
There are times in my relationship where I feel as if regardless of what I do, nothing will ever be good enough for her and that she'll leave me for someone else.
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Sounds like you're not good enough for her and she most probably is cheating on you already because you're a whiny insecure little cuck.
 
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Wow, you guys suck. I'm sorry that happened to you GeorgeDaMoose.

I'm in the fortunate position of never having been cheated on, at least not to my knowledge. I'm sure it happened at some point in the past.

I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now, I'm not really very old so that's something of an accomplishment
I love him more and more all the time.

I think it takes a long time to really get to know someone. Part of the reason I rail on poly relationships so hard is because I think it's hard enough to form a deep bond with one person, and I see all these people who clearly are clueless trying to do it with two or three people at once. It's sad and laughable. Also, they are really easy to offend which is funny.

Definitely don't date anyone with a history of cheating. My coworkers marriage is currently blowing up, she cheated all over the place. She cheated on her previous husband and demanded an open relationship so she could sleep with women, but then cheated on him with other guys anyway.

It's cliché but communication is so so important.

Not being demeaning to your partner is very important. Lots of women nag or talk about how stupid their husband is, or they don't appreciate his interests. That's wrong, you should try to appreciate your partner.

Another cliché, but little things are important. People will buy gifts and flowers after they've fought, but you should really do that all the time anyway. Or cook your partners favorite meal, or give them a backrub, just little things to remind them you care. If they don't do that too they are probably not as invested as you are, it's reciprocal.

Don't try to be right all the time.

One thing we do is always greet each other when we get home. Even if we're fighting. It shows that you care about your relationship, and are willing to communicate. Also don't send your partner to the couch. That's stupid.

Most people are really bad at relationships.

Also, keep in mind there are different stages of love/infatuation.

Infatuation only lasts for several months to a maximum of 1.5-2 years.
After that, if you have not built a good foundation for your relationship, you end up feeling lost.
People are too emotional, or don't get this. Emotions are important for sure but don't lose your senses over a feeling that is objectively only going to be temporary. Way too many people do this. Then they wonder why they hate their wife 10 years later and where the "spark" went.
 
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Bassomatic said:
But this thread and putting your deep feelings out in public on KF is one step dumber than giving dyn your social security number.
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Giving @Dynastia personal information is perfectly safe. He is a great friend and wonderful human being.
DonaldChump said:
Men are disposable so if you have flaws, youd better hide them, I guess.
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Lol Sucks to be a man who's not @DNJACK I guess
 
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None of my relationships have lasted very long. Usually it's because of something one of us can't help, like a living situation or that we're too busy to meet often; I'm probably just looking in all the wrong places, or I'm just not in the right spot yet for a relationship.

Maybe one day I'll meet a lady with a similar outlook on life and something will come out of it, but for now I'm rolling solo. I'm still pretty young, so I've got time for it; not really in a rush to get with anyone.
 
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