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WeeMars said:
I'm not ignoring it.
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Good.

PS, make sure you've showered, try to wear clothes that fit nicely (staff at any remotely decent store can help with that if you're not sure!), and don't take rejections as personal slights. Sometimes people don't click. Also, try to talk to women that you don't want to bang as practice.

We might make a functional human being out of you yet.
 
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Manah said:
Good.

PS, make sure you've showered, try to wear clothes that fit nicely (staff at any remotely decent store can help with that if you're not sure!), and don't take rejections as personal slights. Sometimes people don't click. Also, try to talk to women that you don't want to bang as practice.

We might make a functional human being out of you yet.
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I shower every single day except Saturday and Sunday. As for wearing clothes that fit, I have no fucking idea.
 
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Listen buddy, you're only 18 years old. It's not the end of the world if you're still a virgin for a while. I was a virgin when I was 18 too, and I had that mindset you have right now. Sex is not as big a deal as some make it out to be.

At this point in your age, you should be focusing on bettering yourself in any way you can (physically, mentally, etc.) Find an excuse to get out more, whether it's jogging or just driving around town. Go be around people in public so you can get an idea of how people irl interact. You'll find its veeeeery different from anime.

If you don't like how you perceive yourself then try changing something about yourself. Do something you don't want to do every day, and vice versa. You might just find something you enjoy and never knew before.

WeeMars said:
I shower every single day except Saturday and Sunday. As for wearing clothes that fit, I have no fucking idea.
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You should be showering everyday, at least 2 times, soap and shampoo. Theres absolutely no excuse to not take care of yourself.

As for finding clothes that fit, go to a clothes store and ask a clerk to help you find the right size, they'll be more than happy to help you try new things.
 
Look, I may sound like a broken record pointing out things other people here have said but, you gotta drag yourself to the nearest gym asap, it will make you look better and the confidence boost you get when looking at a better you in the mirror is priceless. Also, regarding playing pokemon go or things like that to get to know people, I'd recommend getting some foreign language classes, which gets you a normal conversation topic and the chance to meet new people while getting some good language skills.

You should look into getting good clothes and looking clean too, looking more presentable, especially when going somewhere new is vital, it's been said a million times but first impressions are important.

Change comes over time, you won't be a Chad in 2 days, but if you start trying today in a few months you'll look back and laugh at the present you.
 
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I don't think WeeMars is autistic. I think he's a teenager who took his life advice from anime and started making an ass of himself online as an outlet to vent how he really feels to a bunch of strangers. His Steam inventory shows he has a bunch of profile backgrounds and emoticons from Clannad:

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What's Clannad? It's one of those anime dating sims. It's been around for like 15 years and has a manga and anime to go along with it, something about a high schooler dating girls in a snowy town. I don't know a whole lot about it and I tried skimming a Let's Play to see if there's anything I could point out in a screenshot, but man I don't wanna sit here for three hours digging through that game. But I did notice this comment on YouTube:

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and these Steam reviews:

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Just what the hell is going on with this game?

There's something weird about a lot of those anime dating sims. The protagonist tends to be a fuckup without much agency, and the girls practically throw themselves at him, finding every little flaw in his personality as a big plus, and there isn't really any competition from other guys. I can't say for sure how the protagonist acts in Clannad, but I'm getting the sense that WeeMars might have internalized some bad personality traits from it. That can happen when you're young and looking for some sort of direction.

His Clannad achievements show that he played it between July 2016 to December 2016, so he would have been 15/16 when he played it.
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I don't know about you guys, but all of this really fuckin' lines up to me. Weemars himself saying he's not into anime anymore, and the Steam profile proclaiming that he's an ex-weeb tells me he at least knows that anime is shit now, but the internalization of it all has yet to decay from his mind. He needs to build up his confidence and learn some game, stepping away from anything and everything that's not helping him achieve what he truly wants in life, and unlearning bad habits like self-loathing.
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To make a very long story brief, Clannad is infamous among the anime community because people die in it, and takes quite of bit of work to unfuck the situation. VN's aren't really my thing though, so all I can personally say about it is that the character design sure loves its real estate between the eyes.

@WeeMars, look at my avatar. I am a big fan of Goblin Slayer. Even I can tell that you are doing the equivalent of sitting on your hands and whining about your unrealistic standards to an audience of jesters. You're not even out of your teens, much less of college age. At the very least, delay your "woe is me" phase until after you graduate from that period, because I can tell you from experience that any relationship that lasts beyond high school is to be considered an outlier, not the norm. After you leave school, you are mostly on the same level as everyone else your age. Even my cousin, who has miraculously retained all the friendships she's made during high school all the way through college, is getting increasingly sick of a select few and is just waiting for the chance to let them go for good.

You can't just stop there though. First, clean yourself up by investing in clothes. Maybe copping the look off the mannequins you see in malls, because they are dressed that way to attract onlookers; seems logical to do the same.

Next, invest in hobbies outside of stereotypical nerd stuff like video games and toys. You say you can't do anything, but here's one that's really easy to get into - cooking. It's mostly a solo act, it's therapeutic, and you feel like a fucking champ for completing any dish even if you've been following the recipe religiously. Your self-esteem will skyrocket, and will only get higher and higher as you improve and start getting a feel for cooking techniques. And not just that, but cooking is universally considered to be a valued talent; guys and girls alike are immediately impressed if you talk about what you've been making lately. If they show interest, offer to make something for them, you'd be hard-pressed to find anyone who would refuse the chance to get free food. I personally am not as good a cook as some of the people occupying the Food threads in KF, but nobody has to know that. Just three weeks ago, I invited several acquaintances over to my place for Thanksgiving, and their opinion of me immediately shot waaaaaaaay through the roof upon realizing that I can use a frying pan as more than just a bludgeoning instrument. In fact, even today's romance animes are catching on to this, as so many MCs nowadays have cooking and other domestic skills as a talent to break out from the cliche of just being a white bread boy, to the point of it ironically becoming a cliche in of itself.

Once you have completed these steps and develop more confidence in yourself, you might just find yourself becoming more amenable to the suggestions posted by everyone else who's trying to help you.
 
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Listen, I'm tired of lying and putting on a false face to be someone that I'm not. Every moment I'm here is just me being totally disingenuous. I still stand by everything that I've said 100%. My opinions never changed no matter what people said. You guys also don't really know my life or the situation, especially whichever fucktard that essentially said that I should stfu because my situation invalid as it's "not as worse as other people".

I will always stand by how I feel and nobody here can ever do a damn thing to change it.
 
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Gah. Another person?

Dont listen to half these weirdos, whoever you are. Some of these "men" live on here every day with no life of their own. They're hardly life examples.

And shower once a night with moisturizing soap. You teach people how to treat you. I agree with your statement of being disengenious.

And to those saying "kill yourself" you do it first and show us all how it's done.

You'll make it.
 
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WeeMars said:
[...] nobody here can ever do a damn thing to change it.
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One of the most sensible things you've said. Nobody here CAN change you. A girlfriend/boyfriend can't change you. Only you can change yourself.
You talk about how much you hate how you are and expect someone to love you. Turn that around; why would someone love you when all you do is whine about how much you hate your life? If you want to find someone, become someone worth finding. If you hated your life so much, then why don't you try and change it? Do you have a job? Are you going to school? If not, those would be the first steps here. If you're serious about the army, then start prepping your body for basic.

The army isn't a video game, but being part of something bigger than yourself would help give you purpose and you'll suffer through training with other dudes. Nothing brings people together like joined suffering. If you realize it isn't for you, then either go to a gym or learn a new skill. Read some books about history. Do SOMETHING to improve yourself. If you were a girl, would you want to be with a guy like you?

Also, why the hell would you come back here and bump your thread? Do you think we'll just go "Oh well, I guess he sure showed us."

This is KF. People sperging and saying we're mean or retarded just makes us bolder.
 
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Zodiax said:
One of the most sensible things you've said. Nobody here CAN change you. A girlfriend/boyfriend can't change you. Only you can change yourself.
You talk about how much you hate how you are and expect someone to love you. Turn that around; why would someone love you when all you do is whine about how much you hate your life? If you want to find someone, become someone worth finding. If you hated your life so much, then why don't you try and change it? Do you have a job? Are you going to school? If not, those would be the first steps here. If you're serious about the army, then start prepping your body for basic.

The army isn't a video game, but being part of something bigger than yourself would help give you purpose and you'll suffer through training with other dudes. Nothing brings people together like joined suffering. If you realize it isn't for you, then either go to a gym or learn a new skill. Read some books about history. Do SOMETHING to improve yourself. If you were a girl, would you want to be with a guy like you?

Also, why the hell would you come back here and bump your thread? Do you think we'll just go "Oh well, I guess he sure showed us."

This is KF. People sperging and saying we're mean or exceptional just makes us bolder.
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I completely lost my interest in sex and relationships. It just won't do anything for me. Plus some people should never have kids, and I think I'm one of those people.

I'm in school but I'm most likely going to fail considering I already fucked up an exam more than I can count and basically suck shit at all subjects.

I bump this thread because I can.

Best case scenario is working as a dollar store/retail employee, and there is a decent chance I'd fuck that up. Even if I do achieve that, what would even be the point. I'm honestly not going to live a happy life no matter what situation I'm in, simply because of how I am as a person. Since the very beginning I've always been pessimistic, shit at school, no friends, and I just don't care enough about existence or other people to change myself when I basically have the mindset that I am going to die young anyway.
 
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WeeMars said:
I completely lost my interest in sex and relationships. It just won't do anything for me. Plus some people should never have kids, and I think I'm one of those people.

I'm in school but I'm most likely going to fail considering I already fucked up an exam more than I can count and basically suck shit at all subjects.

I bump this thread because I can.

Best case scenario is working as a dollar store/retail employee, and there is a decent chance I'd fuck that up. Even if I do achieve that, what would even be the point. I'm honestly not going to live a happy life no matter what situation I'm in, simply because of how I am as a person. Since the very beginning I've always been pessimistic, shit at school, no friends, and I just don't care enough about existence or other people to change myself when I basically have the mindset that I am going to die young anyway.
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Get yourself some rope.
 
WeeMars said:
I completely lost my interest in sex and relationships. It just won't do anything for me. Plus some people should never have kids, and I think I'm one of those people.

I'm in school but I'm most likely going to fail considering I already fucked up an exam more than I can count and basically suck shit at all subjects.

I bump this thread because I can.

Best case scenario is working as a dollar store/retail employee, and there is a decent chance I'd fuck that up. Even if I do achieve that, what would even be the point. I'm honestly not going to live a happy life no matter what situation I'm in, simply because of how I am as a person. Since the very beginning I've always been pessimistic, shit at school, no friends, and I just don't care enough about existence or other people to change myself when I basically have the mindset that I am going to die young anyway.
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You're very tiring.
 
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