(Serious) Advice for Chris

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I remember someone saying if he would have moved into a group home after he graduated from high school, he would have been a lot better off.

So, yes, if he would have gotten help sometime after high school, or better yet, actually got the help he needed while in high school, he would have been much better off.
 
Thanks to the OP for a great topic. Who cares if he doesn't listen.

Admit that you are a fan artist, stop attempting to peddle your ideas to Nintendo and continue to use Sonichu as a means to improve your art skills. Clean your room and put away the toys you aren't using. Organize your Lego table with seperate labeled bins. Take down all of the old decorations from your walls and frame a few pieces that you like the most, but try to hang up some new pictures that reflect who you are as an adult. Understand that your decision to live as a woman in society will be taken seriously by other adults who interact with you, and you will be perceived as an individual who is transitioning. This will make your "love quest" much more difficult to realize, if not effectively ending it already. If you want to achieve your goal of completing the Love Quest, consider ending your Tomgirl experiment. Go to a Supercuts and trust the stylist. Look for a part time job and be the best worker they have. Wear clothes that fit properly and don't wear brightly colored tops to identify yourself as an autistic individual. Never wear the medallion, and no slogans or phrases on any item of clothing. Most importantly, stop being angry at the world for not dealing you all the cards you feel you deserve. There are people who have it worse than you, just like there are people who have it better than you. Life is what you make of it.
 
GFYS said:
Hey, does anyone think there was a point in time where Chris might have heeded such advice from someone other than his parents? Personally, I think he was already too broken - too set in his self-destructive ways - to fix, by the time he was discovered by the internet. If there was such a time, I think it probably had to be sometime before his breakdown at PVCC.
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He can heed advice from people other than his parents. Rocky, for example. But anyway, people frequently bring up that Chris doesn't listen to advice and when they bring this up, I wonder what advice they're talking about. Who would be giving Chris advice, other than his parents or Rocky?
 
The best thing for him would be to start a new life. Change his name, move, and start over. But realistically, I'd tell him this:
You need routines - positive routines that you do every day. Start with yourself - shower every morning, using soap on your body and shampoo on your hair. Pick out sensible, adult male clothes for yourself every day. Clean up the house as much as Barb will let you, a little every day.
You understandably want to get out of the house as much as possible, but find better things to do than loitering in McDonalds all day. Go for walks, go to the library and read (even if it's only Goosebumps for now), etc. Try to find inexpensive hobbies you can do outside the house without getting arrested. Set up one day of the week to be your shopping day where you go to the grocery store and mall, and don't shop on any other day. Your other 6 days should be spent doing things on your own. A job or volunteering would be best, but if you can't bring yourself to do that, at least get out and do things that don't involve passively watching a screen.
Buy a printed newspaper every day and read it. It'll help stimulate your neglected brain and diminish your isolation by giving you a sense of what's going on in the outside world. Then Barb can bind the old newspapers into bales and hoard them, so everyone is happy.

Realistically I think this sort of stuff is the best we can hope for - replacing some of Chris's poisonous inertia with somewhat better habits.
 
Marvin said:
He can heed advice from people other than his parents. Rocky, for example. But anyway, people frequently bring up that Chris doesn't listen to advice and when they bring this up, I wonder what advice they're talking about. Who would be giving Chris advice, other than his parents or Rocky?
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After all the heartsweet sagas died, Chris still watches TV and movies and also plays games. A lot of his behavior seems to be him emulating the most base or selfish behavior he sees on his TV screen, seemingly missing that most of it parodying such ill behavior. So why doesn't Chris ever seem walk away with the positive lessons in these same shows, movies, or games?

With rare exception, even "retarded commoner" lead characters like Homer Simpson and Peter Griffin will redeem themselves or exhibit some real world logic (they work or seek employment, they socialize with new people, they attempt new things, they're punished for their stupid antics, and occasionally learn a lesson). He's also watched a lot of classic and kids programming, with even more positive reinforcement of good behavior and life lessons Chris could heed. Yet, I see none of that, in Chris' behavior. Maybe Chris somehow misses all of these constructive moments, but I think it's more logical to assume he's actively ignoring them or somehow - I honestly have no idea how - mentally incapable of learning a positive lesson.
 
GFYS said:
Marvin said:
He can heed advice from people other than his parents. Rocky, for example. But anyway, people frequently bring up that Chris doesn't listen to advice and when they bring this up, I wonder what advice they're talking about. Who would be giving Chris advice, other than his parents or Rocky?
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After all the heartsweet sagas died, Chris still watches TV and movies and also plays games. A lot of his behavior seems to be him emulating the most base or selfish behavior he sees on his TV screen, seemingly missing that most of it parodying such ill behavior. So why doesn't Chris ever seem walk away with the positive lessons in these same shows, movies, or games?
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I don't see many references to TV in his behavior. Or, anything that would make me wonder about him missing the positive lessons. Any examples?

GFYS said:
Yet, I see none of that, in Chris' behavior. Maybe Chris somehow misses all of these constructive moments, but I think it's more logical to assume he's actively ignoring them or somehow - I honestly have no idea how - mentally incapable of learning a positive lesson.
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Well, you also miss a good portion of Chris' behavior. Close to all of it, actually. Not much of it has been public for a long time.
 
Marvin said:
He can heed advice from people other than his parents. Rocky, for example. But anyway, people frequently bring up that Chris doesn't listen to advice and when they bring this up, I wonder what advice they're talking about. Who would be giving Chris advice, other than his parents or Rocky?
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Well, lesse, there's John Tesh, Red Skelton, Sonichu & Rosechu - you know, the usual.
 
I'd tell him the following:

Chris, pooping yourself is fucking gross, and you need to stop doing it. If you're so autistic that you can't tell whether you're about to let loose with a shit or just fart, you should always assume the worst, and go to a fucking toilet. After you stop pooping yourself, work on fixing all the rest of the horrible shit in your life. But for first, for the love of God (and the Bear), stop pooping yourself!
 
Marvin said:
Well, you also miss a good portion of Chris' behavior. Close to all of it, actually. Not much of it has been public for a long time.
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Fair enough. I hope more becomes revealed to us, sooner than later. I'll be shocked if such reveals more than one positive aspect of Chris, to every five negative aspects, however.

Something to consider, if such revelations take place... If it turns out knowledge of numerous redeeming traits or behavior have been withheld from this community, it would be best to include specific justification. Folks - myself included - might feel like we were intentionally being misled into thinking the worst of Chris, without such reasonable justification. I think that's what lead to so many dissenting opinions, during the hooker saga. Not that I think such an "inner circle" owes us anything - I have my doubts there's really much organization or agenda amongst CWC insiders... Just trying to avoid another shitstorm within the community, and save you from headaches. Despite my very contrary behavior, I do respect your unique position in Christory.
 
GFYS said:
Marvin said:
Well, you also miss a good portion of Chris' behavior. Close to all of it, actually. Not much of it has been public for a long time.
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Fair enough. I hope more becomes revealed to us, sooner than later. I'll be shocked if such reveals more than one positive aspect of Chris, to every five negative aspects, however.

Something to consider, if such revelations take place... If it turns out knowledge of numerous redeeming traits or behavior have been withheld from this community, it would be best to include specific justification. Folks - myself included - might feel like we were intentionally being misled into thinking the worst of Chris, without such reasonable justification. I think that's what lead to so many dissenting opinions, during the hooker saga. Not that I think such an "inner circle" owes us anything - I have my doubts there's really much organization or agenda amongst CWC insiders... Just trying to avoid another shitstorm within the community, and save you from headaches. Despite my very contrary behavior, I do respect your unique position in Christory.
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Eh, our criteria for not releasing things are based on worries about releasing private information about non-troll characters (so wallflower type people, etc), or people who have left trolling and don't want to be hassled, or when we don't want to endanger our trolling connections.

In the past, Chris would frequently release public videos that end up being rant videos or things like that, so, maybe the public got some sort of consistent picture of Chris that didn't match him IRL? I don't know, I mean, I would just say that the average, public idea of Chris is mostly accurate.

Just keep in mind that he's an actual person. Basically, just take a retard, let them grow up and get spoiled a lot, and you get Chris. Like, rich kids who grow up getting spoiled are dicks a lot of the time, sure, but they still sometimes have feelings. Same sort of thing with Chris.
 
Eat something healthy, try at least some effort to find and get a job, and be a bit rational for once.
 
Marvin said:
Just keep in mind that he's an actual person. Basically, just take a retard, let them grow up and get spoiled a lot, and you get Chris. Like, rich kids who grow up getting spoiled are dicks a lot of the time, sure, but they still sometimes have feelings. Same sort of thing with Chris.
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I guess the point I seem to want to reiterate, is that folks should keep in mind that it's not ~that~ uncommon for people with mental impairment to be incapable of certain emotions or thought processes that neurotypical people take for granted. I can personally vouch for this.

Also, in my defense; the lack of insight into a riddle as bizarre as Christian Weston Chandler, would breed wild speculation in most folks.

Oh yeah, it slipped my mind. I, too, would suggest he at least attempt to eat better. Nutrition (or lack of) can have a very profound effect on not just our physical well being, but our mental and emotional.
 
One more bit of advice for Chris: Subscribe to your local newspaper and take the grocery fliers with you when you go shopping to get good deals on good food.
 
It's just a reference to the June 2012 poster campaign.
 
Advices for Chris? Hmmm...

Play some good games, not the childish ones!
Read some books, classical and modern alike!
Take good advices for once and...
STOP DEPENDING ON YOUR MOM FOR TENDER LOVING CARE, AND START SHOWING TO OTHERS THAT YOU ACTUALLY CARE AND NOT TO ACT LIKE A POMPOUS PRICK FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE, OKAY?!
 
Best possible advice to everything Chris has done, is doing and will do:

You're doing it wrong.
 
DykesDykesChina said:
GFYS, your sig comes across rather A-Loggy, as far as I'm concerned...
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Oh, really now? It's from one of the mock propaganda campaigns, after the events of 28/10/11 started to unravel. Frankly, considering his known behavior over the past few years,I don't think Chris has empathy. It would seem I'm not the only one.

Are you concerned enough to try and make me change my sig?
 
About Sonichu and his Art

Learn to take criticism in your art, Chris. Even constructive criticism. Every artist goes through it, it helps them to better themselves at drawing rather than destroying them. I know it may sound hurtful because you feel you worked hard on a piece, but do understand that you're showing this to the public. It's just surprising how you made 11 - 12 comic issues of "Sonichu" without much improvement or growth as you went along. Study more art styles, and make your own style -- it does NOT mean take a drawing style and copy it as your own.

If you want to continue drawing "Sonichu," you have to understand that it's only going to be fan content to already existing franchises. You don't own anything, unfortunately. You must understand this. The best thing you can do is start making original short stories. No Pokémon, no Sonic the Hedgehog, no Sailor Moon, Family Guy, or even Transformers. Don't even look at them for inspiration. You know what a lot of video games use when making a base for a story? Myths and legends from around the world. Try reading a few. You might be surprised of the similarities you play in some video games. Open your mind and expand your horizons. Maybe one day, you can come up with a good story for your next comic series, if you're interested in trying again.

About Chris and his Love Life

Having a relationship isn't all that glitters, Chris. You have to get some kind of flowing income other than your "monthly tugboat." A lady would most likely not settle for your local McDonald's restaurant, or put up with a 31-year old living with his mother. At your age, you should be able to have your own apartment or share a house with a roommate, at least. In fact, a "heartsweet" is the last thing you want to even think about. That goal is so far away for you right now because of the way you're handling things.

Stop worrying about the "trolls" you've been so scared of for so long, don't even worry about Tara Strong and her views on Trolling (because honestly, there's really a difference between trolling and cyberbullying. You're wasting your time, dear.). Take small steps into bettering yourself and instead of buying video games all the time, take steps into clearing your face of the pimples and zits with Proactiv or something. And cut your hair... please.
 
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