I just hate the fake, forcing themselves to be gentle and submissive thing they have going on.
For example, feminist guy after defending "Buffy" to a feminist woman who dislikes the show.
Most importantly, I am sorry about being belittling and mansplaining. My gut reaction was to defend myself and my words, but I realize that I really should have the decency to admit that I was wrong. After all, it’s not for me to decide whether my behavior is oppressive. I don’t want to make excuses for my post, but I do want to try to tell you why I felt the need to write it.
I am actually a feminist. Feminism is an important thing for the world and an important part of my beliefs. I read a lot about it. I read some interviews with Joss Whedon where he describes the feminist message he tried to convey in the story of Buffy. I also read Wikipedia articles (BLAH BLAH, please pity fuck me already before i kill myself)
when I came across your post that said that Buffy is actually anti-feminist, it was jarring to me.
It didn’t cross my mind that I shouldn’t be telling a woman what’s feminist and what’s not, but it should have. In truth, I didn’t read your blog carefully enough
Anyway, I’m sorry I caused you trouble, and I’m sorry that I was belittling and mansplaining and sexist, and if you got to the end of this comment then I’m sorry that you had to keep reading words I wrote. (yes, that last part is unchanged, he wrote that)