- Joined
- Apr 5, 2015
I have only been going out for a month dude/lady. Before that i had a period where i had 0 friends and even before that i had fake friends who never invited me anywhere.
Okay then you need to chill the fuck out! That's only a month! You are still getting to know people, and if you go to the same bars/clubs each week, you will get to know all the other regs and start being comfortable with them. Then you will enjoy it more and you will also present as more confident. No one outside of movies walks into a bar and has every girl there throw themselves at them. Hey, even in Saturday Night Fever John Travolta is only a slayer in his own club; he gets treated like shit in the others he's not a regular at.
Be cool, dude. You have made an excellent step forward in making new friends and finding confidence to mix with them in new places. You're doing good! Stop shitting on yourself so much, hey? Just keep going out regularly over the summer and concentrate on having a good time. It's really true: people are more attracted to confidence than they are to good looks.