Yes thats exactly what i do though admittedly not since boxing day have i been to the clubs. just because you and your student friends think a good night is playing indie rock in little circles with your guitars.
Guys who go to maga etc, just go out there every guy pretty much is on roids. Do you think theres geeky Fallout Boy fans walking around with their Macbooks to browse Tumblr with?
Both men and women are vainer than ever right now. Most just stop at roids haircut and tan (and tattoos but thats different).
Oh I see now. You're hanging out with the wrong crowd.
Here's a little story for you about a personal revelation I had.
When I first got here, I thought that having a clean slate in life in a new culture meant that I could somehow swoop in and build up this persona of the person I thought I wanted to be. Plus, there were plenty of parties around and, yes, pretty girls too. But after going to a few parties and failing epically to get laid, I've come to realize that parties just weren't my thing and the women who normally frequented those parties weren't the type of girl I would even care to hang out with.
So while living out here in the boonies and my unpredictable work schedule is pretty much hurting my chances to go out and meet the people I would like to hang out with and do the things I want to do, I'm not going to sacrifice who I am just to appeal to shallow people and hope to stick my dick in some woman whom I feel I can't even connect with on a friendly level (because I realized that in order to bone someone, I have to like them as a human being first and not find them to be annoying) just to appease the assholes who keep on asking me why I don't hit on the South American girls who come here to work every year and corner them like some wild animal that can only be tamed by my cock, whether they want to or not. Nah. I'd rather get a better job and closer to the things and people I'm interested in, than sacrifice my dignity and sanity just so that I can go back on love-shy and proclaim that I finally did the deed.
I think you should stop hanging out with assholes and in places you clearly don't like, to depress yourself more. Maybe even if you lower your standards a bit, that "Plain Jane HB5" lady friend of yours will start looking like the 8 or 9 that she really is, thanks to her shared interests and personality. Shit, she might even be into the same kinks and fetishes that you are than the snobby club bitches and would gladly peg you with that big black plastic cock!