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[CatFace]

See, but that would mean accepting that social interaction, and social connections, play a part in success both romantically and professionally. That would be something they could actually, oh god the horror, change about themselves.

It's easier to stay in the pity party when you can moan about never being able to afford plastic surgery rather than admitting you are socially inept and need help with it.

 

[SU 390]

I love how these fuckbots think a manlet can't get laid for being "shortcel", something that women are thus guaranteed to ignore the person for. Danny DeVito (5' 0")? Seth Green (5'4")? Dustin Hoffman (5'5")?

I can name many other good examples but the point is that if people are able to find you interesting past your appearance those features will cease to even matter nearly as much as sluthate will say they do. These individuals have built a career for themselves instead of whining about unfair life is for not giving them what they want which ultimately gave them an distinct advantage over people that are content to never change how they approach people or even reexamine their priorities.

They have Looks, Money and Status dontcha know!

 

[Duke Nukem]

They have Looks, Money and Status dontcha know!

>tfw too poor, ugly, and unpopular to move out of parents' basement and get friends/girlfriends

@Black Sonichu Being ASPD and having low / beaten down self esteem does a number on one's mental faculties.

Though, even for sociopaths these guys are a few cents short of a dollar.

Essentially, to people with ASPD, appearance is everything. It doesn't matter to such people if traits are archetypal or stereotypical, they're what they see in others. Sight and appearance are all that matter - lies can be made up to fill in everything else.

Anything to convince themselves that it's anything's/anyone's fault except for their own. Honestly, at their current stage in life, getting girls should be the last thing on their minds. But I can see how someone can get sucked into a state like that. A guy on my Facebook friends list posts constantly about how girls he likes don't ever reciprocate his feelings and whatnot.

And of course, he never listens. But he's a genuinely nice guy, as opposed to the self-proclaimed NGs we deal with here.

 

[AnOminous]

According to "looks theory," actors like Dustin Hoffman, Tom Cruise and Johnny "Everyone's Gay for Me" Depp would have been laughed out of any casting office or talent agency they entered, but they very obviously weren't.

Short but with a big head is a great combination for an actor. Makes it easy to do those tight intense shots that win Oscars.

 

[JU 199]

http://sluthate.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=86336

 

[Cthulu]

http://sluthate.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=86336


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A bit of advise for all you SHer's out there. Never stick your dick in crazy!

 

[Ruin]

I'm 50/50 on whether or not that's a troll.

 

[Big Nasty]

I'm 50/50 on whether or not that's a troll.

100% stupid, though.

 

[SU 390]

http://sluthate.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=86336


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This may get deleted (thanks @Null) but all I can say to this post is this

EDIT: Also, why the fuck is he going to somewhere where he might be killed? That is sound advice, "Don't stick your dick in crazy."

 

[Ti-99/4A]

If mrz is going to use select and isolated tribal cultures to support his evo-psych bullshit, I'd love to see him explain the successful and thriving Mosuo culture, the "Kingdom of Women" that has persisted in China for millennia. The Mosuo are a matrilineal agrarian society with free love, multiple sex partners, communal living, responsibilities and child-rearing shared among families, and no traditional concept of marriage. At all.

Bolding mine:


And before the Haterades try to claim that this is some kind of radical feminist enclave that strips away the rights of the father:



I don't know about you guys, but if I had to choose between a culture of community, gender equality and free love, or a culture where tribes continually murder each other so that a portion of the men can rape several underaged girls, I know which one I'd pick.

He'd just use one of their favorite few real words; outliers.

 

[Shidoshi]

So I managed to meet up with that girl I mentioned about 20 pages ago. We had a chat and ate some food, she has a great personality but her looks don't do it for me. I'm not going to pursue this further however our conversation was far from boring, so that's a positive to take away.

Surprisingly I didn't feel self conscious or nervous like I always do. I aim to replicate this feeling in the future.

 

[Shidoshi]

I'm 50/50 on whether or not that's a troll.

Either way it's utterly absurd. Those motherfuckers. .....

 

[Stratomsk]

but her looks don't do it for me.

Can you extrapolate on what you said here?

 

[Shidoshi]

Can you extrapolate on what you said here?

Oh I don't find her attractive, she is average. She didn't want to show a picture on her online profile but I met up with her anyway.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

Oh I don't find her attractive, she is average. She didn't want to show a picture on her online profile but I met up with her anyway.

O..Okay...
Would you like to continue that line of exposition? Do you require above-average looks in order to be happy with someone?

 

[Shidoshi]

O..Okay...
Would you like to continue that line of exposition? Do you require above-average looks in order to be happy with someone?

Yeah that's my preference as I imagine is most men's too. But if she shows no respect and has a repulsive personality then I wouldn't be happy even if she was pretty.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

Yeah that's my preference as I imagine is most men's too. But if she shows no respect and has a repulsive personality then I wouldn't be happy even if she was pretty.

Understandable, but you also seem to have a lot of social anxiety. Nobody is perfect, right? Have you considered that perhaps you should lower your physical standards and focus on connecting on an emotional level? As a guy who fucked this up a lot before getting into a serious relationship, I can assure you that looking for arm candy will not bring you the happiness you think it will.

 

[Shidoshi]

Understandable, but you also seem to have a lot of social anxiety. Nobody is perfect, right? Have you considered that perhaps you should lower your physical standards and focus on connecting on an emotional level? As a guy who fucked this up a lot before getting into a serious relationship, I can assure you that looking for arm candy will not bring you the happiness you think it will.

Correct. I popped some beta blockers 30 minutes before meeting up with her. It feels amazing when you dont have to worry about sweating, nervous tremors or having a dry lumpy throat. As for physical attractiveness I'm just looking for someone who's looks match mine. I tend to make a mental rule in my head; If at any point I have to force myself to like her physical features then I'm not attracted to her.

What you call arm candy I see as a fulfilling sexual relationship and you need attractiveness for that. As well as emotional connection I believe that's an important part of a relationship.

Nevertheless you seem to have a lot of experience. Any stories to share?

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

Correct. I popped some beta blockers 30 minutes before meeting up with her. It feels amazing when you dont have to worry about sweating, nervous tremors or having a dry lumpy throat. As for physical attractiveness I'm just looking for someone who's looks match mine. I tend to make a mental rule in my head; If at any point I have to force myself to like her physical features then I'm not attracted to her.

What you call arm candy I see as a fulfilling sexual relationship and you need attractiveness for that. As well as emotional connection I believe that's an important part of a relationship.

Nevertheless you seem to have a lot of experience. Any stories to share?

I don't know. You seem perpetually preoccupied with the issue. Also, the immediate clarification of seeking a fulfilling sexual relationship is telling. Sex is indeed an important part, but I'm not sure that's your issue. Be careful about prioritizing the wrong thing. You're quick to respond at the "arm candy" comment, but that's always a short-term game, I'm afraid.
I do, but there are very few such stories I'm particularly proud of. Suffice to say that, particularly in college, it's easy to get wrapped up in an extremely superficial view of sexuality and relationships. It takes a while to realize that's not what relationships are about, and that it will never make you happy. I'm in a committed, meaningful relationship now, and I could give a flying fuck what she looks like today or in 50 years. Don't hear me wrong, she's breathtakingly beautiful now, yes, but that will fade. What's important is that we have a connection that extends beyond that. People get old, they get fat, they get wrinkles and liver spots. If you're basing this around looks, your relationship will be on borrowed time.

 

[Shidoshi]

I don't know. You seem perpetually preoccupied with the issue. Also, the immediate clarification of seeking a fulfilling sexual relationship is telling. Sex is indeed an important part, but I'm not sure that's your issue. Be careful about prioritizing the wrong thing. You're quick to respond at the "arm candy" comment, but that's always a short-term game, I'm afraid.
I do, but there are very few such stories I'm particularly proud of. Suffice to say that, particularly in college, it's easy to get wrapped up in an extremely superficial view of sexuality and relationships. It takes a while to realize that's not what relationships are about, and that it will never make you happy. I'm in a committed, meaningful relationship now, and I could give a flying fuck what she looks like today or in 50 years. Don't hear me wrong, she's breathtakingly beautiful now, yes, but that will fade. What's important is that we have a connection that extends beyond that. People get old, they get fat, they get wrinkles and liver spots. If you're basing this around looks, your relationship will be on borrowed time.

I see what you're saying about prioritizing the wrong thing. I shouldn't be disillusioned about the value of looks and understand that they will fade and be prepared for that.