No problem. Alienfranco textwall special coming up.
A woman who joined sluthate back in late March (she didn't post much before May) messaged me almost three weeks ago since she noticed that I lived in the same city as her. She suggested we hang out since she's bored (this should have been a red flag to me. Considering my reputation on the forum. Why would a woman want to hang out with a misogynist on sluthate with 4000+ posts?) I told her that I didn't feel comfortable hanging out with her because I'm autistic and introverted. I also didn't trust her. What is a woman doing on sluthate? You'd think it was a dude. She messaged me later that day asking me to chat in Google Hangouts. I give her an alternate Google account she could ping me at because I didn't trust her with my real Hangouts account.
So we talked for a few days. She would message me first every day pretty much. After a few days she took a selfie and shared it with me. I took a selfie and shared mine with her. She said that a cute, sweet guy like me shouldn't be on sluthate. I'm different from the other guys on there. I had my guard down by this point. I didn't think she was some sort of predator. She continued messaging me first and would flirt with me now even though she had a boyfriend. Asking me straight out if I like facesitting and pussy eating. And when I replied in the affirmative, she said that she would keep that in mind and I'd maybe come in handy some day. That's not shit you say to a guy when you have a boyfriend. So I got confused. I then asked her if we could hang out that weekend (one week mark of talking) but she said she was busy. That weekend she suggested hanging out next weekend but "no funny shit" she said. We exchanged numbers that weekend and talked on the phone for 40-60+ mins at a time. She'd text me first still. The flirting continued. One time she asked me what my cock looked like. I offered to show her a pic and she was like SHOW ME and I sent it. I figured she was looking to cheat. Why ask for cock pics if you have a bf?
When we did hang out after 2 weeks of talking, I was too nervous to try anything because she had a boyfriend. And as an autistic guy, I figured out that any girl that isn't put off by my autism usually gives clear signals that they want to be kissed. And I didn't get that signal from her I don't think. So I went home feeling dejected after I dropped her off at a location near her house. We talked on Skype later that day and she told me that she would have jumped me in my car if she didn't have a boyfriend and that she wanted to ride me. I told her that I'd pick her up (she doesn't live far at all) and take her back to my place to fuck right now and she did the blushing smiley thing. But the same old "I have a boyfriend tho" shit. Even though she'd complain about her "unavailable" bf and used me as a shoulder to cry on. Then she got cold on me during the weekend. I showed messages to my neurotypical friends (including a fellow Kiwifarmer) to help an autistic brother interpret this shit. And my neurotypical chick friend in RL of 4 years agreed that this girl was an attention whore who was using me. And that she likely had Narcissist or Borderline PD. Just like my former oneitis who led me on for months.
So I went on sluthate and called her out. She eventually admitted to lying to me about almost everything (she is a pathological liar) because she didn't trust me. And she wanted to get to know me more before she felt like she could trust me enough to date me. Saying that she was going to tell me she didn't have a bf later this week because she liked me and was starting to trust me. As if lying makes for a good foundation for a courtship process/relationship.
Sluthate accused her of being my alt account because she lives in the same city as me (our IP addresses are different) AND it's rare for women to join sluthate (no shit). She did provide a body pic with a piece of paper with sluthate.com and her username written on it. But cats, the virgin loser admin, accused me of hiring a prostitute to take that photo. And their admin team (virginal loser cats, 3D Facial Analysis, etc.) and much of their userbase has a hard-on for me and wanted to drive me out. And this as a convenient excuse to drive me out. To say that a female user with 500+ posts was my sock puppet.
Their community is fucking delusional. Full of vultures and jackals. I was actually thinking about leaving the Manosphere and sluthate behind when I was talking with this girl. Because of the cognitive dissonance of liking this girl while being a sluthater. But now with everything that has happened with that fucking forum, I am definitely done with them and this Manosphere shit. It's a toxic environment. It's like a cult. Where so many users are addicted to hitting F5 all day every day. Even that chick has been sucked into that community.
