SlutHate II: Showerthoughts and Discussion

meltychocolate said:
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I am in my 30s and looking back at it, don't matter at all bro.

Life is lived in your adolescence and college years. Life is lived as a high school athlete and college fratboy, the rest of it is boring. Only in your high school days are you so full of hope and a brighter outlook for the future. Once you hit college, it is all about rushing a fraternity, getting a bid, and enjoying your college days with your cool bros. You enjoy those 4 years (5 if you're lucky) with socializing, partying, drinking, and just being young for one last time. After that, you hit the real world.

The only thing I would suggest at that point is, I hope you worked hard in college or got some kind of job in a big city because if you didn't, welcome to a depressing life. Some of the people I know that moved to NYC and Boston after college managed to prolong their youth for just a few more years before settling down.

Outside of that, I would recommend have a clear career path in life while you have the energy for it. College ain't enough these days, gotta go to grad school. Become an MD or some kind of high paying profession because once you hit your 30s, it matters. Life in your 30s is going to suck anyways, it is why I am on here, but it sucks a lot less once you have a stable job that pays six figures.
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advice is useless, because I was giving myself advice when I was younger too, I still do it and I still don't follow it.

You can't motivate yourself to do stuff. And you can't control stuff you have no control over. Most people would just say "be outgoing" but it doesn't matter because if you aren't outgoing right now there is a reason. Just like "get friends", there is a reason you don't have friends in the first place. When I was your age I had a girlfriend that I really didn't like but I still sticked around (4 years) because I was afraid to be alone, thing that would have probably happened, so I probably just took the less painful way.

As an oldcel, the biggest redpill I can give is that you need to learn to accept the truth, that not everyone is entitled to a life of pure fun. Most people are average and need to be so. But it's better that you don't take this advice right now because it would jade you too early and you are too young to start acting like a 80y.o.

But of course, if you are on this website, filling your mind with shit and destroying what remains of your self-esteem, it's already too late.

If I could go back to the past, I'd go back when I was in uterus, because that's when you have to take action. But it doesn't even matter, because you have no control on that. It's just a matter of luck, and the universe is probably deterministic. This kind of shit obviously only makes you determined in the direction of living your life in a more depressing way.

You are already an average joe and a normal dude, so I couldn't even tell you: be normal. You are a mediocre dude destined to live a mediocre life with ups and downs. If you want more ups than downs the only advice that matters is: DELUDE YOURSELF. Do dumb shit, low inhibition shit, do what you want, approach women if you want to have sex or fuck hookers. And when the intrinsecal social eye that everyone of us has comes to judge you, stab it with a knife.

Being on sluthate just makes the social eye more aware and active, making you rationalize everything you do as "you aren't good enough" "you are subhuman" etc. If you want to go on on this line of life, just do it, fucking nothing will happen, you will have minor chances of death from traumatic/infective reasons because living a miserable life with no exposure to the outer world, you will have increased chances of degenerative, autoimmune and cancerous diseases because of lack of phyisical activity and no social life (there are studies that prove that being a loner is much more toxic than being a smoker or being obese) and obviously > risk of balding (which is so fucking important on here) and depression/anxiety and mental unhappiness, implying they are actual diseases and not just signs that your body sends you to tell you to get him the fuck outta there.

The social eye, also called guilt and shame, is the main culprit of inceldom and general lack of life quality. Being on sluthate boosts its activity by 1000x. It makes you get plastic surgery and do other dumb shit to your body because you aren't good enough. But it's not sluthate's fault. Sluthate is just a forum. The problem is: Hanging around people that bring you down, the opposite of having friends. When you spend the whole day on sluthate, it's like being a jew in a auschwitz, with the only exceptions that there are no nazis, and everyone is a jew, and everyone thinks that every other jew is actually a nazi.

Then you hang around on sluthate some time, and you discover that everyone has his own opinions of what makes a man "worthy and honorable". You also discover that the general trends change with time, going from compact midfaces to long faces with long ramuses. But then you go out in the real world and see that this shit doesn't matter for people who never saw sluthate, since there are "subhumans" having sex with hotties, and good looking dudes having sex with monsters, there are homosexuals, there are lesbians, there are asexual and everyone has his/her own worldview, even if you are blind to it.

When you decide to stop giving a shit about the social eye and limit it to the socially acceptable, then you start enjoying life and its little things, and this thing brings you to expose yourself more, do more stuff, get more interests and find yourself having people around that you like and who like you.

So the solution is: instead of raping your brain into living a miserable life, you can also decide to live the only life you want trying to look for the good things, and trying to get what you want. Comfortable life with no risks, living in the senseless fear, until you find yourself 60y.o. and tell you how much of a piece of shit you were in your youth for not even trying to fuck that hot girl that gave you the eye, and that the worst thing that could have happened if you tried to approach her would have been that some faceless hater on a forum would have told you you were "coping" and "bluepilled", not knowing that that hater is a suicidal 35 year old fat depressed cunt whose main hobby is trolling, because he hasn't invested in anything else in his life (mind you, he is also human like you, and you could become like him, and it's ok, the universe is indifferent). Or you choose to give a big fuck you to the haters and, most of all, to yourself, for denying you to try to get something cool out of this transitory chemical phenomenon called "your life", because nobody is obliging you to post on sluthate, nobody is obliging you to be a faggot in front of women, and nobody is obliging you to feel miserable about yourself and think you are a shit subhuman or whatever.

But obviously, if you even read my long post instead of commenting "tl;dr" or whatever dumb insulting shit your unempathic brain may offer me after the minutes I invested to write you my legit thoughts, it won't do shit to you. You might feel the bliss of receiving a message due to my successful attempt at communication. My message may inspire you determinate thoughts, but in the end, if you keep doing what you are doing right now and your habits, my message will have been ultimately useless. And this is what will statistically be most probable.

Also, I know you are addicted to the chemicals that you release when you bash yourself emotionally, or when other people do it, so I'm going to link you to this post for free mental masturbation.

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/10 ... your-life/

You might have had hot girlfriends, and fun in your life, and a good job and good kids, but it doesn't matter now, because you read someone on the internet telling you you are destined to live a shit life. You will receive that message in your head and live the feeling for a certain amount of time. So, maybe, for your own good, you might be wanting to start seeking for the stuff that instead makes you feel good with yourself and with life. In the end you will always die, mind you, but at least you will have had more happiness before death.
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These people really need to read nietzsche's rebuttal of nihilism
 
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A few years back, Scott Adams of Dilbert fame had a brief spat with Jezebel following his iteration of the "women suppress men in society" trope. Jezebel did their usual thing, there was a bit of a kerfuffle at the time, but it has been pretty much forgotten.

However one of my favourite bloggers analysed both Scott Adams argument and Jezebels response, and several years later I still think about it when reading Loveshys/Sluthaters make the same tired argument.

Putting it here, just in case someone fancies an interesting read about the reasons why men make this argument (and why Jezebel are awful).

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All they did was bully and insult him. "You're a jerk, accept it! I said accept it!" But that power is precisely what he's complaining about. So not only does it not convince Adams (or anyone else) what he's saying is wrong, it confirms for him he is right about them.
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Because if that is true, then it isn't his own inability to score chicks that's limiting him. "I'd love to just walk up to some hot chick in a bar and just take her home and bang her," he might think, "but society doesn't let me." Really? Dude, you need to switch bars.
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What Adams doesn't realize is that this world controlled by women, who prevent his fulfillment and happiness, does not exist; and that he thinks it does drives women, and at least a few men, bananas. But it is absolutely necessary to his survival that he believes it exists, or else all is lost.
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MyBalls YourChin said:
Choice quotes: Because if that is true, then it isn't his own inability to score chicks that's limiting him. "I'd love to just walk up to some hot chick in a bar and just take her home and bang her," he might think, "but society doesn't let me." Really? Dude, you need to switch bars.
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This guy could traverse the entire universe looking for a woman in a bar who will have consensual sex with him and I doubt he'd find it. Not saying that blaming the inability to get laid on others is a really healthy exercise, but c'mon, let's not pretend this guy could get laid with any semblance of consistency.
 
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DiamondInTheRough said:
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This guy could traverse the entire universe looking for a woman in a bar who will have consensual sex with him and I doubt he'd find it. Not saying that blaming the inability to get laid on others is a really healthy exercise, but c'mon, let's not pretend this guy could get laid with any semblance of consistency.
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This guy could traverse the entire universe looking for a woman in a bar who will have consensual sex with him and I doubt he'd find it. Not saying that blaming the inability to get laid on others is a really healthy exercise, but c'mon, let's not pretend this guy could get laid with any semblance of consistency.
 
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DiamondInTheRough said:
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This guy could traverse the entire universe looking for a woman in a bar who will have consensual sex with him and I doubt he'd find it. Not saying that blaming the inability to get laid on others is a really healthy exercise, but c'mon, let's not pretend this guy could get laid with any semblance of consistency.
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I'm not interested in a Sluthate level of 'rate his face' discussion. I'm interested in the lies people tell themselves, i.e. the entirety of that article.

In this instance, it's the same lie a huge proportion of Sluthaters and Lookism posters tell themselves.

C'mon diamond, I thought you were smarter than that.
 
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DiamondInTheRough said:
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This guy could traverse the entire universe looking for a woman in a bar who will have consensual sex with him and I doubt he'd find it. Not saying that blaming the inability to get laid on others is a really healthy exercise, but c'mon, let's not pretend this guy could get laid with any semblance of consistency.
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If that's supposed to be Scott Adams, I think it should be pointed out that he's actually married, and thus did, in fact, find a woman who has consensual sex with him on a regular basis. He's also responsible for creating a widely read comic strip, and based on the number of Dilbert calenders I see, probably pretty wealthy, so he could also have regular sex with high-class call girls. But hey, looks are everything, right?
 
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MyBalls YourChin said:
I'm not interested in a Sluthate level of 'rate his face' discussion. I'm interested in the lies people tell themselves, i.e. the entirety of that article.

In this instance, it's the same lie a huge proportion of Sluthaters and Lookism posters tell themselves.

C'mon diamond, I thought you were smarter than that.
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I know that. I thought in that instance, the author made an inane comment. I'm not unfamiliar with that lie, 99% of guys who are bitter about women just can't get laid.
 
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