So who else here has autism, or knows someone who has it?

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hellbound said:
TylerRVG said:
Aspergers (pronounced 'harbinger' or 'manage', not 'ass-burgers', silly Americans :pickle: )

Dr. Hans Asperger was Austrian so it's pronounced with the same "g" as Goebbels, Göring and Gestapo you limey fuck.

Since Aspergers is Austrian I thought it was pronounced the same way as "Hitler"? *yawn*
 
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A-Stump said:
I don't really see how anyone with autism on a tugboat could be here, a forum for a guy on a tugboat. Most of the discussion about Chris's tugboat either has to do with how he wastes it or doesn't deserve it. I'm not going to get too much into it again but how can you be here in any fashion that isn't ironic in nature. It makes no sense.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGp9P6QvMjY


Love a good Lincoln joke.
 
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Not a-logging if it's true.
 
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JesusGodBear.

Has it really been nearly six months since I made this thread already? Crap.
 
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Eh, my brother is on the spectrum. He works as an engineer, so it only really interferes with his personal life/social interaction, not the rest of his life.
 
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Hi all.

I don't have autism, but I know someone who does, and I'd like some advice on the matter, because my relationship with them has become strained. I don't know how to proceed because I can't tell if this is a difference between a neurotypical and an autistic, or if he's frankly just a fucking asshole.

The problem is, in addition to being my friend, we work together in many professional ventures. When this works, it works fantastically. It hasn't worked for a while, though. He misses deadlines. He lies about his workload. He loses crucial contact information. There's always an excuse or some extenuating circumstances, but the pattern has been pretty consistent (in a bad way) for a while now. I decided to come here when I heard him say "Well, if I meant to do something, that's as good as actually doing it, right?" It was as if those words were coming straight out of Chris's mouth. I then figured I should talk to people who were closer to both the best and worst of autism before I proceeded.

So what I have here is an autistic friend who's capable of great work, but seems to think he has the option to only work when HE wants to. No carrot or stick has proven to influence him to fulfill his commitments if he gets distracted. And what pisses me off most is that this obviously affects me and my workload, and that doesn't seem to affect his decision to work or not-- the fact that doing his job would help me do mine isn't a motivator to him. Maybe I'm just too neurotypical, but that pisses me off.

So please, I would appreciate any and all insights you could offer. Thank you all.
 
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The forgetfulness could be autism. The refusal to do anything to mitigate it and the attitude are just being an asshole. If you have explained to him plainly the issues when his failure to meet commitments causes you problems, then I might start finding ways to end the professional relationships if I were you.
 
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I live in Belarus, and I haven't met anyone who has autism. Some Russian hipsters who are obsessed with Western pop culture often call themselves Aspergers because they think that simple social awkwardness sounds more glorified when it is referred by an American psychiatric term that is not used by Russian psychiatrists, but I doubt that they actually have Asperger's syndrome. Autistics do exist here, but they are very rare.

It's rather weird that there are so many people on autistic spectrum in the United States and Canada. Belarus got hit hard by radioactive fallout from the Chernobyl disaster. For a few years after 1986, there was a large spike of registered cases of Down syndrome and other very nasty genetic illnesses among newborn children in the irradiated areas of the country. Russia had to deal with a gigantic rise of alcoholism and drug abuse during the catastrophic period of 1990s. Yet there are very few autistics in Belarus and in Russia (and in other former Soviet republics). A child who gets born with autism is usually regarded with curiosity by people around here (except his peers, who'd bully the hell out of him). It would make sense if autism and other similar syndromes were widespread in our part of of the globe, but why it is so common in America?
Hey man, I live in the neighboring Poland, and share similar observations to yours. I don't think I've ever met anyone who called themselves autistic.

How does one go about identifying such people in real life without being explicitly told that they have autism? I once known that one guy in college who was somehow a bigger motor mouth than me and I talked with him at length about many spergy topics such as video games and various "The Abridged Series" anime fan parodies on YouTube. I suppose he might have been on the spectrum, but other than that, wearing a bit unfashionable, baggy clothes, and seemingly sometimes lacking social inhibition, he appeared perfectly normal to me. I really liked him, too.

A general rule seems to apply that our countries are a few years behind the West in pretty much anything, perhaps including psychology. Now I'm not very worldly, but it's visible on the internet, and I also noticed that during my visits to the Netherlands and England.

I talked about autism with some Poles and they for the most part had no idea what it was. Up until recently, there was virtually no mass media coverage of the condition. An autism awareness foundation was established circa 2011, I think 1990, apparently, but it's only really been active since 2004. I was directed there by a psychologist when she told me she strongly suspected I had Asperger syndrome. She explained to me that she was not qualified to diagnose autism spectrum disorders in adults.

So, while apparently I am touched by the 'Burgers, I need to go to that group's facility to confirm that, but they only have their agencies in Warsaw (the capital city), which is quite a ways from where I live, and there are no alternatives. I just don't feel like I need to go there right now. I mean, that would be a bit expensive, and realistically speaking, what would I gain from an official diagnosis? Besides a sense of certainty about my condition, and having an explanation (but not an excuse) for why I behaved the way I did. There are no tugboats, no laws that offer me any benefits, unlike in the USA. I'd still like to go to that facility one day, just to be sure, but I'd have to get a job first to cover the travel expenses.

I never really communicated well with my peers. I was usually considered weird. I've had trouble maintaining eye contact since I can remember. I've spent most of my life on the computer. I speak in constant creepy monotone. Whether or not I'm actually on the spectrum is an itch that I'd really like to scratch. And hey, if I am, maybe there is some treatment available to help me function normally. This might be really worth it after all...

Basically, I suspect autism/Asperger syndrome might be some kind of "flavor of the month" mental condition that is being overdiagnosed in the West but underdiagnosed here in Central-East Europe because of the low awareness. Probably both.
 
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Have another one... this one might not be autism per se, but it's really weird to me, and perhaps someone on the spectrum can at least tell me how close it is.

I had a friend who absolutely refused to enjoy anything she considered "old", be it books, movies, TV shows, vidya, or music. If it was old, it was bad... and if it was new, it was automatically good. This is why I decided to bring it up in this thread... there was a weird similarity between her and Joe Cracker's inability to see how bad his movies were, or Chris's assumption that quality video games began and ended with Sonic.

To make matters even worse, her definition of "old" was completely arbitrary... old was anything made before around 1998, which at the time was 10 years past. There was no explaining this, or why it was so significant, and I couldn't make her understand that, to someone in their seventies, the late 90s was still pretty recent to them... so her criteria not only didn't make sense, but it was relative to only her.

Even in cases where the newer version was notably horrible, she would still prefer it over the older one, just by virtue of the fact that it was new. She liked the Steve Martin version of "The Pink Panther". She liked when American Idol (barf) made "Walk the Line" popular again, though she had no interest in Johnny Cash version. She would watch George Clooney as Batman but not Adam West. I shit you not, and this made sense to her.

Has anyone else known someone like this?
 
My best friend has a mild case of aspergers. It's kind of the reason both him and I are close since we understand each other. Other then that, I know a few others at a transition program that has autism. I might post my experiences about it some other time.
 
I've been diagnosed with the spergs when I was eight years old by professinals. I spent time on a ward to get diagnosed too. It was like a boarding school. They had to observe my behaviour in order to confirm the spergers. Diagnosed with ADHD, OCD and Tourette's as well. They didn't really know what I had. So spergers was the main answer. Of diagnoses that would qualify the most funding...perhaps. Too young to remember.

I had weird obsessions. The weirdest was when I had a huge love for Dr. Robotnick. I'm not kidding you. I had really sick fantasies. Thank goodness my parents were strict with my internet use because I would have been somwhere on the Internet archives. You got typical 13-year-old girl and it's not Justin Timberlake or anything like that....it's well....Pingas.

At daycare my mother worked there were some autistic boys. An autistic boy obsessed with toilets and feet.
Their was Jewish boy and had a ritual with this little wicker basket and always had to put it on the back of his head like a yarmulke. He just HAD to have his ritual. That was pretty cute actually. A three-year-old doing this.
Their was a third autistic boy but he was severly autistic, surprisingly way easier than any of the NT kids. He would just say "ice" over and over. "icheeeehhhhh". He just hummed a lot and played with his hands.

I Have turned out pretty good and things just seem to be getting better. Even better than some of my peers. Not comparing or anything, but just that's the way it is. Someone will always be better off and so on.
Right now I have an obsession with Ronald Reagan and Richard Nixon. Anything Republican. I am a conservative, but it's the American conservatives that gets the spergers going. Not really Stven Harper or the ones in my country. I get these weird sensations in my body. It makes me feel good. It's not sexual. It's more like him being my leader. A great president who makes me feel Safe. Fatherly love feeling.
It's been going on the past seven years. My shrink from my old town had a kick out it. We think it's hillarious. Why Ronald Reagan? I don't know the spergers works in mysterious ways.
 
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I've been diagnosed with the spergs when I was eight years old by professinals. I spent time on a ward to get diagnosed too. It was like a boarding school. They had to observe my behaviour in order to confirm the spergers. Diagnosed with ADHD, OCD and Tourette's as well. They didn't really know what I had. So spergers was the main answer. Of diagnoses that would qualify the most funding...perhaps. Too young to remember.

I had weird obsessions. The weirdest was when I had a huge love for Dr. Robotnick. I'm not kidding you. I had really sick fantasies. Thank goodness my parents were strict with my internet use because I would have been somwhere on the Internet archives. You got typical 13-year-old girl and it's not Justin Timberlake or anything like that....it's well....Pingas.

At daycare my mother worked there were some autistic boys. An autistic boy obsessed with toilets and feet.
Their was Jewish boy and had a ritual with this little wicker basket and always had to put it on the back of his head like a yarmulke. He just HAD to have his ritual. That was pretty cute actually. A three-year-old doing this.
Their was a third autistic boy but he was severly autistic, surprisingly way easier than any of the NT kids. He would just say "ice" over and over. "icheeeehhhhh". He just hummed a lot and played with his hands.

I Have turned out pretty good and things just seem to be getting better. Even better than some of my peers. Not comparing or anything, but just that's the way it is. Someone will always be better off and so on.
Right now I have an obsession with Ronald Reagan and Richard Nixon. Anything Republican. I am a conservative, but it's the American conservatives that gets the spergers going. Not really Stven Harper or the ones in my country. I get these weird sensations in my body. It makes me feel good. It's not sexual. It's more like him being my leader. A great president who makes me feel Safe. Fatherly love feeling.
It's been going on the past seven years. My shrink from my old town had a kick out it. We think it's hillarious. Why Ronald Reagan? I don't know the spergers works in mysterious ways.

I thought most thirteen-year old girls liked pingas?:tomgirl:

Also a sperg and also someone who likes Rrrrrrobotnik and Rrrrrrepublicans. I'd post more, but I got to take a shower and get ready for work.
 
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