Bella is coming home on October 4th at 2.30pm. yes we are having it all here in the spot she used to bring her friends to get messy drunk and smoke weed...
There will be no speeches, she never wanted a funeral she was adamant on that. So we have a celebrant who gives the one speech that's allowed, there will be a toast to Bella and a lot of art. Yes our walls have drawing from her friends and her and that's is most of tattoos, just things her friends drew and then tattooed. So we will be painting and drawing and writing on the coffin so she is always wrapped in low and art.
There will be a section that's clearly marked to do to where there is no talking and no contact, basically a spot to be to still be present but when you need to be invisible for bit. Bella had autism and so do many of us so she would appreciate a spot to be able to be invisible when we need it.
After a bit Bella will leave. No one goes with her, she didn't want that and I will give her everything she ever wanted until the day I die, I always have.
Then the party ramps up and it's more than the few drinks we started with. If I can get approval there will be a bonfire.
The afternoon and evening will be spent as Bella loves, drinking, smoking and hanging out.
Yes you can camp here and have one last camping trip with Bella. She loves camping with friends and we don't want drunk driving.
The whole thing is set up so everyone can smoke weed, drink and chain smoke cigarettes the entire time if they want to. Her favourite cocktails will be made.... She didn't want a funeral!! And she always said there was no point to a party as she has no one to invite, well she was wrong so she is just having a party... She wasn't opposed to a party like she was a funeral.
That's the basic outline so far, we will make the FB event later to share and for ppl to figure out carpooling and lending tents and swags etc
So again folks, who can please come and help tidy up the property and cart away rubbish so we can throw Bella one hell of a fucking party?
For those wondering what they can do to help right now
This weekend I would love volunteers to bring a trailer and take away some of the shit on our property that Bella, Carl and myself have wanted gone for years.
So if anyone feels like they want to do something and can access a car and trailer please let me know and once we figure out when on the weekend we can do this we will let you know.
Also if anyone wants a pipeline single bed frame that was our spare bed shout out, we don't need it and don't have space for it