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Destiny just gave link to the OG document.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/...qHN3j42wbReGfeosJWS-75EuDZfVU9ermwaHwyyZe/pub
Archive of the response document.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/...qHN3j42wbReGfeosJWS-75EuDZfVU9ermwaHwyyZe/pub
Archive of the response document.
Purpose
Why Write This?
On January 20th, 2025, Pxie created a Substack post signaling her intent to sue me. She has since filed her lawsuit in which she claims I shared explicit material we created together without her permission.Until now, I’ve stayed away from addressing the exact claims she’s made in her post and subsequent lawsuit.
While it's important to explain my purpose for writing this, it might be more illuminating to quickly explain why I'm not writing this.
For the majority of these claims, I simply don't wish to rehash every single wild claim or baseless accusation someone throws my way, especially when they’re demanding I divulge even more personal information to do so. And, more importantly, I shouldn’t be forced to provide that level of personal access to my life. I’ve already had my privacy violated in the most extreme and disgusting ways over the past few months, and I don’t enjoy having every single private interaction I’ve held up under a microscope for the internet to psychoanalyze.
- I am not writing this to appease the accusations made against me by anti-fan communities or other vultures who are here to simply hype up whatever stories they can involving me or others around me.
- I am not writing this to divulge every single personal detail of my life for the public to comb through in order to harass me, or others around me.
- I am not writing this to respond to the multitude of claims made about me that have been circulating on the internet, sometimes for over a decade.
I do, however, feel compelled to provide a bit of backstory to my audience for you to have a bit of an understanding of everything that's transpired over the last few years relating to this incident, if for no other reason than to dispel at least the worst assumptions that some people have made about me, even within my own community. If you're unhappy with the level of personal details or if you wish for me to divulge more about person abc or situation xyz, I don't care, you can simply leave.
Why Wait so Long?
I am sympathetic to people who view me negatively - even in the worst light - because it seems difficult to imagine why I would stay silent on everything that's been said about this situation so far. There are three reasons for the delay in transparency:
Minimizing Exposure to Revenge Porn
A great deal of explicit content of mine had been published on Kiwi Farms, including incredibly personal communications of mine. Giving this any kind of public attention is obviously a massive victory for vulture communities (as well as the leaker) and a massive loss for the privacy of myself and any of the other victims involved. It’s irritating that, because I’m a man, the expectation is that any explicit material of mine leaked for sexually humiliating purposes is just expected to be laughed at by me while being made into a joke by every community on the internet, including my own. Whether that includes those maliciously lying about our hook-ups for purposes of public humiliation, or selectively publishing explicit leaked material online, all of it is incredibly disgusting and invasive, doubly so when I’ve been expected to just roll with it.
It’s incredibly bizarre how many people are fixated on insisting that I’m not a victim in this when I was the primary target of the entire revenge porn posting. While other people were undeniably harmed by these leaks, they were seen as “collateral damage” to the publisher of the material (and the website providing hosting for it) in the goal to attack me, whether it was through reputation, monetary harm, or just through some form of sadistic humiliation.
Pxie's Privacy Request
Once the leaker published and hosted all of my explicit content on Kiwi Farms, Pxie messaged me and informed me that she didn’t want confirmation of her in any part of the material. As such, I made no public statements regarding her appearance in any of the leaked material. She has since filed a public lawsuit, which is why I feel comfortable speaking out now. All of our conversations until December 10th were almost exclusively about contacting law firms, removing any explicit material online and minimizing her risk and exposure to any online abuse or harassment.
Pretrial Settlement
The vast majority of cases are settled (98% according to Roy L. Comer, a random civil litigator I googled!) before they ever go to trial, and the vast majority of them before they're even filed in court at all. One of the big reasons why lawyers encourage their clients not to discuss their case publicly, especially before it's been filed, is because you lose a lot of leverage that you might have otherwise when it comes to negotiating a deal with the opposing party.
If this seems confusing or unintuitive, that's fine, just keep it in the back of your mind because it will become much clearer later on as I explain this.
Events
Rose
In April of 2022, I was contacted by Rose. We maintained an amicable friendship, up through 2023. We’d never had any fights or disagreements about anything and were always on good terms with one another. In November of 2024, as I was clearing out my Discord friends list of people I no longer speak with, I noticed the account was still added and we hadn’t spoken in a while, so I sent a message to it, checking in to see how she was doing. I have strong reason to believe that at the time I did that, someone besides Rose was logged into the account, scrolled up to see all of the messages we’d exchanged, and took steps to protect their identity so they could dump all of the material they'd found in our messages to various Discord servers and, eventually, Kiwi Farms.
The Leaks
On November 20th, 2024, the Discord user Solo began to leak huge swaths of personal messages between me and another person across several Discord chat rooms. President Sunday was sent these messages and decided to do a dramatic reading of them for his YouTube channel. Several days after he and other parts of the internet had had their fun exploiting leaked material from my personal life, Solo messaged me (sometime in the morning) and said he was unhappy with how the coverage of the leaks had been so far. He felt as though people weren't giving it enough attention, so he was going to leak more from my logs with Rose if I didn't allow him to come on my stream and speak with me. I don't remember exactly what his message was, as I'd just woken up, read it, and responded briefly before going back to sleep. The next time I checked my messages with him, everything had been deleted.
On that same day, November 29th, 2024, Solo dumped every explicit video I had ever exchanged with Rose onto Kiwi Farms. One of these videos allegedly showed Pxie and I engaged in a sexual act, and she subsequently messaged me and informed me of the leak. While Pxie posted on her Substack that she "had to contact" me about the situation, first, this was the first time I was actually even made aware that explicit material of me involving others was being posted on Kiwi Farms.
Time Passes
I contacted a law firm in New York and began to pursue legal action relating to the revenge porn incident. Pxie made it clear that she did not want to be identified in any way in these leaks. I agreed, and spoke nothing at all of it publicly, and continued to work and stream while pursuing my legal cases in the background. All of my communications with Pxie over the next week pertained to removal of the material and pursuing action against the leaker.
Escalation
On December 11th, two strange things happened. Lauren Hayden, someone I hadn't had contact with for months, messaged me to tell me how much she hated me. That same day, just a few hours earlier, Pxie messaged me, informing me she was planning on committing suicide in some manner in which she would "expose me" after taking her own life. Up until this point, all of our conversations had been almost exclusively focused on removing any material of her on her behalf and updating her on any legal progress, so these messages were very out-of-character.
As a brief aside, Lauren Hayden is someone who’s had bitter feelings towards me after I refused to date her about a year ago. She lies constantly, claiming we dated, sometimes for as long as 9 months. I’ve already posted evidence of this in the past, but here’s an additional conversation I had with a mutual friend last year to put that claim to rest.
Since threats of suicide from Pxie were now involved, I reached out to a mutual friend, Erin. My understanding at the time was that Erin was an incredibly close friend of Pxie, and so sought her advice on what I could do to help. I spoke with Erin while the both of us tried to console Pxie. Erin eventually suggested (approving the exact message, even) that I offer her money to help cover at least her therapy, or perhaps even payments towards law school.
After sending the message Erin approved to Pxie, Pxie rejected it in what I thought was an odd manner. She said that whatever amount she'd ask for would likely be too high, despite me not yet mentioning a dollar amount. At this point, I noticed her language was also taking a sharply pointed and more deliberate tone, with words like "justice", "nonconsensual," and "vulnerable" showing up for the first time in our messages, almost two weeks out from when the original leaks actually happened.
I was trying to walk an impossibly fine line with my conversations with Pxie, balancing a few key things. I was concerned for her well-being and mental health, but I wasn't sure what she was getting at with her claim of me not giving her as much money as she'd want. I was also trying hard to comfort her in regards to the leaks without downplaying or minimizing what she was feeling, a concern I communicated with Erin at that time. Erin informed me that Pxie was settling on a figure, hinting that she would ask me to pay for her law school tuition. Notably, no actual figure was ever sent to me for consideration.
On the same day she was expressing her thoughts of suicidality to me she began to aggressively fight with trolls online about subject matter that seemed to be begging for people to bring attention to the recently leaked material. Even Erin agreed that this was a crazy Twitter battle to engage in at the time, and it seemed especially strange given that Pxie had told me 8 hours earlier she was still receiving DMs related to the leaks, was petrified of her parents finding out what had happened, and would kill herself if it ever got that far.
I was now in an impossible position. Revenge porn of me was still being blasted across the internet, with family members (including my 13 year old son) being spammed with explicit videos of me, sometimes even by popular social media personalities, like justaminx.. Multiple large social media accounts were covering it, with Kiwi Farms bragging in a tweet that a of surge of visitors consuming the revenge porn of me required a database rollback. And now Pxie was coupling threats of suicide and a “public note” with an implied request for hundreds of thousands of dollars from me to make things right for her.
No Contact
At some point after our conversation on the 12th of December, Pxie removed me as a friend from Discord. From that point onwards, a small bit of communication happened through two mutual friends. One of them communicated with me that Pxie needed me to "suffer" in order for me to understand that I'd committed a wrong, as though I hadn't already suffered enormously due to the explosive coverage that already existed of my leaked material. She also communicated to a friend that she was essentially ready and waiting to kill herself, based on whether or not I responded favorably to paying out a massive amount of money. She reiterated that I needed to "face consequences" for my actions, claiming that she was on a mission to make this "the most expensive mistake" of my life, again, despite the insane amount of harassment I had already received regarding the leaked material. She said I had offered to simply "pay some bills," possibly to the tune of $200, though I had absolutely no idea where she ever got that figure from.
After assurances from my friend that I was willing to pay "a LOT more" than she had originally thought, she informed her that she was finally "ready to reach out to [me] using this conversation as a starting point." At this point, mutual friends tell me that she's expecting between $500,000 to $1,000,000 as just compensation for her suffering, though I hadn't seen that in writing anywhere yet.
At this point I felt incredibly uncomfortable establishing any direct contact. Threats of suicide paired with requests for huge sums of money that seemed to hinge directly on whether or not I was willing to "self-punish" enough, paired with threats to "expose me" publicly if I wasn't willing to make the right choice, left me in a very rough position. I was still dealing with the mountains of harassment my family and I were receiving, five-figure legal fees in my pursuit against the original leaker, and now I was facing a decision about whether or not I needed to fork over some huge sum of money to prevent someone from either killing themselves or "exposing me” to the public.
D-Day
On January 20th, 2025, while flying back from the studio in New York, I was notified that two videos were going live that seemed to be centered on recent events: a video titled "Destiny, PREDATOR Unmasked." by Cope And Seethe, and "Exposing The Destiny Abuse Machine" by President Sunday. Both of these videos included a multitude of messages between different parties behind the scenes that I was totally unaware were coordinating with each other. In addition to these two videos, Pxie dropped her substack statement about me, Lauren Hayden (Lauren Delaguna) launched a givesendgo for Pxie in order to raise funds to sue me, and other members of an anti-fan Discord made claims about me sharing material on Twitter.
All of these events happened within 12 hours of each other.
Basically every internet friend I had publicly denounced me, other streamers and YouTubers responded almost instantly to cover the statements, and a slew of videos went up with a variety of claims about me, the worst of them heavily implying I was a rapist. All of this also refreshed the attention on all of the leaked material, mine and Pxie’s included, and brought awareness of it to a much, much wider audience than ever before, leading to an exponential increase of harassment across every social media platform I'm on.
Lav (someone who had proudly spread revenge porn of me in the past, and admitted to it) and MrGirl (lol) made a grand return to Jstlk's stream. Jstlk also began to reach out to other women, some of whom had been sexually harassed by members of his own Discord server, to see if any of them wanted to come on and “make a statement” about me. People everywhere began to speculate that every insane narrative about me that had ever been spun had now been prophetically fulfilled, and I crashed on my couch for 3 days to contemplate retirement.
Also, Jstlk banned Lav from his server because he realized how bad the optics were while he was trying to farm me.
Picking Up the Pieces
Seeing the number of people and schemes revealed initially made me incredibly paranoid about who I could trust that wasn't mining our conversations for some sort of confession or blackmail material. Seeing Lauren's name pop up on Pxie's substack confirmed to me that there was significant coordination going on in the background between her and Pxie, at least, and seeing Erin and President Sunday talking and scheming so much made me wonder what everyone's ultimate goal was.
Pxie going public was something I hadn't heavily considered because it seemed to worsen both of our positions on virtually every front. Her part in the leaked material had been virtually unknown up to that point, and she had also proclaimed several times up to this point that she would kill herself if her parents discovered her role in it. The only thing her going public seemed to accomplish was to make the material far more publicized than it ever would have been otherwise.
It also became more clear to me that Erin and President Sunday weren't the main people Pxie was listening to in the background. That, combined with Lauren's creation of the givesendgo, plus the message she sent me the same night Pxie began to threaten suicide to me, made it more clear to me that Lauren was likely the one guiding her behavior.
I also felt far more confident in my suspicion that this was all, ultimately, about extracting the maximum amount of money from me. Pxie had deleted her message to me where she'd even implied a higher dollar amount than what I'd be comfortable with, seemingly tried to cover her tracks by implying I could "donate to a charity" while texting a mutual friend, and now I was seeing Erin telling President Sunday that her suicide threat was done just to get my attention. I also saw that she'd put together the statement she published on her substack at least 12 days earlier, and, perhaps unknowingly to her, actually exactly outlined her scheme in messages to Erin that looked similar to texts she'd sent to Kyla. This completely destroyed the idea that President Sunday’s video had forced her hand.
Ironically enough, President Sunday seemed to understand the extortion angle as well, though he was incorrect in saying it was Pxie’s "first impulse" to do this, as that seemed to develop sometime around or before December 11th, which is when (I'm guessing) Lauren began coaching her more ardently. I also finally saw, in writing, confirmation that she was indeed seeking a payout of at least $1,000,000 in order to prevent her from “going public.”
Sharing Videos
As a quick aside, and to get way further into my sexual life than I'd ever publicly want to, trading nudes or videos with someone isn't done "to impress" anyone, as Pxie writes in her substack. In my world, it’s generally just fun to see someone you’re speaking with engaging in sexual acts. When the idea of making recordings comes up with someone, there are a few different categories people tend to fall into.
For people who are extremely concerned with their privacy or material possibly leaking, I generally just recommend we don't record anything at all, as there's always some risk that stuff can leak and it's just not worth the anxiety of having any material like that recorded. If someone still wants to record something after that, I would generally just have them record on their phone for them to keep hold of the material. Other people don’t view it as a catastrophe if the material leaked and have already made recordings of themselves and others and exchanged them with other people.
With that out of the way, conversations guessing as to whether or not any of the leaked material was consensually shared was a hot topic of discussion following the initial leaks. Pxie would message people to tell them that she had "never ever sent videos of other people" to me before, and she portrayed herself in her Substack as though I was the first person to ever suggest this to her and I was the first person she ever recorded material with.
This statement and implication, however, are both false. She'd sent me videos of her and other guys multiple times prior to us ever meeting, and requested material from me as well. It was also her who suggested multiple times that we record stuff when we met later in 2020.
I was engaged to Melina at the time, so there's no way I would have agreed to anything that wouldn't have allowed her to view anything I recorded. And Pxie was comfortable sending me videos of her and other identifiable men, with them even having saved the videos on their own phones. At no point in any of these conversations did Pxie ever mention having explicit consent from any of these other men to share these videos with me, and I have no way of contacting them today to find out if she did. All this to say, consent was being reasonably understood by both sides of this situation.
Back to the Substack...
Pxie DM'd me first (I believe after we'd had a debate on some Twitch panel) on October 23rd, 2019. She told me multiple times that she was 20 years old, so I'm not entirely sure why she said I was hitting on her when she was 19. By the time we met in person she was 21. Based on my interactions with her, I find it odd that she describes herself as "extremely sexually inexperienced and sheltered" as well.
In several places, Pxie deliberately uses language that makes it sound as though I am simply sending explicit material containing only her to another person. This is not the case. The material in question is an explicit video of me and her *together*. I would never just send around explicit material of another person on their own. Any material I've exchanged is done so because I'm in it, not to impress someone by “using someone else’s body.”
She also repeatedly claims that the main purpose of the statement was about preventing me from harming other women. If that was the case, why did she contact me at all prior to releasing it? Why was her publishing this statement contingent on my response to her and how much I was willing to pay her?
One of the most irritating and conspiratorial claims she makes against me is that I was sending materials to a person intentionally hoping they would leak. I don't think I need to explain just how unbelievably baseless, callous and malicious this point is, as I have suffered irreparable privacy and reputational harm due to all of the publicization of the leaked material. Similarly, I find it both incredulous and ludicrous that she would imply that I was somehow attempting to intimidate her based on comments I'd been making about Hasan. I have never, at any point in this process, told her she had no right to take legal action against me, nor denied her any right to pursue whatever justice she felt was reasonable. On the contrary, she has been the one threatening me with "going public" and with suicide the entire time if I wasn't willing to pay her a massive sum of money. She also manages to twist every conversation we had in the most malicious way possible, claiming that I was "downplaying" my actions, when in reality I was trying to talk her off a ledge from killing herself with the advice of her friend.
In addition to the misrepresentation and lies in her statement, she’s also sure to link directly to any tweets involving other high profile figures I spoke with, likely with the goal of getting others to tweet her statement at them. She also makes it explicitly clear that her goal is to simply inflict as much damage onto me as possible. The wording of her Substack tweet heavily implies that I was also publicly posting revenge porn of her.
Negotiations Begin
On January 31st, 2025, I received the first written demand from Pxie's law firm. This time, the letter was citing Florida civil statute 784.049 for sexual cyberharassment, which requires malicious intent when publishing images.
Thankfully, the demand to settle our dispute was a reasonable one, with Pxie only requesting $15,000,000 (+ legal fees lol) in order to come to an amicable settlement. Notably there was no request for any of this money to go to charity.
A phone call followed between our two law firms to discuss the absurdity of this demand. I was incredibly irritated at this point, as Pxie had already launched a maximum pressure campaign against me, publicly, and I was forced to sit on my hands while these negotiations took place since I didn't want to compromise her ability to settle things with me without having to publicly out our prior private interactions.
It was also unbelievable to me that someone could so quickly go from being so suicidal over the prospect of her parents discovering the leaked material to: posting a public statement against me implicating her in all of the leaked material and exploding its popularity, filing a civil suit against me without even trying in good faith to reach a settlement before-hand, and publicly provoking and continuing fights with others who were also publicizing aspects of the leaked material.
The Present
And that's where we're at now.
The last few months have been an utter nightmare for me. It's frustrating that no one cares that Kiwi Farms is still, to this day, hosting all of the revenge porn on their own servers.
To reiterate, the reasons it's taken me so long to make any statements about this are because, initially, I wanted to minimize publicizing both mine and other people's explicit material. Then, it was due to Pxie’s claims that she would kill herself if the material ever made its way to her parents. And finally, it was done to allow Pxie to have the maximum room possible to negotiate some sort of settlement with me, without me having to come out with a statement of my own that sheds more light on her character and her behavior. There is always room for improvement in my own behavior, and I’ve obviously reflected on and changed the way I’ve engaged with people in this space over the past couple of years. This entire ordeal involves a video recorded 5 years ago and sent 3 years ago (In April of 2022).
It’s irritating that my prioritizing Pxie’s well-being at every stage of this after the leaks has resulted in me being maligned so heavily, but alas.
I don’t look forward to the next 12-18 months of this drip-feeding onto my content. Maybe we’ll spend it trying to beat Elon into space.
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