I appreciate the openness and I think you're asking the right kind of question, even if we currently answer it differently
state is basically a metaphorical gun
And if that's true, the problem is not just who holds it. It's that,
once the gun exists, anyone can pick it up later. Whether that's Mald, LFJ, Rekieta, Ubisoft, or Epstein.
If you build power on the premise that someone
must monopolize violence, then every regime change is just the next spin of the barrel. It doesn't solve oppression, it's just hopium that you end up on the right side of the gun next time.
The earliest examples of "states" as we think of them now came into existence because of agriculture. With agriculture came a surplus of food, which led to boom in population but at the same time less people were needed to make food. And so people were needed to make decisions of how this surplus of food and labour would be allocated, and so the "state" is born.
I agree with the historical interpretation that early states grew out of surplus. But out of surplus also grew black markets, trade caravans, guild law, merchant courts, and mutual aid. Decentralized systems aren't some hypothetical ivory tower thought experiment, they are things that exist and have existed. The thing that makes the state different is that it's
coercion first, consent second.
I'm not arguing against coordination itself, and that there must never be any coordination, the point I'm arguing is that coercion isn't the only way to coordinate. SKG may have good intentions, but aiming the gun at a problem is not the same as removing the gun from the room.