TenaflyViper
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- Jun 24, 2015
Yeah, Taka, she posted in here initially to defend you because she was your friend, but you threw her under the bus when it was convenient for you and and proved what a shit friend you really are. She stuck her neck out for you, was willing to defend you here, and you never showed any gratitude. And you wonder why she still posts here.
I just want to say something here. I still consider them friends--I do. And that's why I really want them all to take a step back, and try to look at their behavior from an objective standpoint. I'm going to say right now that I am wholly embarrassed by a lot of the shit I've said in the past, regardless of whether there are people that still support it. I feel I have grown substantially as a person by removing myself from discourse, and viewing both "sides" objectively. It allows me to take in and consider information from anyone--not just an echo chamber. This allows me to make ACTUAL INFORMED DECISIONS. It allows me to be genuinely open-minded and accepting of others.
I never considered myself "anti-SJW" to begin with--I think labels are stupid and restrictive. You don't have to be one or the other, you can just be YOURSELF, and listen to what EVERYBODY has to say. You don't have to argue with every teenager that makes a vent post expressing their personal feelings from their personal life experiences. Not everything is a generalization (and who the fuck cares if it is??). Not everything is a personal attack on YOU. Other people are allowed to be angry, even if you think it's "wrong": It's THEIR life, not YOURS.
This discourse shit is hurting EVERYONE, no matter what they call themselves. It's NOT. HEALTHY. You DO NOT NEED to constantly be on the defensive, or looking for something you feel you need to "correct". LET PEOPLE BE "WRONG". If you say you support free speech, then let people have the freedom to say who they hate and why, even if you feel it's "ignorant". YOU DON'T HAVE TO FUCKING READ IT. And let's be real here: Racial minorities and the LGBT community are EXTREMELY outnumbered in America, and other first-world nations (the LGBT community is outnumbered EVERYWHERE). They have every right to feel afraid and angry, and no matter what they say, they're 100% CORRECT that it does NOT hold the same level of power as the kind of oppression they have faced. So some kid says "Down with Cis", or takes a crack at white people. WHAT-FUCKING-EVER. No amount of that is an actual threat or danger to anyone, no matter how much it hurts your fee-fees.
I unfollowed and distanced myself from this circle of people because I did not want to see discourse on my dash--for MY OWN MENTAL HEALTH--but I will continue to worry and care about them. "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions", they say. No matter how much you think you're in the right on something, that doesn't mean you're not acting JUST AS BAD, and JUST AS CRINGEY as the people you're against. If you're still having issues with people at this point, it's because you've brought it upon yourself. You put yourself INTO IT, then complain when those people become defensive, and fight back. NO SHIT are people going to get angry when their values and beliefs come under attack. And when they feel attacked, they're sure as shit not going to listen to you, and just magically see things from your point of view, because you went on the offensive in the first place. You didn't calmly try to TALK to people, and SEE THINGS FROM THEIR PERSPECTIVE. You're just trying to force YOUR OWN views, and that NEVER. FUCKING. WORKS. You don't accomplish SHIT just by going around and screaming at people, "You're WRONG!".
And let's not even talk about threats, because I don't doubt for a millisecond that "SJWs" have received their fair share of the same. Trill got death threats, you say? You don't think Pinkiepony got way worse???? And she was just a teenage girl when that happened, while you're a bunch of grown-ass adults that have previously treated threats like something people can simply ignore. Hypocritical, much? Threats are only a big deal when YOU get them?? That girl was made to be afraid for her fucking LIFE, and you think that's comparable to a grown-ass man getting empty threats and three-word inbox spam because he SUPER FUCKING OVERREACTED to a stupid JOKE??????
ALL SIDES ARE SHIT. Even if they start out seemingly neutral, they eventually turn into shit, because people get a big head, and they feed on the attention, they become obnoxious and self-righteous, and they feel empowered by having others that will have their back, and dogpile on anyone that disagrees with them. DON'T BE ON A "SIDE". GO ENJOY YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF ARGUING ON THE INTERNET.
If my long-winded ass can do it, SO CAN YOU.
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