Your party is shit, my party is great, join my party or fuck you, no I don't care about the politics let's argue about which party good.
You raise a very good point. Ultimately, I think that the best way to go about things is to attempt to teach newcomers healthy practices when it comes to interacting with FOSS projects; reading readmes, reporting bugs, having at least a basic understanding of bash and so on.
I don't know how you can make peole want to learn these things, or to become even 1% invested in FOSS and its ongoings, other than to make it seem approachable and make it seem fun. Joe Schmoe isn't going to give a fuck about the tranny coups in the depths of the Void repos, no, he's going to want to learn to update his system, open his browser, send his emails and install his apps. First impressions are wildly important, that's why I'm so glad that people recommend Mint, MX or other intuitive distros as starting points for learning Linux. But still, I don't think users should just be handed everything o na silver platter. Instead, they should be invited to tinker & get their hands dirty in order to make things work. Picture a little toggle you can click on in the Mint installer that enables "guidance" or some other random UX buzzword. Then, have that button link the GUI installer to a CLI interface, to show the user how things work under the covers, and maybe even invite them to try doing it themselves next time. In turn, by getting people to work on their own stuff, change things by hand and learn some of the nuts and bolts behind Linux, I am optimistic that it can make them respect the effort and dedication that goes into others' projects as well, and to value it over trite political games.
Yes, it's fantastically optimistic, but I desperately want a world where more people see computers as something fun again. Not just for gayming, but to use in general. And I really think that the influx of new users can help us take a step in that direction, if given proper guidance. To get back down to earth for a sec, how do you even go about doing this without immediately getting felted by whoever manages to out-intuit everyone else? I doubt that Gnome and Artix are suddenly going to hold hands and sing koombayah for the "greater good" of thwarting [insert evil corporation here].