This basically. There needs to be a balance struck, and I think Kiwi Farms and its policy of "no seriously dude, pick a pseudonym and don't dox your own ass" is about as close to perfect as I can think of. On 4chan everything is gone in an hour and you dont know who youre talking to by the next thread. While this policy was instituted to prevent big names from dominating and keeping free-flowing discussion, it also works against the favor of by the space by not allowing you to attach an identity to anyone's posts, even from just their collection of posts off your shared board. Thus people will just tell you somethings great if you say it sucks, and they'll say the things you like suck are gay and stupid. Which wouldn't be bad unto itself but it would be nice if I could just say "oh it's that guy" and chuck it into the schizo bin.
Then on the other side of the tracks you have the normie sites. On Facebook, TikTok, etc you're almost always posting with some of your real identity visible to others, often with even real life acquaintances following your feed. So now you're hemmed in by the usual rules of society that you wanted to get away from on the internet. Reddit is the closest thing in the mainstream to an anonymous experience, but they have enough unemployed bluehair power users and janny trannies to come through your post history and shriek at you.
It really is a "pick your poison" game. Wanna post on a place where it's almost impossible to have a community, get recognition or make friends and everybody screams "NIGGER" 50 times a day cause they can? Or do you want to go back to the walled garden of normie internetdom that is basically now "real life but the women have dog filters on"?