Amber always sounds weirdly proud of her glaring character flaws.
Oh, I'm so insecure that I take random comments as personal attacks and I need constant reassurance that you love me and want to be with me. Isn't it so cute?
No. It's repulsive.
Also around the 15 minute mark when talking about who apologizes first/more Becky says "You physically say it but I physically show it." AL is just the type to apologize just to try to shut the other person up in a fight. She doesn't mean it and she won't change her behavior, but she knows that's what they want to hear so she says it. AL even says in the video that sometimes she "gets over things" really quickly, like when she wants the subject dropped.