Before this message, the word TERF hasnt even been implied. Consider taking meds
Someone either edited their post, or deleted it. I did not bring the term up first.
You see it a lot with TERFs. Even if we have a shared enemy I can't get behind their warped perception of a world where men are constantly super hostile to women 24/7 and just want to degrade and/or rape them.
Men love women. Men want women to love them. And I'd like to think that women want to be loved by men, too. We need eachother.
There are degenerate women out there. The women who allow their kids to get groomed by gender bender shit just baffle me. I can't even comprehend their mindset. Then there are the ones who see the pinnacle of success as being an instagram whore. Most of what I say could probably be said for women, but I'm not in that 20-year age bracket, so I can't confirm for younger women. There are a still shit ton of degenerate men out there. Many of these dudes seem totally normal from the outside, which makes it all the more heartbreaking.
I've had more than enough men tell me "a hole is a hole"-- granted this is the internet, and people are anonymous-- including men that claim to have been raised in traditional families.. Many might claim they want love, but they look for the nearest screen whenever they get a spare quiet moment for some digital ass. Hugging and snuggling is "Boring!" Sigh. "Lame! Give me anal! Give me your ass! Choke on my dick! I want to see you gag and puke! So hawt! Glory holes so hawt! Enemas so hawt!" .These were like the token fag porn themes for decades, now they're mainstream..
There's more to it than just that. Things have changed over the years. Walking Street in Pattaya wouldn't be famous for ladyboys for no reason at all. Modern media wouldn't be saturated with filtered man-bun models and sexualized tr00ns for no reason at all. Men wouldn't be fixed on anal sex (preferring that over pussy) for no reason at all. All the men fan-girling for faggy male musicians in thick makeup and glitter. Even recent era sex symbols (female supermodels and actresses) have often resembled adolescent boys in terms of facial features and body shapes-- with low body fat percentages that resemble young men's, sharp facial features, unusually tall heights, etc. Now the standard of "female attractive" has gone from thin angled adolescent boy-bodies (the 2000s) and it's morphed into drag-queen beauty standards. Female models used to be stereotypically feminine in the classic sense-- in the early 1990s and prior-- but now that old standard is "gross KAREN!".
Gay men are the ones dictating fashion and cosmetics, hair styling, and have so for years--. they've only recently dropped the pretense of caring about women's beauty/fashion at all. BDSM sex is typical in high end fashion shows that set trends, styles that resemble gay leather kink-- humiliating models with ridiculous costumes. They love their drag queens, they love gender-specials, our culture is making gay men's preferences acceptable and celebrated, and even preferred-- They now set the standards for what the larger culture considers "beautiful", and now women's fashion is reflecting that: fake lips, fake eyebrows, BDSM style ultra tight corsets, plastic asses, plastic tits, gaudy layers of makeup, fake eyelashes-- drag queen tricks. Women pantomiming what women are supposed to be according to gay men. These things were always present to some extent, but not to the "drag queen" level they are now. Whereas male models used to be rare, half the catwalks and magazine covers have boys in makeup. This crap among the cultural elite sets the trends that roll downhill, whether we like it or not.
It's weird and hard to explain. It's as if gay men are dictating/directing what straight men find attractive in women, and the traits that are "celebrated" in women are becoming the traits gay men and tranny chasers find appealing. Sexy traditional chicks don't sell products like they used to, apparently. Men are visual creatures and constant exposure to certain images has a profound impact on their minds. I've seen the evolution of their men's general sexual preferences morph over the past three decades of my adulthood. Physical attractiveness is one of the primary ways women attract a man at all, but now that's thwarted by a strange cultural shift.
Part of this could be that the highest income levels of men who chose the direction of marketing and online media are into these things, which makes it appear as if that is what most men desire, but... even then.. trends often start with the elite and trickle down. Those rich fuckers who run the world are total degenerates, as many of the threads on here can illustrate, and they set the trends for the rest of the men out there-- at least for the ones who can't think for themselves.
If the idea standard for women becomes "practically drag queen", "practically a gay dude" or "might as well be a plastic blow up doll or robot", or if men are so fixated on anal, why would it be a leap for many men to simply decide they don't want women at all? Might as well jerk off another dude, call it a "marriage" for convenience/ insurance/financial/legal purposes, and share your porn stash with your "husband" or have both men chip in for a female sex robot.
Edit: I should add, this gay-man beauty standard probably promotes tr00ning out among young women. It's impossible to reach modern gay/they beauty standards as a female, so it's not hard to imagine young women deciding to tr00n out as an easier way to gain acceptance in the world. Most girls are raised to believe that the worst fate possible is "to be the ugly chick", so I imagine many decide to tr00n out instead.