Becky: "It's only because you are who you are"
Becky is absolutely right. People hate Amber because she's an abusive, lying, parasitic cunt who has a reverse Midas touch and fucks up everything and everyone who comes close to her.
The last video Destiny and Dana released is proof of this. Destiny was sounding mature when she was talking about her professional future, showing responsibility and that she's a caring person.
The interesting thing is that by saying what she did Becky admits that there is nothing else to Amber other than fat.
I don't know if Amber's videos will get to be one day old again (were they ever?). She said she had 19 videos ready to release
before she went on vacation.
She said it herself that she's too fat to do anything other than go out to eat in one of her struggle videos. Unless she goes on another weight loss journey, this is it for all her videos from now on: hauls of crap, going out to eat and responding to the haters.
I think there is a disconnect between people watching and Amber (yeah, I know, understatement of the year). People ask her to make fun videos, and Amber is, in her way, doing that. For Amber going out to eat and wasting money on crap is fun.
I think Amber will, eventually, go on another weight loss journey. Not because she knows she needs to lose weight, but because her view$$$$ will decline to a point where she won't be able to afford her bills and the stupidity she spends money on (and Becky will kick her out the moment the money dries out).
Even though she only goes on diets for the money it will bring her I suspect those "journeys" take an emotional toll on Amber. She's used to lying to herself. When she set goals like she did at the beginning of the year, it wasn't for the viewers benefit, it was for her.
Every time she fails to reach her goals, she can't help but be disappointed/angry, but since she's a narcissist, she has to find a reason outside herself to blame on. The smaller her universe gets, the harder it is to find someone/something to blame.