Tolerance should be good enough. I hate the whole acceptance/validation

[Noir drag freak]

One of things that bugs the living shit out of me about this generation is the need to be valid. My autistic brain can’t comprehend the saying “You are accepted and you’re valid”. Like why do I need you to be validated? Why do I even need to feel valid? Secondly, that is something a cult leader would say in order for you to join their cult.

One of my problem with the LGBT and queer community is the whole need for validation. Though, I feel like non-whites in the West have the same mentality. Like they really want to be around white people like that. It’s gotten to the point that some asian males wanted to support a pornstar because “Representations matters”.

Why isn’t tolerance good enough?

 

[Lurker]

many years ago i had a friend who was gay, and funnily enough he said something kinda along the lines you did, and i agreed with it then, and i still agree with it now.

acceptance and validation is nice and gives people fuzzywuzzies, but you can't force people to accept or validate others, no matter how much you try.

tolerance is good enough. for example, i reluctantly tolerate trannies, but i sure as shit don't accept them nor am i going to validate their delusions. i'm not going to go out of my way if i see a tranny on the street to shittalk them or beat the shit out of them, but i'm also not going out of my way to invite them to my home or to any of my outings.

 

[wtfNeedSignUp]

It's kinda the point, the goal is to have you debase yourself on the tranny alter so they'll feel superior.

 

[gang weeder]

Because human societies always have standards that are adhered to, and there cannot be an infinite amount of standards. Thus, people will always vie for control of those standards and try to make them reflect their values.

 

[remiem]

Because they're addicted to the validation and control via the social capitol and personal value it gives them. That validation, that power, is like a drug to a drug addict. If you just ignore or tolerate them it's like walking up to a junkie and taking their drugs, instant aggressive chimp out. They NEED you to validate because otherwise you destroy the high they get from forcing people to accept them.

 

[Queen Elizabeth II]

Because you reject the fullness of truth as revealed by our MA'AAAM and savior Christine Chandler PBUH

Clearly you are an enemy of Goddess and must ensure the Goddess' purifying fire for any hope of salvation. Truly, persecuting the unbelievers is an act of faith.

As St Thomas Aquinas said, it is the duty of the faithful to cut off and destroy a diseased branch to prevent it infecting the tree. So too must society be purged of those who reject "Da TROONF"

 

[Kermit Jizz]

Tolerance was too far. As soon as you capitulate at all you've lost.

 

[Ser Prize]

We tried tolerance. They just kept demanding more.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

Tolerance is not a virtue, it is a Trojan Horse by which people who hate you and your culture can enter and destroy it.
As for acceptance/validation: evil wants you to willingly embrace it. It's not enough to allow the perverts and monsters to live in your society - you must also agree with what they do, and teach your children that it is good and wonderful.

 

[Just A Butt]

goddamn i wish i could rate this whole thread late as fuck

 

[Big Scumfuck]

We tried tolerance. They just kept demanding more.

Tolerance is not a virtue, it is a Trojan Horse by which people who hate you and your culture can enter and destroy it.
As for acceptance/validation: evil wants you to willingly embrace it. It's not enough to allow the perverts and monsters to live in your society - you must also agree with what they do, and teach your children that it is good and wonderful.

The fact you both unironically believe this is pretty cringe. I see you two chucklefucks being negative in every single thread like this and being some of the main causes of derailment into sperging.

Fix yourselves, you are part of the problem, get of the internet for a while, touch some grass.

 

[gang weeder]

The fact you both unironically believe this is pretty cringe. I see you two chucklefucks being negative in every single thread like this and being some of the main causes of derailment into sperging.

Fix yourselves, you are part of the problem, get of the internet for a while, touch some grass.

Are they wrong?

 

[Ser Prize]

The fact you both unironically believe this is pretty cringe. I see you two chucklefucks being negative in every single thread like this and being some of the main causes of derailment into sperging.

Fix yourselves, you are part of the problem, get of the internet for a while, touch some grass.

The cringe here is you. I was all on board the "we're just like you" and "we keep it in the bedroom" train. And if it had stayed at that level I would have been okay with it. But it didn't stay at that level, did it?

 

[Red Hood]

The constant need for validation and representation has actually worn down my ability to tolerate. I used to be indifferent and now I'm like "fuck, I can see trouble from a mile away."

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

Tolerance is not enough; in hindsight, it is too much. I am proudly intolerant.

 

[Lemmingwise]

The cringe here is you. I was all on board the "we're just like you" and "we keep it in the bedroom" train. And if it had stayed at that level I would have been okay with it. But it didn't stay at that level, did it?

Don't keep it in the bedroom. Keep it in the closet.

 

[BipolarPon]

Well I can't tolerate or validate Lia Thompson being in women's sports.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

The fact you both unironically believe this is pretty cringe. I see you two chucklefucks being negative in every single thread like this and being some of the main causes of derailment into sperging.

I note that you can't say why we're wrong, just that you don't like what we say. I think you might be the one with the problem, guy.

 

[Gravityqueen4life]

that is how i was many years ago. i would argue that forcing me to not only accept, but to love someone because they different has made me even more hateful over the years.

the moment you stop loving them, they call you a monster. fine, i be that monster. i be the boogieman you fear in the dark! you want a monster!? than i will be your monster!

i was not born! I WAS CREATED!

 

[Maximultimate Gravy]

The fact that they need to be told by everyone that they're accepted and valid shows just how much they find it hard to accept themselves, so they need that validation from others. They need people to keep up that delusion for them, so the moment even one just "settles" for tolerance, it all breaks down.