I hate it so much. One of my friends was talking about me and misgendering me accidentally (im already mad about that and im still overthinking where that comes from. but I've to accept it I guess). And then she corrected herself and for some reason added that I'm trans and stuff like that just makes me so damn mad. And also that friend didn't know me pre-transition even tho I'm only 5 months on T it still doesn't make sense that she "isn't used" to my right pronouns and gender. Now I'm paranoid and think I acted to much "like a girl" when she was with me. I hateeee it so much and I also have to keep myself from being mad at her and I think I should nicely ask to not tell random strangers that I'm trans when I try to be stealth. I THOUGHT THATS OBVIOUS Why is moving 10 billion miles away from every person who ever knew you the only way to live a normal life when you're trans.
Putting the "miss" in "misandry: a FTM complains that nobody takes her problems seriously and seems unaware that the real reason nobody listens to her is not because she's a man, but because she is a shrimpy, obnoxious little girl-toad. Link | Archive
Lately, I’ve been reading a lot of stuff, and honestly… it’s been rough. There are so many moments where transmascs, trans men especially, try to share how we’re affected by misandry or erased in queer spaces, and we just get shut down. We're told we’re “centering men” or “derailing,” when we’re literally just trying to express our experiences. Not cis men’s, ours.
The thing is… misandry doesn’t hit the same when you're a trans guy. Cis men aren't questioned for existing. But we get the hate and the invisibility. And sometimes it feels like we have to stay quiet so others can feel more comfortable, even in trans spaces. It’s exhausting.
Also, I’ve noticed some people using terms like “XY” to refer to men. I get that it's meant to target cis men, but... it’s transphobic, even if unintentionally. It erases trans men and trans women. As a small, pre-T guy, I already get treated like I’m not “man enough.” I hate that I have to fight just to be taken seriously as a man, only to be told again that “men don’t get to complain.”
It just sucks.
And I know I’m not the only one who feels like this.
So I’m posting here because I don’t want to stay silent, and I want to hear from others too.
Consider this lamb silenced: after being preyed upon by a tranny, a li'l dood tells a dreadful story in which she was abused by a malignant crossdresser, yet still feels compelled to defend his bowl of honey nut feelios because to critique a troon is verboten in trans spaces. I will admit that OP has some of my sympathy here; a teenage victim is always a tragedy no matter how stupid the teenager may be. Her perpetrator can enjoy a hot tub full of piranha, though. Link | Archive
I know that regardless of the Gender Identity or sexuality of the predator, their actions are gross and unforgivable. I'm fully aware that women can rape men. It's just hard to shake off the notions society puts otherwise.
"She can't rape me, she's a woman and I'm a man." "I mean, she was desperate for a romantic and sexual relationship. I knew that and I asked her anyway, doesn't that make me the bad guy?" "Even if I wanted to leave, she said she was so desperate for a relationship that she didn't care if it was temporary. But if it was that, she would probably send herself to the hospital." "If I leave her, she might kill herself. I can't be responsible for that, I just can't." "Even if I'm sixteen and she's nineteen, it's not rape if I'm a top."
"It's not rape because I'm a man."
"It's not rape because I'm fucking her, not the other way around."
"It's not rape because I consented to the age gap."
"It's not rape because I asked her out."
"It's not rape because I choose this."
"I mean it's not that big on an age gap."
We never ended up fucking, I was too scared to fuck an adult. I ended up telling her best friend about it, I had to accept that it was grooming and wrong before I told the best friend, he ended up defending her and we fought about it. I almost cried because of how isolating the fight felt. The best friend realised they were wrong and apologized, now she has no friends because of it. I felt so bad, she lost all of her friends because of an action I caused. I can't help but think of her as not at fault when it's late hours of the night. I feel so gross and i think the trans community puts too much empathis on trans women are women. Rather than how they are people and human beings that deserve to be treated with the same respect and standards of other human beings.
It seems TiFs are starting to wake up more often to just how unfairly disadvantaged they are compared to trannies, and the handmaiden behavior is beginning to wane as they demand more respect from their Lilithian rulers. Don't get your hopes up, though; OP still predominantly lashes out at other women instead of holding men responsible. Link | Archive
I know there’s been a lot of drama recently about trans man talking about their experiences. But whenever I post online about my experiences as a trans man and how transphobia and misogyny affects me, I ALWAYS have someone going “yeah well this stuff hurts trans women way more” or something along those lines. I love my trans sisters and I’m very vocal about advocating for them and staying educated on news and I follow a lot of trans women online to be able to hear their voices and connect with them. So it’s frustrating when it feels like I also can’t express my struggles. I posted online about how alienated I feel in queer spaces a lot of the time now that I pass more. Specifically by cis women who still uphold aspects of the patriarchy and transphobia. I talked about why it’s harmful when they start punching down and take their anger towards cis men out on trans men, saying we deserve space to talk about our experiences without being spoken over because we’re men. I’m so sick of the malgendering. I said that men aren’t BORN evil and our focus should be on coming together and fighting the patriarchy, not each other. And half of my comments were about how this logic harms trans women more, saying “well what about trans women”, or saying trans women also have struggles. I post a lot advocating for trans women. And normally I’m not bothered by comments like that on other videos about being trans, but it hurt especially this time because I was talking about being spoken over when sharing my experiences as a trans man specifically… I know this is such a dumb thing to be upset about probably but it’s just hard to feel like I have no place anywhere. I’m tired of cis women treating us like we’re all evil gender traitors and I’m tired of people not listening to us because we’re men.
I’m sorry if stuff like this has been talked about I just needed to get this out and I don’t have friends irl who would understand
Edit: spelling
Toilet paper princess: a TiF doesn't realize the incredible L she has just confessed to by having an ass so fucking covered in hair that toilet paper gets stuck in it. These freaks never cease to find new ways to disgust me! Link | Archive
(Marked nsfw just in case)
No matter what I try, I always end up with bits of toilet paper in my ass hair, and it's so difficult to get untangled. I've been trying to figure this out for the last nine years.
How do you guys manage it?
EDIT: stop telling me to shave my ass. Stop telling me to use a bidet. Those don't answer my question.
A lamentable little lesbian feels the sting of loneliness as she prioritizes being a dishonest charlatan over any kind of human connection. Imagine choosing your LARP over love! Sad but well deserved. Link | Archive
I’m a completely stealth trans guy in high school. Anyone finding out is my worst fear, it compromises both my mental wellbeing and safety. And I hate it SO MUCH. I wish I wasn’t trans more than anything. There’s a girl in one of my classes, I really like her, and there has been a lot of tension between us. But after a talk with her I had to tell her we would only ever be friends. I don’t want that, but nothing else is realistic. First she is straight, she wouldn’t dig a trans guy, second I. Can’t. Out. Myself. This sucks so bad. She’s literally my perfect match, and if I just was a normal boy everything would have been perfect. But no. Does this match anyone else’s experiences?
A disabled pooner that was sexually abused by a disgusting man nearly 20 years her senior endures a moral quandry when she discovers that he has now trooned out. She states the ol' classic of "Saying my ex-wife raped me doesn't convey what happened" - hm, how is it that TiFs are allowed to say this, but normal women aren't? Perplexing. Link | Archive
So im struggling with something atm and i need some advice. I was married to someone for a few years, we were together for around 8 years, from when I was 21 to 29. To make a long story short, it was a very controlling relationship. Im on disability and they took my check and used 100% for bills, I didn't even have an allowance. I wasnt allowed to drive, while they were at work I was called 3-4 times a day, and was expected to be available for them at all times, including for sex. I did almost all household chores and yardwork despite my disability because they refused. There is a 17 year gap between us, and at the very end, the final straw was physical force and sexual coercion/marital rape.
So, all in all, it was a VERY traumatic relationship. I left and tried to move on, but now im sort of... conflicted, because this person has now transitioned and started taking estrogen and living as a woman. And part of me feels invalidated, part of me feels somehow gaslit by this. Saying "my ex wife raped me" doesn't convey what happened, and because of how sexist our society is, me being a younger man and her now being an older woman, it completely changes the narrative that most people will assume happened. And im... upset. I was not raped by a woman, you know? She wasnt a woman when she did those things to me. But I dont want to turn into some bitter transphobic guy who refuses to acknowledge her identity because thats about more than just her. But ALSO im hesitant to say I was assaulted by a trans woman, because of the whole narrative around THAT.
I dunno. I feel really... conflicted, like I said. I just dont know how to navigate this or how to frame my thoughts about it. if anyone has anything helpful to say that could help me figure out my feelings around it, I would really appreciate it. Peace and love yall.
A TiF with delicate features feels uniquely naked when her wife's colleagues are able to clock her birth sex simply by sight alone. Because I love when troons 'n' poons are outed, I've enclosed some selfies of OP so that you may decide for yourself how clockable our hero(ine) is. Link | Archive
I’m crap at explaining things so buckle up. Basically my wife accidentally outed me to one of her work friends by showing them our wedding pictures in which I am pre transition. This work friend, swilson, swore he wouldn’t tell anyone.
Months have passed and today my wife was asked by a work friend “shay” if I was trans because another of her workmates “billie” said I had feminine features?
I have never been clocked before, only by other trans men. Never by cis people. You can see pictures of me on my profile and my voice is very deep, deeper than the average cis persons.
And so I’m wondering if the work mate who saw our wedding photos flapped his lips? My wife also froze on the spot and confirmed to shay that I was trans, which I told my wife I wasn’t happy about as I am stealth for a reason. We do not live in a safe area. Now I’m just… I feel like shit. “Girly features”, be playing in my head on repeat. And yeah. It’s crap.
The cost of pursuing one's truth, as it turns out, is being considered wildly unsexy by most people. Hm, who could've warned you that becoming a flabby woman with hirsuitism would've made your little black book rather empty? Link | Archive
I wasn't someone who dated and had partners pre-transition. I don't think I would've even been able to tolerate it. But after transition, I've kinda been in the same situation except for a few FWBs over the years. Something I've come to realize is that in my experience, trans men are not really seen as desirable, even amongst other trans people. Posts in the gay trans subreddit is constantly talking about dating cis men, which is 100% understandable but that leads to a lot of people in relationships that probably are not what they think it is. It's obviously not everyone but I've encountered many posts where some guy is gushing over his partner and it's so many red flags. So many are fine with it because at least someone likes them and it isn't a trans man.
On apps like Grindr, there are many trans women and a few trans men and almost all of them are looking for cis men. I don't bother even trying to talk to them because it'll hurt too much to be rejected.
It seems like everyone but trans men are desired in some way. If a trans man is desired, there are so many specific traits he must have and even then, it's a "maybe". I don't think I'm owed anything so please don't call me an incel. I think just the general way trans men are seen is so demoralizing that it's really making me depressed. Many people my age have kids, have been in at least one relationship and/or are married and I'm not attractive to anyone unless it's some fetishist who wants me to use my natal genitalia.
Imagine thinking that a lack of goofy manufactured plastic flags and people no longer losing their jobs for having their own thoughts and feelings about things constitutes abusive behavior! I find it amusing when they act as if their right to "exist in a way that makes [me] happy" is somehow worth children being mutilated medically and people being silenced en masse when objecting to a weirdo sex cult. You don't have a right to happiness, dear, especially not at the cost of other people's children and livelihoods. Link | Archive
Makes me so fucking sick. No pride flags in schools, no repercussions for not using someone's preferred name/gender in professional settings, children have to be referred to by their legal names, removal of gender neutral bathrooms...
They're state specific, but just seeing how much society hates that I even exist just fucking hurts. It genuinely sucks and I don't get how I'm supposed to function normally knowing that my right to even exist in a way that makes me happy is getting actively taken away because people want to be hurtful little shits instead of just accepting for once.
I already feel outcasted from society from mental issues like autism and depression, but then to have my very person get treated as if I don't matter is just cruel. I'm in an incredibly red state too so it just feels like I have nobody to turn to and talk about how genuinely scared I am everyday.
Just had to say something somewhere to feel a little less isolated.
This story almost certainly didn't happen, because no woman would willingly go up and grab the gynecomastic fat sacks on a random tranny in broad daylight, but it's funny to think about treating them as blatantly obvious circus freaks. The real L here, however, is imagining a grown man with his wife's purse dancing in some street whore getup while in public with his wife and daughter. Link | Archive
My family and I just got back from a trip to my parents, several hours away in the rural, deep-red Midwest, and I have never been so glad to leave. There’s some borderline assault, so beware.
When we set out for home this morning, we stopped at a nearby restaurant to load our daughter up with an oh-so-healthy (not at all) brunch of chicken nuggets. Before leaving, my wife and daughter went off to the restroom, and my wife gave me her purse - this really cute Fossil number - to hold. While they were gone, I was standing nearby and working on my posture and generally vibing to the music. I’m not on hormones, but I’ve gradually been swapping my wardrobe to stuff on the femme side of androgynous, and between that and the improved posture, there’s a hint of a waist. Today, I was wearing this “tea” shirt that somehow is form-fitting but also minimizes my shoulders, at the cost of making my breasts more prominent.
Anyway, a few minutes into vibing and practicing, a woman comes up from behind and says “Excuseme, ma’am?” and touches my shoulder. I turn and she starts profusely apologizing - sadly common - and starts to ask her question anyway. Before she could get her question out, another woman LOUDLY asks “OMG, are you some kind of ladyboy,” comes up, and actually grabs my boob. WTF. I don’t know what came over me - I can’t handle confrontation - but I laid into her and she backed down.
Seriously, what’s wrong with people?? Before going on this trip, I had so much anxiety about going back. That area has never been great. I always gave the people there the benefit of the doubt. Like the first woman, there are some genuinely decent people there, but others…. I’ve seen people mention marking off places they can no longer travel to and knew that would happen to me one day. Now it’s come, and my hometown is first.
That is a lot of anecdotal evidence of them shielding rapists from consequences. But we knew that already on the farms. I wonder how many is too many for them to start realizing 'maybe we are the bad guys?' before it's too late and the world decided to take the Stalin route against the TQ+.
So multiple of them have so many of the same experience with rapist troon 'women' and they unironically think 'some terf will use this against all those INNOCENT TROONS' and not 'hey why is it that so many tranny women are gross sexual predators??? Maybe there's a correlation here???'
Side note: idk how the doctors and nurses see them bring in their stuffed animals and go “yeah, we should def operate on this person, they’re of sound mind.”
In the med fag business you call this “requesting a psych consult”. That way if something goes wrong you can blame psych for not picking up on it. In the case of a tranny or pooner, who already had several psych consults and has letters in the chart recommending the surgery before landing in presurgical suite, you shrug and mind your own onions.
If that patient turns out to be lurid schizo and starts emailing the hospital day and night about their amputated ball skin after the fent runs out, it’s psych’s problem and they’ll be the one holding the hot potato and you can just ignore the unhinged mychart messages. (That’s assuming anyone in the hospital gets blamed for a Veinscrawler type situation; I’m not sure they would be.)
"How do I make my suicide threats more attentionwhoring than usual?" Feeling really sad when I read those who were abused by a troon though. It's like they are violent men in dresses who wait until they can prey on someone defenseless.
"How do I make my suicide threats more attentionwhoring than usual?" Feeling really sad when I read those who were abused by a troon though. It's like they are violent men in dresses who wait until they can prey on someone defenseless.
Troon on Troon abuse, while unsurprising and a source of schraudenfrade for many of us just illustrates what happens when violent men in dresses have a consistent social advantage over confused autistic men in dresses.
Hopefully some of those victims in the comments above might start realizing that the “transphobes” possibly are right that trooning out is perfectly possible for sex pest men who want a get out of jail free card.
Or a get into a jail full of captive victims card.
Hopefully some of those victims in the comments above might start realizing that the “transphobes” possibly are right that trooning out is perfectly possible for sex pest men who want a get out of jail free card.
Learned another new word this morning. Reddit -- Archive
Had to look it up. Apparently, "achillean" approximately means male homosexual, but framed in a way to include "male aligned" gender specials.
This also seems to explain the use of the word "sapphic" rather than "lesbian".
Troon on Troon abuse, while unsurprising and a source of schraudenfrade for many of us just illustrates what happens when violent men in dresses have a consistent social advantage over confused autistic men in dresses.
Women pretending to be men. They told these girls that they were really men and then put them in their place in the most manly way possible but because she’s the man and he’s just a woman, absolutely no one in the trans community cares and they get told to stop bitching when they bring it up.
Women pretending to be men. They told these girls that they were really men and then put them in their place in the most manly way possible but because she’s the man and he’s just a woman, absolutely no one in the trans community cares and they get told to stop bitching when they bring it up.
I literally don’t get where they try to cobble these things together.
The Greeks actually had women warrior/huntress goddesses, which considering their general society treated most women worse than the most repressive Islamic society today, was “progressive”.
As far as I recall there are or were no girls masquerading as men and getting away with it in Greek mythology.
Stephen Fry mentioned that there was some sort of troon who didn’t so much make the cut in the more recent translations in his books about Greek mythology.
The fucking Troons themselves like to mention Hermaphroditus and misrepresent the concept as a centrally worshipped figure.
Brianna Wu burbles on about some “priestesses” who were Troons, but it sounds like either wishful thinking or at best a way for wealthy families to hide an embarrassing faggot ponce of a son in a time when all men, especially highborn, were expected to be great warriors.
Or at least just physically mighty as well as educated.
Bro needs to just take a whole packet of paracetamol for attention and then realize it's actually a very reliable way to kill yourself and no one can save him and he'll die a horrible, painful death regretting being an attention whore like women and stupid teens do semi frequently.
He could also od on fentanyl but that's much less dramatic and people might just assume he's a junkie and not a kawaii pained anime girl.
The cost of pursuing one's truth, as it turns out, is being considered wildly unsexy by most people. Hm, who could've warned you that becoming a flabby woman with hirsuitism would've made your little black book rather empty?
