Expecting women to be clean shaven(inregards to the face) is not muh soggy knees. It's no different then expecting a man to be well groomed, beard or not; for women that means no facial hair, for men that means no neck beards or patchy/wispy beards/mustaches. It's not regarded as unmasculine to have these deficiencies, it's just regarded as gross; in the same vein it's not regarded as unfeminine for women to have slight facial hair, but it is considered gross and unseemly to display it. Basic grooming standards while different across all cultures nevertheless exist in all cultures, and whether you think ours unfair or arbitrary is not really a cause for concern to broader society. Protest via your nasty sideburns and wispy staches my feminist sisters, but don't bitch about muh soggy knees, le ebil beauty industry, or any other fictitious assemblage of villains hellbent on hating women.
Dude, the expectations from women to be what you might call "presentable" far exceed these of men's and in my opinion, one of the reasons that there are so many female enbies and pooners. The policing of the female body is unreal. Until you have to remove every bit of hair from every inch of your body and any facial hair that is not your eyebrows (which you have to shape and clean on a regular basis), seriously, you have no room to talk. Not all of us are blond Europeans who are almost hairless and the hair they do have is barely noticeable, or East Asians who are almost hairless naturally, lol. With all due respect, shaving your face once a day or few days is not comparable in the least to the daily/weekly/periodically often costly, often painful, time-consuming, never-ending maintenance that teenage girls and women have to go through (how often depends on your genetics and if you had hair removal treatments such as laser, which by the way, just to make it clear, are painful, are expensive, not everyone can do them and they don't last forever) removing their body and facial hair. And that's not counting other things like putting on makeup, taking care of your hair (often a far more difficult, time consuming and expensive operation for women than men), dressing in more fitting yet far less comfortable cloths and shoes... yes, women and teenage girls are not physically forced to do so but there are strong social expectations and informal social sanctions that women & teenage girls are faced with if they don't. Claiming that both men and women are having it equally on this front is just plain wrong.
Edited to add that I forgot to mention weight - men could be pudgy and even fat (to a certain degree), and they could still be considered attractive, women are far less so, even though women physically need more fat in their body so their body actually store more fat than men's body, and they have hormonal fluctuations all the time which could cause changes in weight, and (many of them) get pregnant - for many, the fat don't just go away -
and after menopause there is a serious slowing down of metabolism - still people and society in general are far more forgiving about men being overweight/fat than women. Think about "dad bod", there is not parallel "mom bod". Also the female body is basically dissected and judged by the different parts of the body in a way the male body isn't (boobs, butt, hips, waist, legs). I don't know how you can say that women and men have it the same in this regard.