Off-Topic Trans Widows - Because why wouldn't this thread exist?

[Det. Frank Washington Esq]

This thread is to document the under reported and oftentimes ignored (by mainstream media, of course) victims of an especially egregious contingency of Troons: women who married men that later transitioned.

What Is A Trans Widow?

A trans widow is a woman (usually heterosexual) whose male partner or husband believes that they have a gender identity other than “man” or who cross dresses. Often women also report having experienced that their husband or partner has autogynephilia (AGP).

Women in this situation report feeling like their male partner has died. This is particularly the case if their partner or husband came out as trans' and decided to transition. The transformation is usually so complete that their partner is unrecognisable as the man they married, both in looks and in personality. The woman will be forbidden from calling her husband by his previous “dead name”.

Source (A)

Post all examples here. No other place will have a curated collection that also has our color commentary and probably top hats.

 

[Det. Frank Washington Esq]

I'll break the seal.

 

[Mayor Cody Travers]

As someone who'd like to find twue wuv and get married someday, the troons who pull this shit disgust me more than you will ever, ever know.

You find and build a bond with someone special and you throw it all away for a fetish?! When so many people struggle to make connections in today's world?! Truly vile, sickening men, each and every one of 'em.

 

[gagabobo1997]

I saw the discussion of creating this thread, hopefully it'll turn out well. I feel like there's lots of content that could belong either here or in the relationship fuckup thread. Maybe some crossposting from there would be in order.

 

[Super An Hero]

A lot of the agp to troon pipeline starts with a midlife crisis. In the past a man in a midlife crisis would buy a car or try to dress more hip, now they take HRT and cut their dick off.

The difference is that buying a muscle car doesn't destroy your family, cutting your dick off and insisting you are a genderqueer xey/xir does.

 

[deermeat]

As someone who'd like to find twue wuv and get married someday, the troons who pull this shit disgust me more than you will ever, ever know.

You find and build a bond with someone special and you throw it all away for a fetish?! When so many people struggle to make connections in today's world?! Truly vile, sickening men, each and every one of 'em.

Chris popped up instantly in my mind. He had every man's dream. A decent wife, a child- a boy even! Over a million dollars solely due to the right connection at the right time. little to zero effort put in his life. And what does he do? What does he give back to the world that blessed him so dearly?

... Leaving it all behind to chase a fucking fetish, potentially involving his little boy in it too considering he made his son cross dress and hangs out with a bunch of fags- that poor boy has most likely been SAed as a result. Yet people have the audacity to defend him.

 

[Det. Frank Washington Esq]

I saw the discussion of creating this thread, hopefully it'll turn out well. I feel like there's lots of content that could belong either here or in the relationship fuckup thread. Maybe some crossposting from there would be in order.

Crossposting was part of the goal. But trans widows needs their own place, if but for content aggregation.

 

[Vi0l3t]

So many examples on different tranny threads of this happening. Seems mostly men doing it then the women. Trannies cry and complain online after they get dumped for being an AGP fetish freak and the partner leaves.

 

[i440BX]

As someone who'd like to find twue wuv and get married someday, the troons who pull this shit disgust me more than you will ever, ever know.

You find and build a bond with someone special and you throw it all away for a fetish?! When so many people struggle to make connections in today's world?! Truly vile, sickening men, each and every one of 'em.

Porn addiction is a bitch. You feel attracted to kinks you are repulsed and you cannot react to vanilla porn.
People with less control/shame will troon out because they got suckered into feminization fetishes.

Instead of acknowledging it is an abnormal fetish and do it in private, IT HAS BEEN NORMALIZED TO SHOW SUCH BEHAVIOR to point it is illegal to criticize it.

We need support for those people. We need to make our voices heard and say we should help those people or even ourselves.

 

[Hassou Tobi]

Well, one thing I always find amusing(?) is that the wives notice that "becoming a woman" for the troons only seems to extend to "sexy" cross dressing and getting pegged. Never helping around the house or watching the kids more. Funny, that.

 

[Lithuophile]

Any pooner widowers out there? Probably a smaller percentage since:

1. Women don't tend to full-transition as much as men

2. Husbands can keep their wives in check better than the other way around

However, I'm still curious as to what its like

 

[Chongqing]

I'll break the seal.

I love how appropriately horrified his face is while she's telling her story.

That therapist, damn. Imagine being told that you're a lesbian because your husband is mentally ill. In 1998. Buffy The Vampire Slayer is best show on television, Bill Clinton getting impeached, and this time traveling therapist is destroying your life.

Her three children had six suicide attempts.

Edit to add: a pooner activist who was dating her husband threatened to murder her children.

 

[Metatron]

I don't think it's fair to call them them transsomething as they had nothing to do with it.

 

[Mexican Molotov Marauder]

Any pooner widowers out there? Probably a smaller percentage since:

1. Women don't tend to full-transition as much as men

2. Husbands can keep their wives in check better than the other way around

However, I'm still curious as to what its like

Has to be the single worst BPDzilla that ever walked the Earth.

 

[I Do Not Post]

Chris popped up instantly in my mind. He had every man's dream. A decent wife, a child- a boy even! Over a million dollars solely due to the right connection at the right time. little to zero effort put in his life. And what does he do? What does he give back to the world that blessed him so dearly?

... Leaving it all behind to chase a fucking fetish, potentially involving his little boy in it too considering he made his son cross dress and hangs out with a bunch of fags- that poor boy has most likely been SAed as a result. Yet people have the audacity to defend him.

forgive me but uh, which "chris" are you talking about? this doesn't apply to any of the ones i know. (cwc, watts, etc)

 

[DumbDude43]

Any pooner widowers out there? Probably a smaller percentage since:

1. Women don't tend to full-transition as much as men

2. Husbands can keep their wives in check better than the other way around

However, I'm still curious as to what its like

i have never heard of a case where a married woman poons out on her husband

 

[HyperboreanRightsActivist]

Any pooner widowers out there?

Has to be the single worst BPDzilla that ever walked the Earth

i have never heard of a case where a married woman poons out on her husband

This is fatrick's ultimate fate.

 

[TismFarmer]

forgive me but uh, which "chris" are you talking about? this doesn't apply to any of the ones i know. (cwc, watts, etc)

Chris-->Kris
MrBeast's best friend/worst nightmare...

 

[and I must scream]

i have never heard of a case where a married woman poons out on her husband

I have. The mother of the "transgirl" Corey Maison transitioned alongside her son. She had 5 children (biological), but she had always been a man, you know. Her husband insists this doesn't mean he is gay.

Edit to add - a video about that: WORLD FIRST: Mother and son both transition to opposite genders | 60 Minutes Australia

 

[Sperghetti]

Any pooner widowers out there? Probably a smaller percentage since:

1. Women don't tend to full-transition as much as men

2. Husbands can keep their wives in check better than the other way around

However, I'm still curious as to what its like

I think it's more that, like @Super An Hero said, married men trooning out is often a byproduct of a midlife crisis. For some reason, it doesn’t seem nearly as common for women to have that “oh god, I’m getting old and boring and losing my sex appeal” sort of identity crisis.

I suspect most of the women’s side is going to be like that case that was just mentioned where they’ll either be doing it in solidarity with one of their kids, or more likely just claiming to be “non-binary” (also probably in solidarity with one of their kids).