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- Jul 3, 2021
As a cisgender male currently considering a transition to female, I wanted to make a thread to support our trans and non-binary Kiwis. I’ll kick off the thread by reinforcing some of the common myths about transgenderism, including those believed by some people on this website: Common myths about transgender people are often rooted in misinformation and confusion between gender identity and sexual orientation, which are distinct concepts. Gender identity refers to a person's internal sense of self as male, female, or something else, while sexual orientation describes who a person is attracted to.
One prevalent myth is that being transgender is a choice or a phase. The reality is that gender identity is an inherent aspect of a person and not something chosen. Transitioning is a serious process undertaken to align one’s life with their true identity, often after years of internal struggle.
Another myth is that children cannot be transgender. In fact, people can realize they are transgender at any age, and some have memories of knowing from a very young age. For children, consistent, insistent, and persistent identification with a gender different from their sex assigned at birth is a strong indicator of being transgender.
It is also falsely believed that all transgender people seek hormone therapy or surgery. However, transition paths vary widely and may include social changes like name and pronoun updates, clothing, or legal changes, without any medical intervention. Not all transgender individuals experience gender dysphoria, and being transgender is not in itself a mental illness.
Some claim that transgender individuals pose a threat in restrooms or sports, but there is no evidence that inclusive policies have led to safety issues in public facilities. In sports, research shows no scientific basis for excluding transgender youth, and such exclusion causes significant harm to their well-being.
The idea that transgender identities are a modern phenomenon is also false. Transgender people have existed throughout history and across cultures, with documented cases from the early 20th century and before. The apparent increase in visibility today reflects greater social acceptance rather than a sudden rise in numbers.
Medical transition is often misunderstood. Trans-affirming care has an extremely low regret rate—less than 1%—compared to much higher rates for other common medical procedures. Access to care, however, remains difficult due to insurance barriers, long wait times, and legal hurdles.
Finally, the claim that sex and gender cannot be changed overlooks the lived reality of transsexual individuals who medically transition. For many, hormone therapy and surgery do change physical sex characteristics, aligning their bodies with their gender identity. Sex assignment at birth is typically based on genitalia, but this does not always reflect the full biological picture, which can include variations in chromosomes and internal anatomy.
One of the biggest myths I feel is that transgenderism is a mental illness. However, people conflate the meaning of gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria arises from a persistent and significant incongruence between a person's gender identity and the sex they were assigned at birth, leading to distress and discomfort. This mismatch can manifest in various ways, including a deep sense of unease or dissatisfaction with one's body, particularly its primary or secondary sex characteristics, such as genitals, facial hair, or breast development. Individuals may feel disconnected from their body, experience discomfort with how others perceive and treat them based on their assigned sex, or feel that societal expectations and gender norms do not align with their internal sense of self.
The distress can be profound, potentially leading to mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, social withdrawal, or even suicidal thoughts. It is important to note that not all transgender individuals experience gender dysphoria, and the intensity and specific symptoms vary widely between people. Some may feel a constant, underlying sense of discomfort, while others may only experience distress in specific situations, such as when using public restrooms or being misgendered.
The condition is not a mental illness itself but can result in significant psychological distress due to the mismatch between identity and physical reality. This distress is often exacerbated by social factors such as discrimination, stigma, bullying, and the lack of societal acceptance or support. The experience of gender dysphoria is deeply personal and can be influenced by a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors, although the exact causes remain unclear.
Treatment and support, often referred to as gender-affirming care, aim to alleviate this distress by helping individuals align their external presentation with their gender identity. This can include social transition (e.g., changing names, pronouns, clothing), medical interventions like hormone therapy or surgery, and psychological support such as counseling or therapy. The goal is to reduce the distress associated with the incongruence and improve overall well-being, which can include experiencing gender euphoria—the positive feeling of being affirmed in one's true gender.
One prevalent myth is that being transgender is a choice or a phase. The reality is that gender identity is an inherent aspect of a person and not something chosen. Transitioning is a serious process undertaken to align one’s life with their true identity, often after years of internal struggle.
Another myth is that children cannot be transgender. In fact, people can realize they are transgender at any age, and some have memories of knowing from a very young age. For children, consistent, insistent, and persistent identification with a gender different from their sex assigned at birth is a strong indicator of being transgender.
It is also falsely believed that all transgender people seek hormone therapy or surgery. However, transition paths vary widely and may include social changes like name and pronoun updates, clothing, or legal changes, without any medical intervention. Not all transgender individuals experience gender dysphoria, and being transgender is not in itself a mental illness.
Some claim that transgender individuals pose a threat in restrooms or sports, but there is no evidence that inclusive policies have led to safety issues in public facilities. In sports, research shows no scientific basis for excluding transgender youth, and such exclusion causes significant harm to their well-being.
The idea that transgender identities are a modern phenomenon is also false. Transgender people have existed throughout history and across cultures, with documented cases from the early 20th century and before. The apparent increase in visibility today reflects greater social acceptance rather than a sudden rise in numbers.
Medical transition is often misunderstood. Trans-affirming care has an extremely low regret rate—less than 1%—compared to much higher rates for other common medical procedures. Access to care, however, remains difficult due to insurance barriers, long wait times, and legal hurdles.
Finally, the claim that sex and gender cannot be changed overlooks the lived reality of transsexual individuals who medically transition. For many, hormone therapy and surgery do change physical sex characteristics, aligning their bodies with their gender identity. Sex assignment at birth is typically based on genitalia, but this does not always reflect the full biological picture, which can include variations in chromosomes and internal anatomy.
One of the biggest myths I feel is that transgenderism is a mental illness. However, people conflate the meaning of gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria arises from a persistent and significant incongruence between a person's gender identity and the sex they were assigned at birth, leading to distress and discomfort. This mismatch can manifest in various ways, including a deep sense of unease or dissatisfaction with one's body, particularly its primary or secondary sex characteristics, such as genitals, facial hair, or breast development. Individuals may feel disconnected from their body, experience discomfort with how others perceive and treat them based on their assigned sex, or feel that societal expectations and gender norms do not align with their internal sense of self.
The distress can be profound, potentially leading to mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, social withdrawal, or even suicidal thoughts. It is important to note that not all transgender individuals experience gender dysphoria, and the intensity and specific symptoms vary widely between people. Some may feel a constant, underlying sense of discomfort, while others may only experience distress in specific situations, such as when using public restrooms or being misgendered.
The condition is not a mental illness itself but can result in significant psychological distress due to the mismatch between identity and physical reality. This distress is often exacerbated by social factors such as discrimination, stigma, bullying, and the lack of societal acceptance or support. The experience of gender dysphoria is deeply personal and can be influenced by a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors, although the exact causes remain unclear.
Treatment and support, often referred to as gender-affirming care, aim to alleviate this distress by helping individuals align their external presentation with their gender identity. This can include social transition (e.g., changing names, pronouns, clothing), medical interventions like hormone therapy or surgery, and psychological support such as counseling or therapy. The goal is to reduce the distress associated with the incongruence and improve overall well-being, which can include experiencing gender euphoria—the positive feeling of being affirmed in one's true gender.
