Twitter hashtag PatientsAreNotFaking explodes after viral video - Health-care worker makes joke, twitter reacts

Twitter hashtag PatientsAreNotFaking explodes after viral video
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TORONTO -- The Twitter hashtag PatientsAreNotFaking is trending with people sharing their stories of not being believed after a U.S. health-care worker made a viral video mocking certain patients.

On Tuesday, Twitter user “D Rose” tweeted a TikTok video of her in medical scrubs dancing to the fake cough of a patient, who is also played by her. The caption read: “We know when y’all are faking.”

Rose, who declined to use her full name or identify where she worked, told CTVNews.ca that she’s worked in the health-care field for five years. In subsequent tweets, she said she’s “worked in mental health, alcohol and drug rehabilitation.”

Her Twitter feed also contains similar videos which she says jokingly, mock patients and said she regularly uses humour with her patients to put their minds at ease.

But her recent video, which has garnered 14.5-million views, has brought in waves of criticism accusing her of mocking patients with real medical concerns.

“I never thought in a million years, that people would see the exaggerated dance moves and think that is something I actually do,” Rose said.

But in the wake of the video, hundreds of people have flooded Twitter with the hashtag PatientsAreNotFaking, with tales of disbelieving doctors, nurses, paramedics.

D Rose
@DamnDRoseTweets
We know when y’all are faking 😂😂

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D Rose
@DamnDRoseTweets
Replying to @DamnDRoseTweets
I am both a health care provider AND a patient. I see both sides of the spectrum and have had my share of problems w/ providers.

I also know myself. I know how much I love my job. I know how much I care for the people I come across. And I know the positive difference I make.

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D Rose
@DamnDRoseTweets
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Replying to @DamnDRoseTweets
I worked in memory care for 3 years and had to leave because my heart was broken when a patient I grew close to passed away.

I then worked in mental health with alcohol and drug rehabilitation which I LOVED but I had to move

I now work in a new discipline that I love as well


D Rose
@DamnDRoseTweets
Humor has always been what made me stand out to the people I work with and the patients I help.

They come to me at what may be their worst times in their life, and my first reaction is to always figure out how I can make them smile

That was the intent of my video.

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For example, one woman tweeted about waking up in pain, with a fever and covered in sweat. “They sent me home without scans, said it was gastro (intestinal). I [was] readmitted the next day. [it was a] lodged kidney stone, needed a stent and lithotripsy to remove.”

Another user described how it was nearly a decade before she was correctly diagnosed with fibromyalgia because her doctor initially failed to understand her dizzy spells. One woman tweeted about how she was falsely labelled a hypochondriac after a car crash. After 15 years in pain, she was correctly diagnosed with “permanent and progressive spinal cord injury.”

Another woman recalled being told to calm down after being in and out of emergency rooms. “Turns out, it’s extremely hard to relax when you’re having your first attack from Multiple Sclerosis,” she said.

Dr. Eugene Gu tweeted that doctors are “human beings who make mistakes and can dismiss the concerns of patients out of ego or pride because we think we know better than you do for your own bodies. It’s wrong.”

But Rose told CTVNews.ca she was only mocking people clearly faking their symptoms, so she feels people’s anger is misplaced.

“From what I see, the majority of people that do not like my video have had some sort of bad encounter with a health-care provider,” she wrote. “So my video reminded them of a time that they were not given the care that they deserve.”

Tori Saylor
@tori_saylor
I was told multiple times over the course of several weeks in & out of the emergency room that I was having panic attacks & needed to calm down/relax.

Turns out, it’s extremely hard to relax when you’re having your first attack from Multiple Sclerosis (MS).#PatientsAreNotFaking

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Shannon Caffeine
@shannoncaffeine
I was rear ended while stopped at a red light and spent the next 15 years in pain and diagnosed with fibromyalgia and called a hypochondriac. I have a permanent and progressive spinal cord injury. #PatientsAreNotFaking

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ADVOCATE SAYS VIDEO MOCKS REAL PATIENTS

But, by phone, CEO and founder of The Centre of Patient Protection Kathleen Finlay told CTVNews.ca that doctors not believing patients “happens far too often.”

“It’s hard to believe this in 2019 but patients are still mocked and blamed by the major players in our health-care system. Whether it’s doctors, nurses, physiotherapists or pharmacists,” she said.

“I receive messages from families all the time who are treated with unbelievable disrespect,” Finlay said, adding that these two factors combined “can and do have enormous consequences.”

These could be misdiagnoses, needless emotional distress, failure to provide appropriate treatment and even death.

Eugene Gu, MD

@eugenegu
A few years ago an ER doctor told me that a patient writhing in pain was just here for drug seeking behavior. But his heart rate was elevated and his blood pressure was low. Can’t fake that. Got a CT scan, found a perforated bowel, and rushed him to surgery. #PatientsAreNotFaking

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Eugene Gu, MD

@eugenegu
People deserve to know the truth. Doctors aren’t saints or morally superior people. We’re human beings who make mistakes and can dismiss the concerns of patients out of ego or pride because we think we know better than you do for your own bodies. It’s wrong. #PatientsAreNotFaking

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In fact, patients’ symptoms not being believed is a large, documented issue for females, racialized groups and other minority communities in both Canada and the U.S.

Many, including Finlay, have called for repercussions for Rose.

Rose said there will always be patients who fake illnesses but that "from the moment I began nursing school, we were taught that pain and symptoms are subjective and that we are required to treat them regardless of what we may or may not think."

To patients who aren't taken seriously in real life, she told CTVNews.ca: "I am sorry that you are not receiving the care that you deserve. Be sure to always be your biggest supporter and advocate. If one person is not treating you correctly, demand another and don't stop until you feel satisfied in the care you received."

And she also defended herself in a series of tweets saying, “The FACT is my video had nothing to do with race, mocking panic attacks, or anything else I’ve been accused of.”

“I also know myself. I know how much I love my job. I know how much I care for the people I come across. And I know the positive difference I make,” she wrote. “[Patients] come to me at what may be their worst times in their life, and my first reaction is to always figure out how I can make them smile.”

Rose said she’s received death threats, calls for her to lose her job, as well as racist and sexist attacks.

But in a tweet, she refused to take down her video, writing: “I absolutely will not be bullied into apologizing or deleting a video because some people disagree with me.”

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I find this attitude especially alarming when it's politicians proposing government programs and suggesting nothing to keep bad actors from taking advantage. They don't seem concerned about overburdening the system, and they don't seem to care that the public will likely turn against programs that they feel are being unfairly exploited.
Why would a politician care? They don't have to deal with the aftermath, they can retire and get a cushy job with a lobbyist group, and they can just blame those damn Republicans for sabotage/defunding/being soulless and wanting them dead.

That's been their MO for decades and decades, why stop?
 
This is one of those moments where people need to understand the difference between sweeping statements and statements about specific people. Getting upset over a doctor saying “we know when people are faking” doesn’t mean they’re saying you are faking

Maybe it does, if they're reacting so strongly... as if they're being called out.

Joking, joking.
 
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Meet Chronically.Jaquie - Some of her doctors did listen and she's dead because of it.


#patientsarenotfaking on IG and here's direct instructions on how to get the diagnosis and treatments you want.
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Meet Chronically.Jaquie - Some of her doctors did listen and she's dead because of it.


#patientsarenotfaking on IG and here's direct instructions on how to get the diagnosis and treatments you want.
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I wonder what the gender breakdown of fakers is.

Something tells me there's a reason women aren't taken as seriously.
 
I don't know why it's so goddamn hard for people to accept the fact that some people are manipulative liars. Some people have absolutely no conscience and will lie about anything from the dumbest mundane details, to huge tragedies. And that's not even including the people who just unconsciously exaggerate everything that happens to them. Work any public-facing job, and you will see it all far more often than you'd like to.
It is the first step of many in realizing how very fucked up this planet is. I can understand wanted to keep one's head in the sand about such matters.

I wonder what the gender breakdown of fakers is.

Something tells me there's a reason women aren't taken as seriously.
Rated autistic by Blanche, eh?

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I wonder what the gender breakdown of fakers is.

Something tells me there's a reason women aren't taken as seriously.

When women fake, they're doing it in the ways Jacquie suggests - looking professional, citing "data", carefully avoiding the appearance of opioid wheedling. They're running a long con. Dudes don't seem as adept at that (that I've seen). They're unkempt, inarticulate, drug seeking shitheads, and they look like it. When there's a pro, it's a female.
 
I can tell you first hand that a lot of patients are doctor-shopping druggie pieces of shit looking for whatever new opiate or painkiller they can get their grubby little hands on.

In my time volunteering with my mother, who's a nurse in a family full of doctors, we had a lot of 17 year old hackey-sack playing, bathroom-vaping jackasses come in claiming that their arm is "hurting" or their back is "hurting" and they specifically need Norco because over the counter stuff like Motrin, Tylenol, Advil, etc, etc "don't work", and, in addition to that, they "need" 6 months off of work and disability. All of this, without any evidence of physical injury even after repeated testing.

The people who are more dedicated to their addiction are even worse. They intentionally get themselves injured in somewhat serious, but non-fatal ways so they can get their precious pills. And, if you try and reduce their dose, they either A)Start taking more pills at a time (and somehow expect the doctor not to notice) or B) Start fighting with the doctor, threatening lawsuits or physical violence if they don't get it.

There are definitely some patients that aren't faking, but when a doctor thinks a patient is faking, they're most definitely fucking faking, especially when pills are involved.

Fuck the dumbass wannabe victims on Twitter, doctors spend decades of their lives studying this shit. Only a moron would legitimately take the word of some whining tweenager on Twitter over that of a licensed professional.
 
I work in healthcare and everyone jokes about the patients all the time. Usually not on TikTok, but still. It's a highly stressful job and if you're an asshole, it's guaranteed that your caregivers are making morbid jokes about you outside of the room. This video is some weak shit.

I invite anyone who is pushing this "believe all patients" shit to work a few shifts in an ER. It's about 25% people with real problems, 75% bullshit.
 
As someone who works in the healthcare field, I can say this is dangerous. If this person was working under me, I would have fired them immediately. I know several people who work in the US, Canadian, and European healthcare system, and even if someone is faking, there's still something wrong. I have discussed this with several colleagues in the past, and we all agree that one barrier to entry missing from the healthcare field is psychiatric and psychological evaluation. Also, I'm sorry, but I also wouldn't hire a nurse who has tattoos or wears scrubs that tight. I wouldn't doubt that she's a very low-ranking nurse. This just pisses me off to the extreme because I've seen so much of this garbage, this isn't humor, this is some idiot who is using her position and a low ranking nurse to further her career as an IG thot.

I guess some munchies got triggered. :lol:



Years ago you might actually get hydrocodone if you were in enough pain. I got it for an ear infection when I was 16 because I was going on a trip and the doctor didn't want me to be in pain. Now it was really bad pain. I thought my ear drum was going to explode. But you wouldn't see this happen today. They might give you an Advil. Maybe a Tylenol no. 3. But you ain't getting hydrocodone. They overprescibed this stuff so much that zombies dying to get high started seeing the ER and their personal dealer.

I've even seen addicts at the pharmacy demanding drugs and coming up with all kinds of excuses as to why they should get something they don't even have a prescription for. One lady claimed she was an undercover cop and they had to give her opioids for a case she was working on. Security escorted her away as she was screaming how they were all going to jail.:lit:
That's why meds are being more tightly regulated. One thing that saddens me is that addicts truly have a problem, I've never met an addict who wants to get high just to have fun and party.
 
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Munchies be mad hoes.

Seriously, though, these are munchies angry and desperate that people not know what a plague of worthless shits they are, probably combined with some people who don't know these turds exist.
 
Feel like this is one of those things where the majority of people wouldn't go to a doctor/hospital faking an illness, so they think nobody would do such a thing. However it happens all the time for different reasons and must be annoying for those working in the medical field.

That being said nurses and doctors are just people so they can be idiots, assholes, prone to mistakes, or a combo of any/all 3 just like anybody else. Not really sure where i'm going with this, guess both sides are a little bit right and a little bit wrong.
 
You know what? Fuck munchies and fuck this Twitter bitch. I had a nigger nurse tell me I wasn't in pain after surgery because i never had a baby like her and my surgeon believed her. Every morning I screamed in pain.and finally my dad called the surgeon and let him listen to my screams one morning. I got vicodin that afternoon and an apology because I had "a rare complication". I was also 17 and had never been on opiates let alone doctor shopping.

Addicts and munchies fuck it up for those who are in legit, serious, screaming at the top of their lungs pain. Fuck them all with a rusty metal bat.

Edit; Fuck nigger nurses too, fuck every "medical professional" that thinks he/she can spot a fake.
 
They gave me 5 lortabs after an oral surgeon chiseled my wisdom teeth out of my jaw (no hyperbole there, they were growing in sideways). I had a refill, didn't use it because it made me nauseous and I'd rather be in pain.

Before I fired my previous doctor, I was getting lectured about opiate use 7 years after said surgery. Bitch, you see that was seven years ago, stop being retarded.
 
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