Had time to kill. Fair warning:
Don’t almost all adult males have at least a sprinkling of chest hair? I mean I get not liking the fully carpeted look but surely the majority of men have a bit?
I’ll go for:
hipster moustaches
Hipsters in general
Pretentious fuckers
Men who are mean to people like serving staff
Men who have weird quasi incestual relationships with their mums
All of the above (even just taken point by point) reveal a pattern of behavior that no human being, man or woman, should give two seconds of their day. Like straight up "oh no, it's retarded" shit right there.
Men who have obsessive hobbies that take them out of the house constantly (like cycling or Hill running) because it means you get left with all the drudge work. Gaming doesn’t count, that’s fine.
So humor me if you get a chance, as I'm genuinely curious (no, it's not bait):
If that same obsessive type of behavior was instead channeled towards a hugely successful career or..anything far more immediately beneficial to you/your relationship as a whole, would it still bother you so?
I'm interested where the line is for that portion of male behavior, as I'd wager most men who would be desirable long term would have at least
a little of that trait. Perhaps not, or not for you specifically?
Men who are aggressive or violent. In any way, to any one - lack of self control is ugly.
So is it more the lack of self control, or more the aggressive behavior? You can be aggressive or potentially violent in ways I'd say are ultimately positive for the sake of a relationship (especially one's own family).
Your man pressuring a car salesman in an aggressive way might make you feel uncomfortable to be around (<-and oddly common albeit anecdotal thing), but you'll certainly appreciate a nicer variant at a cheaper price on that car you wanted.
Then there's always examples of needing to be violent for the sake of protection or self-defense. I'd imagine you'd have caveats for that? I try to assume a lack of exceptionalism in any kiwi directly approached for the first time.
Vanity - men who must have designer stuff, or must be overly groomed.
They're in the closet or have a bitch on the side. Run.
Fantasists
Men who like musicals
Assuming movies and not a proper Broadway style show: Just don't expect em to go along with you when you go to see one. For the love of all that is man - go with your friends instead.
I mean that's totally subjective. Or not. Probably not.
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Men who will not see any other point of view (SJW types.)
Men who refuse to do their share of the housework. Chaps: NOTHING is less sexy in a long term relationship than a giant manchild who ‘cant’ load the dishwasher or who does nothing around the house.
Dating children is gross. Shame on you.
Also, fun "long term" fact: Finding shit to do around the house also gets you away from each other for a while so you don't wanna kill the other by the end of a long stressful weekend. Win-win.
Men who call looking after their own kids babysitting and think they deserve a medal for it.
Combined with a few entries up there, I have to ask: Where are you finding these people?