What are you going to do for Valentine's Day?

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I'm debating whether to go see live jazz with my friend. On one hand he's finalizing his divorce tomorrow and while on the surface he's happy about it I know his wife is such a BPD cunt that she's going to try to manipulate him and he could probably use a friend afterward. On the other hand, I used to ritualistically sit and drink while listening to live jazz, and the last time I went it was one of the only times in 600+ days of sobriety that I really, really wanted to drink. On the other other hand, I really like live jazz.

It also used to be my anniversary, so if I don't do something I'll probably get in my head about it, but I also might not be good company to be around, which would be especially shitty of me if my buddy needs emotional support and I'm off on my own bullshit. So I don't know, I guess I'll play it by ear.

In any case I've gone 311 days without using women to make myself feel loved and I'm not about to fuck that up. Better that I feel bad than make somebody else feel bad.
 
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The user reading this post ',;^)

I'm debating whether to go see live jazz with my friend. On one hand he's finalizing his divorce tomorrow and while on the surface he's happy about it I know his wife is such a BPD cunt that she's going to try to manipulate him and he could probably use a friend afterward. On the other hand, I used to ritualistically sit and drink while listening to live jazz, and the last time I went it was one of the only times in 600+ days of sobriety that I really, really wanted to drink. On the other other hand, I really like live jazz.

It also used to be my anniversary, so if I don't do something I'll probably get in my head about it, but I also might not be good company to be around, which would be especially shitty of me if my buddy needs emotional support and I'm off on my own bullshit. So I don't know, I guess I'll play it by ear.

In any case I've gone 311 days without using women to make myself feel loved and I'm not about to fuck that up. Better that I feel bad than make somebody else feel bad.
You should go hang out with your friend. It sounds like he needs your emotional support and if you play your cards right, you might be able to take your friendship to the next level.
 
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