What do you do when life has hit a wall

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Kahlz

Kahlz

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I need advice from autistic kiwis that isn't just kys, but in all honesty life has felt like its a rough patch and I was just wondering what other people do to get through it
 
Seems like everybody's life sucks right now. Take a trip or do something you normal wouldn't do that is fun. A change in a good way always helps.
 
Learn from the koolaid man oh-yeah-oh-yeah-gif.gif
 
I watch neo-nazi propaganda and agartha/hyperborea edits and that gives me a boost tbh.

But generally most things that a) break you out of your routine and b) are physically active help a lot. You want to get out of the environment that caused the rough patch and you want to move a lot.
Walking in nature is especially good, since you make physical progress and that has a psychosomatic feedback on your mindset.

That's for 'bad week' level stuff. If you think you've made a serious mistake in life and went down the wrong path ten years ago then just going out for a walk won't help, you'll need to slowly readjust your entire life.
 
If you are a man, you can just "man up". Its a natural skill that you're born with it.

Other things you can do is pick up a new hobby, take a walk, learn a instrument, read a book, good ol gym/calisthenics, etc... Point is distract yourself in a healthy way that is not just binge watching some sort of slop.
 
Throw yourself into something new, and find a way to involve new people as part of it. A lot of being stuck in a rut is a downstream consequence of being too much in your own head.
If you're socially awkward and the idea of going out and forcing new friendships is unwelcome, see if you can find a club or community event or something that interests you and offer to help out. The osmosis of being there melts the ice and bit and gets you over the initial hurdle.
 
You need hobbies and distraction. It's never a great idea to always let your mind wander. Because, letting your mind do that, you start thinking of shit like the many what-could-have-been parts of your life and the hundreds of regrets that follows. You waste so much time trying to chase things that have passed you by.

Life is not truly over for potential, until you're at least 55. If you're 55, haven't done shit for yourself or figured anything out, then you've failed. At least then, add some entertainment value by getting upfront with police. You won't find anything short of excitement for being a nuisance.

Or you know, kill yourself if that's too cumbersome for you.
 
You suffer through it and numb your brain with alcohol in an attempt to resist the urge to put a shotgun to your head. I always laugh when people suggest "Get a hobby!" as if that is going to have any meaningful impact on your life. Hobbies are the same as any other activity you may choose to pursue; a distraction from the natural and miserable state of things.
 
Stuff some plastic bags under your shirt, find a clean corner in the alley, and be content that at least you're going to lose some of that puppy fat.
 
My approach over the past couple of months has been cut down on useless shit that makes me angry(browsing A&N or 4chan or twitter/facebook), sticking to a home workout routine no matter how lazy/ill/whatever I am at the time and just open myself up to any kind of learning opportunity that presents itself to me and lets me get out of the house.
Life still sucks HUGELY but I'm nearly 4 kgs slimmer, am about to earn my driver's license and did some archery recently. And I actually spend most of my free time reading books or playing vidya instead of quietly seething at what 4chan's become or whatever geopolitical situation that I couldn't influence in the slightest so win win win.
 
A change of scenery is surprisingly helpful. If you have nothing keeping you in a specific place consider moving and changing jobs or careers.

You can always have a good old fashioned mid life crisis, buy a fast car and see how much vag you can score before you get VD.

I have no idea how old you are but, college age girls with daddy issues will totally go for a guy with confidence who can afford his own house/condo. The stupid fucks their own age in college/freash out are so wrapped up in gender studies they have taken themselves right out of the dating pool by being broke buried in student load debt, trooning out, lacking self sufficiency and creating a world where they will never be able to afford a Condo or house in their name. Roomates? WTF are roommates? You mean the garage? That's where I keep my cars and tools.
 
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