What is the best activity or place for a first date?

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Best date I ever had was a boardwalk at the beach right on the sand, with a nearby mini fair a few blocks inland with a Ferris wheel, ice cream, fun stores/restaurants, etc. Had some personal history with the area too, which helped. We could walk, talk, watch the water/boats/people/animals, ride the wheel, and get food. Sort of a best of all of the above suggestions really. But ultimately, what makes a date good is if y’all click (you can tell within 10 minutes if you aren’t clicking). If you click, then the activities matter much less.
 
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For a 1st date, I would go with a neutral location but create a situation where you can show off your good side.
Think of an activity that the girl might want to do, one that you're already decent at.
It will allow you to effectively lead the date, show off your skills and confidence in a natural way.

Here's one of my personal examples:
I'm an athlete, I can do a lot of physical things that most people can't (yeah, powerlevel, whatever).
One of the best options for me is to go to a park and then give the girl a lesson in handstands (I've noticed over the years that a ton of girls want to learn how to do a handstand, knowing how to do it yourself will make girls want to approach you).
If it's too cold/rain for the park, I would take her to a gymnastics hall or something like that.
That's my tactic but I understand that it's not for everyone.

I wouldn't recommend food on the 1st date.
I also wouldn't recommend buying the food.
For a "food date" to truly work, you need to cook it yourself.
If she's comfortable enough to come over to your place, make a nice lunch/dinner for her and chances are, you will get laid.
 
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Lunch is good. The fact that it’s a meal says “this is a date,” and the fact that it’s during the day says “but there’s no pressure.” If things go well, you can extend the date into the afternoon and if not, it’s easy to come up with an excuse to end it without looking awkward.
 
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Depends if you know her or don't, if you really know her then you can take her tastes into account if you have no idea and want to get to know her try to find a setting where talking is easy like just grabbing something to drink and chat (cafe or bar, a walk in a pretty place, etc). It will rely on not sounding like an absolute mongo and struggling to find topics to talk about though, it's a tough sell but if you're retarded is better she finds out earlier rather than later. Never go for dinner or lunch in a first date though, try to find something where leaving is relatively easy so that they won't feel trapped (or yourself, imagine finding halfway through the date she's an insufferable cunt and having to stay the whole meal in there).

If all fails just try to make a minigame as the date goes on to have fun like trying to slip mein kampf quotes or lyrics from the fresh prince of bel-air. Godspeed.
 
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My advice is pick a place for dinner you're familiar with. Something with a middle of the road price but with great food.

If you're a serial dater and have a lot of first dates, always have the first date at the same place. It will keep you covered if something happens that you keep one and they want to reminisce.
 
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Take her to Denny's and tell her about your favourite lolcow. If she is a keeper she stays, if she isn't, then she throws hot coffee in your face. It has to be Denny's because it's cheap and the coffee is always hot.
 
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