Yeah, troons naturally gravitate to janny roles. The only reason you should ever need a C# discord is to ask beginner questions. Ignore the rest of the shit, ask your question, then close the tab.
And (correct me if I'm outdated on this kiwis), C# is an amazing beginner language to learn with a ton of great resources and many, many jobs available. Almost every mid sized company in your town will need C# programmers for business logic apps and many are willing to train if you put in a little effort learning and showing promise. They can't pay as well as bigger software firms but absolutely need people.
If your alternative is NEETdom or working retail it's a wonderful path. Ignore the troon shit. They almost exclusively hire each other and aren't going to be working in mid-tier mom and pop businesses. Keep in mind this career path gets harder and harder to start on every year as the government continues to dismantle society by flooding it with unlimited pajeets, but the future is still bright for learning how to make computers do stuff.