What was the most beta thing you’ve ever done?

There was a chubby girl who got bullied a lot on my high school water polo team. I used to stand up for her when people harassed her, but she clued in on my social awkwardness and thought that she could capitalize on it via gossip to push me beneath her on the totem pole. It never worked because she was so fucking obnoxious.

I wanted to punch her. I fantasized about it for years but never followed through. I was too afraid of disciplinary actions damaging my college applications. Still, I should've at least confronted her or stood up for myself, but I never did.

One of my most beta moments was when the team was doing a drill. Basically just floating in a triangle and rapidly passing the ball to each other. I missed the ball and went after it, but she broke off from another group and grabbed it before I got there. Made eye contact with me and then threw it about 24 yards further away.

Instead of doing anything about it, I just swam after the ball while she just floated there mocking the look I gave her. Even at 17, I felt like she was too old for that.

Enough years have passed to the point where this shouldn't matter, but I still wouldn't mind punching her today.
 
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Ughubughughughughughghlug said:
Does run, here, mean literally ran after her or just that you continued to pursue her?
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Kept in contact with them even after they cheated on me. Still tried being there for them. Hoping they'd get together with me again etc.
My naive brain back then thought that this was the perfect person for me. Haha... ha.

If there's a better english word for that please let me know.
 
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soft breathing said:
Kept in contact with them even after they cheated on me. Still tried being there for them. Hoping they'd get together with me again etc.
My naive brain back then thought that this was the perfect person for me. Haha... ha.

If there's a better english word for that please let me know.
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There's nothing wrong with your choice of word, I just, for some reason, had a mental image of your ex dumping you, and leaving, and you chasing after her. The way you used "run" is common.
 
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Cedric_Eff said:
I enjoyed Tokyo Disney resort and other Japanese amusement parks.

also I slept on a bench with my backpack as my pillow and with my legs closed.
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To be honest, I think the only thing beta about that is enjoying Tokyo Disneyland, and I respect you too Cedric, so don't take it too harshly. Only reason why I say that though is because every other Japanese person out there likes Disney and goes full ameriboo over it. If only they knew....
Shiversblood said:
Chasing a girl and tackling her to the ground and tieing her up is against the law. That’s kidnapping.
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To be honest lusting over another kiwi is pretty beta of me. (plus shiversblood is a dude so)
 
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Most beta thing I've done?

Watching anime and discussing that shit with diehard weebs. These misfits were addicted to yuri hentai and tried to show me their ways but my faith was strong and I ended up watching yaoi bara. Nothing manlier than two alpha men fucking like their lives depend on it.
 
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LOL so I went to one barber shop, today, and it was really busy. So then I went to my backup barber shop.

Well, that barber shop was also busy, so it took my a long time to get parked. Then, when I walk up to the door, I see this girl I went on a few dates with walk right in.

So I turn around and go all the way back to the first barber shop.

Kill me.
 
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Huge powerlevel:
In the middle of the night I had let a ned stay a whole day at my rented appartment because it seemed like he had no place to go... I only wanted him to stay the night.

During which he invited his friend over and both of the useless lot smoked weed (which is illegal where I'm from and could've gotten me kicked out). The only reason why they left is because I bought them alcohol and bus tickets.

I didn't sleep for 2 days because of this as I couldn't trust him enough not too plus I had to do a whole day's worth of tasks prior.
~I'll probably do the same again because I am so cucked.~
 
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When I was in high school I got a date to one of our football games with a girl who was way out of my league (I was pretty deep in my awkward phase at the time). I spent our "date" quietly following her around while she talked with her friends about their relationship drama, including drama with her ex-boyfriend. I didn't know her well, so I knew basically none of her friends and had no idea how to involve myself in any of this. No attempt was made to include me. I was an awkward third wheel on my own date the whole night and my only contribution was to buy her some food.

Needless to say, there wasn't a second date.
 
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