There is a question I've been trying to get answer to from our resident trannies and neither of them was able to give me a satisfying answer. The question is: how do you know you are a man\woman if you can't compare your experience to that of a biological man\woman?
@Mr. Cool ICE tried to talk about disliking her body and liking male clothes but I don't believe it's enough to consider oneself "wrong gender".
I think that most of those trannies who aren't just regular fetishists simply came to a point where they feel like they absolutely failed at life so they want to wipe the board clean and start from the beginning as a different person, that's why they react so violently when someone talks about their actual identity.
Hmmmmm, what you said about Cool ICE.....
I don't know if it's so much about just "liking the male clothing", but I think it's also how other girls act.
Now, I don't know Rita, but I know how other people can be. Some girls will act like feminine behaviour is what makes them women, and if a girl doesn't do that shit, they might say, "Oh my gawd, you are
such a guy!"
I honestly think the same thing happens with MtF tards.
Guys bully eachother for being weak, and say that's "girl behaviour", and then some of these victims 'reclaim that insult' by...... saying, "Yeah, I
AM a girl!"....... lol, instead of thinking it through at all.
I've seen MtFs say this themselves, although they dress it up as if its a super affirming choice, instead of retarded. I mean it honestly is one thing if you keep this behaviour to a single-sex space. Then it has context.
"This is what guys think of girls; this is what girls think of guys", but once it gets to a mixed-sex space, it gets retarded.... because the femboys run into actual women, and the übertomboys run into actual men, and it is obvious that they are different, in their bodies, as well as sometimes how they act.
I honestly believe that there are male and female reproductive instincts. I think hormones influence how people act. I think hormones shape people's brains. Especially young 'transbians' and 'gay ftms' who only lust after the opposite sex because that's what their natural levels of hormones ARE TELLING THEM TO DO!
It's just fucking nature, but these types of people are usually so 'logged-on' that they think it's BAD and EVIL to be straight. (Plus they probably have crushes on some homos of the opposite sex).
but yeah, I do think that you are right about wanting to construct a new identity. Someone wants to emphasize the things they're proud of in themselves, and erase anything that got them bullied or hurt.
Since the tranny thing has caught on, I've heard whiffs of women being banned from sites for saying they felt the same way as ftms describe, but they didn't transition.
Of course, the one example I can remember off the top of my head has some inflammatory language, but it kind of pisses me off that the mod just said, "you're banned and we're removing this", rather than allowing people to argue it out themselves.
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but I've seen other shit like this, where some women had been penalized for saying, "I felt the same way at puberty. I didn't like it. It felt wrong, but I matured eventually. You might, too."
I've seen people do anything to deny that they could ever share any similarities with these people that are reaching out to them. They've come up with a solution in their heads, and now they're afraid to admit they could be wrong because they won't look 'smart' anymore. It's so much smarter to back out of something painful early.................... or else just to..... wait and see, with an open mind. The thing about puberty is that it happens on its own time. It can't go faster.
I've also seen ftms do anything to deny that they have anything in common with other women at all.
I honestly think that's a trauma-induced response from being bullied by other women, or else for being bullied for being a girl.
or maybe they just find a lot of popular 'female-branded' expression cringey, including what other women choose to do themselves......
but their only 'role-models' for rejecting the stuff they find stupid are guys saying "LOL, STUPID CHICKS!"
Which I honestly find fine, do whatever you want, but that you will never ever be a biological male. As long as you don't get confused...