When, if ever, is it acceptable to cheat on your spouse? - Also post songs about cheating

[W00K #17]

People balk at the idea of a lord's right at first night and then they create stuff like this.

Untrue, his problem was wifing the side bitch.

Never respect your side bitch.

 

[jorgoth]

It's okay if you're female and it's with another female.

 

[sifareh592]

No.Never.
That's fucking stupid and will always hurt all parties involved.

 

[UnclePhil]

Read this first.

Then decide if it's worth the hassle. Because I can guarantee whatever issues you're having, the fallout is going to be much, much worse.

 

[Sped Xing]

Only when you can get away with it.

 

[Mad Asshatter]

When is it? Never. If it is a bad time in a relationship, cheating will more then likely make any chance at reconciliation nearly impossible, and might even result in a STD or pregnancy or jilted side lover that will almost certainly come back to haunt you if you decide to reconcile later.

Just walk away, take time to cool off and get your breath, and avoid each other for a while. It lets you decide with a clear head whether or not to get back with this person, or even break up if necessary.

 

[Immortal Technique]

Just end it if you want to cheat. End it if you were cheated on. There is no commitment if you want to cheat, and there is no trust/commitment if you were cheated on. And if you have kids; you both shouldn't be pieces of shits and realize they need both of you in their lives.

 

[Rat Lord]

I think if you want to end a relationship, voice this to your partner and if they try to threaten you or themselves and you can't leave. If a relationship is dead and you're being held against your will, then there is no promise or vows left to uphold.

Seconded, I think that's really the only 'acceptable' way, though your own mental state can get messed up from it anyways so should still be avoided. Powerlevel, but I've dealt with that particular abuse and as tempting as it is was, I know it would have fucked me up more so I didn't go through with it until I gtfo.

Just get out of a relationship if you want to cheat. It's not even worth staying if that's even an option you're considering. Once you're out, you are free to do whatever you want.

 

[Unyielding Stupidity]

I'd say it's acceptable if your partner is enough of a spineless coward to allow you to do so. If they're gonna let you do it, you might as well take advantage of their utter lack of self-respect.

 

[Wraith]

"It's not adultery, it's cheating!"
It's not cheating, it's adultery. It's called being an unfaithful evil dick. The wages of sin is death. Freaking self gratify if you need to let go and deal with your spousal crap in another way.

 

[murdered meat bag]

are you married?

then never, if its bad get a divorce.

rough patches happen, sometimes counselling works as you work out your individual triggers and defense mechanisms that exaccerbate the rough patch.

 

[behavioral swamp thang]

this onee always hits me in the feels
its over - corey stevens

 

[SinEater]

I watched a movie about gay dudes that had to move rocks in a German work camp once. It wasn't very good, but in order to not get concentrated for being gay the Nazis were like "habe Sex mit diesem toten Küken." I think that is roughly where it is okay to cheat on your spouse.

 

[Emperor Julian]

Never, the closest is if you're partner has gone bug shit insane and you're going through divorce proceedings and she won't co-operate so its dragging out. But the relationship is de-facto dead even if it still exists on paper.

Maybe if you're spouse if permantly incapacitated to the point the relationship is dead.

 

[Rice Is Ready]

Never. What if it drives your partner mad and they ruin your life then?

The Shooters - If I Ever Go Crazy

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[Clown College]

Slight or big powerlevel here not sure which, as someone who experienced adultery first hand I feel there's no justification for it. If you're unhappy with your relationship then just leave, it'll hurt now but the hurt caused by cheating will be a lot worse.

 

[Sherlock Holmes]

+1 for "There is no justification for cheating in any situation." I almost agreed with the "only if they abuse you" shit, but like someone else said, how would they respond to a potential STD and confirmed unfaithfulness? They'd just abuse you even more. Plus, their potential lack of character doesn't mean you need to also be a piece of shit.

OP, stop being a pussy and just leave your partner, since you aim to validate your actions with this Reddit-tier thread.

 

[Ex Cummunicated Sasser HD]

If you want other pussy or dick, then go hog wild, but don't be a cheater, and if anyone ever cheats on you, fuck them off...

It's easier to break up with someone because you've found someone more compatible, but fuck sleeping around and cheating, that's reddit territory... If you have to ask a forum, especially this one, you've already made up your mind.

edit: Don't cheat on your partner, especially if you are married... Just get a divorce or separate... Massive Powerlevel but I was (not even gonna call it cheating, it was blatant lying and fucking someone else) "cheated on"... and I noped right the fuck out of everything as soon as I found out and within 6 months I got my life back... And I got pretty much everything "we" owned...

Don't go there.

 

[Recoil]

>post songs about cheating

Seriously tho, it's not worth it. Keep the high ground, Anakin. Being cheated on can really destroy you emotionally, it's not worth inflicting that pain.

 

[Dustlord]

I don't think it's ever a good idea. Just leave.
Worried about getting divorce raped? When your wife finds out, you're not going to stand a chance in court if she can argue infidelity.

Or better yet, if you want to screw around, don't get into a serious relationship so you can avoid all of this drama.