I joined after lurking for a bit because after getting into a bit of a public shitshow with some furry, they said something that made me realize actively shitflinging wasn't healthy, and that ultimately; me not participating won't make a difference, because there will be dozens of others willing to tell someone like that furry to fuck off, in my place. I had an epiphany, pretty much. And I decided that instead of stressing myself the hell out; it'd be better for me to simply watch from the sidelines and make comments while doing so. Life's gotten better since I did so, and I suppose I have that furry to thank; even if they're still a dumbass who I don't regret telling them how much of an idiot they are.