Why do I get horny when watching depressing/shocking/horrible things? - Anyone else?

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Same with all fetishes, association with a particular thing during sexual development. So in this cause because it's violence, someone obviously abused you and fucked you up beyond repair.
and yes I will talk about this in therapy
I'll give you a hint: that means your brain's wired to do that in conjunction with your survival instinct and fight or flight response.

Granted, it is about perspective and understanding your thoughts, but I know for a fact that's what's kept me from being a fucking ultra coomer self pitying incel degenerate or a lowlife serial killer, unlike a lot of other people. Just jerk off and go outside and find someone else to hitch with who gets turned on by horror movies. You'll be fine.
 
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I'll give you a hint: that means your brain's wired to do that in conjunction with your survival instinct and fight or flight response.

Granted, it is about perspective and understanding your thoughts, but I know for a fact that's what's kept me from being a fucking ultra coomer self pitying incel degenerate or a lowlife serial killer, unlike a lot of other people. Just jerk off and go outside and find someone else to hitch with who gets turned on by horror movies. You'll be fine.
you're right. I'm totally normal
 
and yes I will talk about this in therapy
Hey don't worry I do too. I've just started therapy and have been planning on discussing it with my therapist as well, among other things.

At first I felt ashamed but to be honest as long as you recognize that these feelings are fucked up and help yourself any way you can you should be fine.

Just remember it could always be worse. Besides, there are more people into goreporn and regular gore than you think.
 
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