Why do so many Girls like being strangled?

Sort by date Sort by votes
the weak are aroused by the strong

Kari Kamiya said:
Love bites are better.
Click to expand...
But equally dangerous, at least on the neck.

AntiSchwuletteAktion said:
If you're a woman and you don't like it, who cares? You were upset about other women enjoying being grabbed by the throat; it really has nothing to do with your personal tastes
Click to expand...
I agree with answering "I don't want that!" with "who cares about what you want, we're speaking in general", but her original point about it being altogether dangerous is correct.
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
Zero Day Defense said:
I agree with answering "I don't want that!" with "who cares about what you want, we're speaking in general", but her original point about it being altogether dangerous is correct.
Click to expand...
Women who genuinely think they "want" to be strangulated either:
Have daddy issues
Are porn addicts (and won't admit it)
Are porn addicts (and play it off by being slut positive)
Or just in general some sort of flavor of BDSM bullshit thinking that they "have" to be into some sort of non vanilla kink in order to seem interesting to themselves, friends, or potential partners.

The biggest point of it all should be the fact that you shouldn't sacrifice your safety for kink. Again, people can do what they please and we're all going to have different tastes, but if you're going to be that girl (or guy in this case) who will willingly sit there and act like there isn't any danger regarding choking/strangulation then I'm going to be a "harpy", "vanilla", "totally doesn't have sex guys" person about it and tell you the straight facts. :story:

People love to screech about how BDSM and kink-related sex play should "always be safe and concern safety first!" yet I hear so many people who parrot that shit seem to have no problem with applying that much force and pressure on one of the most sensitive areas on the human body. At least make it make sense you hardcore kinksters.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Zero Day Defense
Upvote 0 Downvote
Kari Kamiya said:
My mouth is too small and his neck is too thick to do any real damage
Click to expand...
If you're bruising, you're doing enough damage to risk it.

To be fair to you, I conflated "love bites" with "love marks", since "love bites" (or suctioning) are often done to make "love marks".
Kari Kamiya said:
and there's no room for you.
Click to expand...
...I don't follow, but that's probably for the better.
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
Zero Day Defense said:
If you're bruising, you're doing enough damage to risk it.

To be fair to you, I conflated "love bites" with "love marks", since "love bites" (or suctioning) are often done to make "love marks".
Click to expand...
Point on the doll where the hicky hurt you.
1660003587857.png
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
Kari Kamiya said:
Wtf no. I'm just baffled by your hang-ups on hickeys is all.
Click to expand...
You're blowing this out of proportion. I'm just averse to making subdermal pools of clotted blood in the immediate vicinity of important blood vessels and I consider it comparable to this "choking"/"firmly grasping the neck" sex fad.

Anywhere else is fine.
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
Cat fight cat fight cat fight.

Anyways since this is getting bumped, my belief with the choking shit has always been that while normally people are able to communicate satisfying sexual dynamics in a nuanced way, emotionally stunted or insecure individuals and those who are with people they don't actually get along with well use choking as a really overt fetishistic representation of those same dynamics.

Basically if all the women you're with want you to choke them, my guess is that you're probably really bad at fucking. They're asking you to actually behave like a man and clearly demonstrate that you're the absolutely physically dominant party in the exchange for once. Stop making them beg.
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
Zero Day Defense said:
I agree with answering "I don't want that!" with "who cares about what you want, we're speaking in general", but her original point about it being altogether dangerous is correct.
Click to expand...
Last time I'll repeat myself: there's a huge difference between what (almost all) women enjoy and being asphyxiated. What I do is entirely safe and the difference is unmistakable, even in the heat of passion.

If you don't trust yourself or your lover enough to try it, there's something wrong there lol. If trust isn't an issue but you simply don't want to do it or don't think you would enjoy it, that's fine, you're a free person.
 
Upvote 0 Downvote
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back