Why do some single mothers just keep splorting out more kids?

Because a lot of people are sub-100 IQ level and don't think about the future, plan ahead, or understand consequences.

A single woman who's a postal worker should never be having five kids, but modern society doesn't chastises people when they do stupid things or tell them that something is their own fault. Personal responsibility is a concept basically only reserved for the middle class, at best.
 
Some single mothers feel that a man won't stay with them if they don't offer sex. No single mother of 5 kids had their first kid at 25. They all had sex young and had kids young. When the first man leaves, they need to get another one, and the best way to get a "boyfriend" quickly is being sexually available. Whether he's a quality partner or fatherhood material doesn't especially matter.
 
So who is watching these kids while mom is at work? I'm kinda guessing it's the oldest(12) because this shitty mother prob doesn't have the money to pay for someone to watch them and prob doesn't care what that does to her oldest. And having a 1 month old and a 1 year old? Jesus christ woman invest in some birth control or get a hysterectomy. You might find your children a blessing but I bet the older ones find living with a 1 month old and a 1 year old to be absolute hell.
 
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So who is watching these kids while mom is at work? I'm kinda guessing it's the oldest(12) because this shitty mother prob doesn't have the money to pay for someone to watch them and prob doesn't care what that does to her oldest. And having a 1 month old and a 1 year old? Jesus christ woman invest in some birth control or get a hysterectomy. You might find your children a blessing but I bet the older ones find living with a 1 month old and a 1 year old to be absolute hell.
If you've ever cruised r/raisedbynarcissists and other subforums there describing narcissistic Karens and Kyles ruining childrens' lives, there's a theme of some people there who were basically used as free slave childcare labor by their parent(s) (especially single parents) and they are fucked up huge by it. Many of them come out of that scenario never wanting kids. Getting forced into the position of "mommy" rather than "sibling" can be enormously damaging, especially if the parent thinks entitled thoughts about the whole thing.
 
Everyone ITT who thinks it's some sort of plot to get more welfarebux/child support is dumb and autistic.
Everyone ITT who chalks it up to poor decision making is pretty much right on the money.

They don't have kids with the expressed desire to get more money. After the first kid they'd realize pretty damn fast that children are a hassle and not worth an extra couple hundred a month that the little shit's just gonna eat anyway. It comes down to dumb broads hooking up with dumb men who bail the second they knock them up. Dumb broad sees no reason to change her behavior because she's the Victim(tm) in this situation. So dumb broad finds another dumb man and the cycle repeats until one unfortunate simp is willing to settle down with her.
 
From what I've seen, they think that their second/third/fourth/etc partner "is the one" and wants to have a biological child with him.

A friend of mine is the second eldest child in a family of formerly six, now seven children. The mother lives with the youngest boy and the infant in an apartment with her most recent boyfriend. The grandparents take care of the rest in their cramped home.

The story is quite unfortunate, the mother met multiple abusive men and had children with all of them. The children themselves are traumatized from what they've seen and experienced, to the point where one of them is mentally stunted and has the mind of a five year old when he is twelve. Just when everyone thought she was done, she met a new boyfriend and now has a one year old baby with him. I understand the wish to have a child with someone you love to an extent, but...really, I feel like at some point, you should close your legs.
 
So who is watching these kids while mom is at work? I'm kinda guessing it's the oldest(12) because this shitty mother prob doesn't have the money to pay for someone to watch them and prob doesn't care what that does to her oldest. And having a 1 month old and a 1 year old? Jesus christ woman invest in some birth control or get a hysterectomy. You might find your children a blessing but I bet the older ones find living with a 1 month old and a 1 year old to be absolute hell.

It's always the older kids. They end up having to be the second parent and have to watch over the younger ones. When it's only a couple of siblings it's easier but more than two, that's just ridiculous. They end up latchkey kids and watch their siblings, then get jobs to help support the family.
 
trashy women, mostly of dark complexity, think that getting impregnated by a man is the most effective way to hook him for life and have him marry them or at least support them with alimony. They don't count with their male counterparts acting in equally niggerish fashion abandoning his kids to their fates.

I'm pretty sure alimony is only give away when you've been married to a guy for awhile. None of these women could ever make a marriage last that long. I also imagine they do that because they're young so no guy wants to stay with them unless she has his kid but then the guy bounces anyway because the woman is too much trouble to deal with.

From what I've seen, they think that their second/third/fourth/etc partner "is the one" and wants to have a biological child with him.

A friend of mine is the second eldest child in a family of formerly six, now seven children. The mother lives with the youngest boy and the infant in an apartment with her most recent boyfriend. The grandparents take care of the rest in their cramped home.

The story is quite unfortunate, the mother met multiple abusive men and had children with all of them. The children themselves are traumatized from what they've seen and experienced, to the point where one of them is mentally stunted and has the mind of a five year old when he is twelve. Just when everyone thought she was done, she met a new boyfriend and now has a one year old baby with him. I understand the wish to have a child with someone you love to an extent, but...really, I feel like at some point, you should close your legs.

I wonder how old she is and what her stance on getting a hysterectomy is? If she's young then she prob needs to date older men that have their owns kids and don't want anymore. But these men might see all of her red flags(like the fact that she has several different kids from multiple men)and avoid her like the plague. I feel like women like this just want to be loved but have so many issues(and are also kinda dumb)so they just do the same shit over and over again but get the same result. Like these women prob need real mental help but I kinda doubt they'd even think for a second they did something wrong if their relationship was to crumble.
 
Trashy women especially of the dark persuasion can't claim alimony but the government will always make the baby daddy's (yes multiple) pay child support. Not to mention the WIC and ssi check if you can claim autism on the kids just look at Chris. I know we often associate the tug boat with his adulthood but I'm fairly certain Bob and barb got some kinda check for having a yard son in and out of schools for behavior problems even though they never put him in special ed. That "high functioning" part was always a good scape goat.
 
I'm pretty sure alimony is only give away when you've been married to a guy for awhile. None of these women could ever make a marriage last that long. I also imagine they do that because they're young so no guy wants to stay with them unless she has his kid but then the guy bounces anyway because the woman is too much trouble to deal with.



I wonder how old she is and what her stance on getting a hysterectomy is? If she's young then she prob needs to date older men that have their owns kids and don't want anymore. But these men might see all of her red flags(like the fact that she has several different kids from multiple men)and avoid her like the plague. I feel like women like this just want to be loved but have so many issues(and are also kinda dumb)so they just do the same shit over and over again but get the same result. Like these women prob need real mental help but I kinda doubt they'd even think for a second they did something wrong if their relationship was to crumble.
She's 31 this year, she had her oldest daughter when she was 16. I doubt she'll be getting a hysterectomy, god knows if she's planning to pop out a second baby with her current boyfriend. They're not exactly the type with money to support such a large family either.
 
Because reproduction is the main drive for humanity (and every other species for that matter).
We have socially moved past the point where everyone needs to reproduce but that doesn't mean that the drive will just disappear.
We need to be taught not to make babies left and right because our genes are constantly telling us to do so.
Smarter and/or knowledgeable people might realize that on their own but most people aren't like that.
Most will just blindly follow the needs and wants of their bodies without a second thought.
 
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