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“Why is No One in the DMs”: Dylan Mulvaney Discussed Dating as a Trans Woman​

They don’t call it “second puberty” for nothing. For those of us who transition as adults, not only do we go through the same physiological changes teenagers do, hormones can alter the way that you experience emotions — and anyone who’s been through the first year of transition can tell you that those emotions often feel distinctly teenage in their intensity.

Dylan Mulvaney is leaning into the concept of the trans do-over as she searches for the person to have her first kiss with after coming out as a trans woman. The TikTok star, who uses she and they pronouns, opened up about the frustrations and pressure of finding that perfect person in a new interview with People.

“I'm getting a little impatient because, especially when you're feeling yourself and even looking at that Grammys picture, I'm like, that's somebody who should not be single,” Mulvaney told the publication. “But then you're like, wait, why is no one in the DMs?”

They added that they hope to find a relationship, and that they feel as though they get “a do-over as far as some of those negative experiences that I have had romantically.”

“And I want to do it right this time,” Mulvaney said.

The star is about to hit her one-year anniversary of coming out as a trans woman, as she’s been documenting on her popular TikTok series, “Days of Girlhood.” She’ll be celebrating that moment with a livestreamed variety show, naturally called “Day 365,” which will be filmed at the iconic Rainbow Room in Manhattan. The event promises “singing, special guests, and a walk down memory lane.” Tickets are only $5 and proceeds benefit the Trevor Project.

Mulvaney told People that they couldn’t “wait for the day that I get to show people that a trans person can be in a healthy, happy relationship.”

“I really want somebody to make me laugh because so much of starting to succeed and have these great things come has been a little serious at times, having to put this businesswoman hat on,” they said. “But I think once I do meet that person that can add some levity, add some lightness back to my life and I know that I can make them laugh in the same way, that is going to be chef's kiss.”

Because of Mulvaney’s visibility, she’s repeatedly been a target of right-wing harassment. After she interviewed President Joe Biden, she was blasted on Twitter by Marjorie Taylor-Greene, Marsha Blackburn, and more. Transphobes have also called for boycotts of brands like Ulta Cosmetics, for featuring videos with Mulvaney. And yet, that hasn’t stopped the star from thriving and dealing with trolls in style. What could be more iconic and fitting for the Old Hollywood-esque TikToker than a celebration of her womanhood at the Rainbow Room? We’ll wait.
 
I’m going to offer a viewpoint other than the typical troon bashing that I do.

Maybe it’s because you’re conceited beyond belief and unironically say things like, why is no one in the DMs? Who even talks like that? Oh, people who see others as potential transactions and nothing else. Getting dolled up for some gala event doesn’t make you entitled to anything. No one is in the “DMs” because you are overtly insufferable, and even those with the strongest tranny fetish know to stay far away from the loud mouthed troon with a large audience. They won’t date other troons either, which is the hilarious part. They’re “women” but they won’t date other “women” because their vanity won’t allow them. Troons are absolutely disgusted by troons, and that’s why these hug boxes exist online and seldomly in person.

Learn some humility and sense of worth. You’ve done fuck all with your life except make TikToks and perform the Book of Mormon prior to your transitioning. Why is no one in the DMs? Maybe it’s because you’re a DM, a Dumb Man.
 
Lol nobody sane would want to be dragged across social media and his name and face attached to Dylan who regardless what the media says is clown show and might fuck up your dating chances in the future. He might get some clout chasers but that is questionable considering Dylan used had his pick of the litter when he was just a faggot without the clown make up and clothes. You are going to need to adjust your expectations Dylan for the reality. Not to mention he is wrinkly and looking decade older than he really is .
 
To be seriously considered in 'normal' dating, you need testes producing sperm, or ovaries producing eggs & ideally a functioning uterus.

Not much else really matters, you can wear a dress or look butch, male or female, there will be people who'll find you attractive.

Deliberately fuck your fertility, and you're in the 'batshit crazy' bin. At best you're exploitable for kicks or money.
 
To be seriously considered in 'normal' dating, you need testes producing sperm, or ovaries producing eggs & ideally a functioning uterus.

I hate it break it to you but I don't think most normal people are really interested in fertility in the modern dating scene. At least it isn't usually their go-to topic of the day. Actual, true to God genitalia? Yes. A woman's insides could be scooped out like a Halloween pumpkin and I doubt most dudes would give a shit. It may actually be a bonus a lot of times.

The only people I've ever seen hung up on fertility are incels tbh. I don't know if it's their fetish or what
 
It's like this guy is on the very edge of realizing he bought a fantasy and fucked up royal. Sorry bout your nuts bro.
The disconnect and loneliness brought on by trooning. This is one contributing factot as to why so many of them commit suicide.
 
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I don't know why, but he is the troon I have the strongest, most visceral reaction to. Lots of trannies disgust me, but everything about this guy makes my skin crawl. Maybe it's how incredibly fake he is, and that specifically gay male contempt for women - he doesn't want women sexually, so they are completely worthless npcs. Even pretending to be one, he still thinks he's better than actual women.

I don't think he has a fetish - I think he really is doing this for clout and because he thinks he'll land some A+ grade straight guy with his act.
Why would a gay man resent women in terms of sexuality?
 
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Why would a gay man resent women in terms of sexuality?
Dylan views women as competition - see his "jokes" about stealing women's husbands. Women have more potential partners than even the most attractive gay man, just by virtue of most men being straight.

But my comment was referring to the attitude some gay men have that since they don't want to fuck women, and that all women are for is sex, women are completely worthless. They basically hate women, but since they're gay, they don't need to control it in order to have sex or a relationship.
 
This sort of thing is often one of the reasons cited for suicide is that they deal with crippling loneliness overtime because they often repulse people physically and it's only going to get worse for them as they get older and visibly start resembling older men in drag. They end up needing to invest heavily in more and more plastic surgery to keep looking like a young-ish woman. People who transitioned in middle age often have it better as they usually had children so they have a support network somewhere.
Generally speaking men are better at dealing with loneliness than women (They literally biologically have to) but the problem is these men in particular also suffer from severe self inflicted mental illness and even if they can't find a partner the only other company they have is other equally mentally ill men (that usually don't want to date them either) since as you mentioned they repulse normal people away.

Its literally a perfect storm.
 
Dylan was a cute little twink. Was a undoubtedly very annoying but his dating prospects were infinitely better pre-troonery.
 
Dylan views women as competition - see his "jokes" about stealing women's husbands. Women have more potential partners than even the most attractive gay man, just by virtue of most men being straight.

But my comment was referring to the attitude some gay men have that since they don't want to fuck women, and that all women are for is sex, women are completely worthless. They basically hate women, but since they're gay, they don't need to control it in order to have sex or a relationship.

Lesbians get accused of hating men. Gay men accused of hating women. I think the reality is that both camps just have the luxury of not putting up with the bullshit & histrionics of the opposite sex.
 
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