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Again, I’m just going off my own experience but for the people I know, it’s not been like that. Aside from a few who are very fortunate financially, most of us knew that for richer for poorer means that in married life there will be times when one of you earns more, or nothing perhaps and you cover each other. We’ve earned more than each other at various points and I’ve earned nothing at one point being between jobs and up the duff. Now a man who won’t work, or who loses jobs for being difficult is different, but just ‘earns a bit less’ isn’t.Women almost universally demand that men earn more than them and if a man fails to do so, the relationship is in trouble.
There really arent, where does this even come from?. That’s daft romcom sort of expectations, not something real women have.No there are not "thousands upon thousands of examples" of normie women expecting a man who makes 7 figures and can take them to Europe on a whim. Touch grass and meet some actual irl women please.
I’m trying to think of things I’d have ditched a bloke for if we were going out. If he was a shit to wait staff, or cruel in some way to people or animals, or me, I’d have been gone . And my dad, bless him, always said ‘make sure you say no to a man about something to see how he reacts.’ But this is character, not wealth or looks.
People’s expectations are being skewed by the things they see online. The things you see online are advertising, or social engineering. They’re not real.