There's a huge difference between us hating normies and normies hating us.
Normies are a powerful majority group.
We are a powerless minority group.
Most (not all) of the people here were basically destined to end up here from birth. We were born with some issue, depression, acne, poverty, autism, asymmetrical facial features, ethnic differences, there's plenty of reasons. For many of us, there really isn't any possibility of conforming to the standards of society. Often, society as a whole doesn't actually want us as members at all. We could do everything right, and they would still find a reason to reject us. Most people don't blame Malcolm X or Nelson Mandela for being angry about the way society treated them. We are treated in a similar way, and for similar reasons, but for some reason, people like to pretend that it's all our fault.
Additionally, most of the "normie hate" that's been cropping up recently is actually a direct response to the surveillance (and there's no other way to put that) that's coming from the outside. Nobody likes to be watched and scrutinized, and nobody likes to be laughed at, either.
where are these Chad Thundercock alpha males who supposedly exist purely for throwing themselves at my feet??
