Wolfpup seems to be defending the idea that Ralph isn't some Machiavellian, pre-planning, pre-meditated psychophath and that's why he's not so bad and could be redeemed. There are mitigating factors and Ralph is more or less making decisions on the fly (threesome grooming pressure on baby mama, strangling, releasing the sex tape to own the ex, etc.) according to his assessment. Now to me that almost makes it worse, it would mean by Wolfpup's logic that Ralph just naturally makes the most predatory, evil, misguided and destructive decisions.