Worst reasons you ended a relationship

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T--terminated? What, did you turn him to corned beef hash with a full-auto?

He was just a mega autist DBZ sped. I was friends with him for way longer than I ever needed to be, and man, when I saw him posing once with one of those, I realized my choice of friendship needed work. I basically told him how embarrassing I found him and stopped responding.
Many other factors over the years I unfortuantely knew him, but I've been away now for longer than we were even friends, and I don't miss him.
 
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My then-boyfriend got a MMO for Christmas (not WoW, this was two years before it launched), which he subsequently dedicated almost all of his free time on. This was a problem because we attended different high schools, so our main method of communication was on the internet, and his dad wouldn't allow him online past 5 pm. I tolerated it for a while, I didn't want to be "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself" and he just got the game. I know when I get a new game I dedicate a lot of free time to it, too.

By the time March rolled around however he was still on it all the time. I was lucky if he spoke to me for five minutes each day, when he was signing out of the computer for the day. During these brief periods of contact I tried to arrange days he could play and days when he'd spend at least one hour with me so we could hold proper conversations again. He refused. I had enough and started calling out his addiction, he'd get mad and accuse me of being "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself".

Mid-late March we had a huge fight over the game and I broke it off because he found it completely unreasonable that he should spend more than five minutes a day talking to someone he claimed he loved. During this I said he didn't really love me, and he said I was out of line for accusing him of such a thing.

After that we didn't talk for a great many months. When he did start talking to me again, it was to tell me that he'd realized he was, in fact, gay, and that he was never in love with me. Y'know, like I said.

Man, that is the worst relationship I can imagine. Not the "turned out to be gay" topper, but just the type where you have to twist their arm to notice or even want to spend time with you. That is hell for me.

If you really click with somebody, you should struggle to NOT talk with them too often, not the other way around.

It really makes me wonder what it was about that game in particular that flipped his switch for you. I doubt you would've chosen a guy like him otherwise, unless it was simply that he realized it during his time away and wanted to keep it that way? That's the only thing that makes any sense to me.
 
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We were 15 and I broke up because I heard she smoked once (since I came from a straight edge household and all that I was convinced that's really bad)
in retrospect dumbest decision of my life because she gave her virginity to me, wanted kids when we were older and all that lol
 
she was alive

that was a problem
 
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He just disappeared one day. If he wants to run off and sleep with the fishes, who am I to stop him?
 
We were 15 and I broke up because I heard she smoked once (since I came from a straight edge household and all that I was convinced that's really bad)
in retrospect dumbest decision of my life because she gave her virginity to me, wanted kids when we were older and all that lol

You were both 15-- there was a very low chance she even understood the gravity of any such plans, much less had it in her to commit that strongly for that long.

If he wants to run off and sleep with the fishes, who am I to stop him?

...was your ex Kanye West, by any chance?
 
It really makes me wonder what it was about that game in particular that flipped his switch for you. I doubt you would've chosen a guy like him otherwise, unless it was simply that he realized it during his time away and wanted to keep it that way? That's the only thing that makes any sense to me.
Sorry about the late reply, but I really have no idea. He had no problem talking to me and hanging out before he got the game, I wouldn't have agreed to date him in the first place. If the game was the source of his gay awakening I'm not sure if he accepted it right away or not. I just think he became absolutely obsessed over the game and gave no fucks about the rest of his life after that no matter what he said. Like those Koreans that get involved with a MMO and then neglect their kid to death.
 
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Had a couple tinder dates with a woman who was pleasant enough until she disclosed that she’d had an abortion. I find abortions abhorrent and I decided at that second I wasn’t speaking to her again, even though she seemed genuinely remorseful about it.

Just Facebook stalked her and her dude seems like he’s nice enough, so happy ending, I guess.
 
Sorry about the late reply, but I really have no idea. He had no problem talking to me and hanging out before he got the game, I wouldn't have agreed to date him in the first place. If the game was the source of his gay awakening I'm not sure if he accepted it right away or not. I just think he became absolutely obsessed over the game and gave no fucks about the rest of his life after that no matter what he said. Like those Koreans that get involved with a MMO and then neglect their kid to death.
You know, that gay awakening thing reminds me of a personal lolcow I know who had one girlfriend, acted like a total fucking retard, she broke it off with him, and he decided he was gay because (his reason) he just realized it one day. I got the impression that he just didn't wanna deal with drama with women anymore and being gay just looked like fun. This was also before the troon takeover, when being gay was synonymous with dance music and dressing colorfully, not TDS and wishing death on "cis" people.
 
guy went into my house took all my diet MT. dew poured that bitch down the drain and took my fucking cheesecake out of the fridge. the cheesecake was for a party the next day and 24 packs of the MT dew cans cost 7.99 a pop. the cheese cake was 50 dollars because I. bought it from a fancy bakery and had ordered on golden belly so all in all I was out 57.99 for his shit.
 
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We had completely different tastes in TV shows. "Netflix and chill" becomes stressful when it starts out with a genre one of the partners detests.

Should have found different stuff to do. It's a good principle in general. When I think back on people I've known, it ain't the time we spent in somebody's apartment I remember. It's the times you went out and did an activity.
 
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My then-boyfriend got a MMO for Christmas (not WoW, this was two years before it launched), which he subsequently dedicated almost all of his free time on. This was a problem because we attended different high schools, so our main method of communication was on the internet, and his dad wouldn't allow him online past 5 pm. I tolerated it for a while, I didn't want to be "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself" and he just got the game. I know when I get a new game I dedicate a lot of free time to it, too.

By the time March rolled around however he was still on it all the time. I was lucky if he spoke to me for five minutes each day, when he was signing out of the computer for the day. During these brief periods of contact I tried to arrange days he could play and days when he'd spend at least one hour with me so we could hold proper conversations again. He refused. I had enough and started calling out his addiction, he'd get mad and accuse me of being "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself".

Mid-late March we had a huge fight over the game and I broke it off because he found it completely unreasonable that he should spend more than five minutes a day talking to someone he claimed he loved. During this I said he didn't really love me, and he said I was out of line for accusing him of such a thing.

After that we didn't talk for a great many months. When he did start talking to me again, it was to tell me that he'd realized he was, in fact, gay, and that he was never in love with me. Y'know, like I said.
My ex broke up with me cus I played to much wow and we lived far apart :( r u my ex
I did have an addiction tho, he stalked me online and kept track of my login/logout and compiled it into a pdf with receipt. He played as well but he was a newb and I was an endgame raider so. Anyway, he dumped me and got togehter with a friend of mine who also played, but she was a newb like him. They have a kid now. I got several high lvl toons. GUESS WE CAN SAY I WON THIS ONE
 
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