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I terminated a friendship because he had one of those.
T--terminated? What, did you turn him to corned beef hash with a full-auto?
My then-boyfriend got a MMO for Christmas (not WoW, this was two years before it launched), which he subsequently dedicated almost all of his free time on. This was a problem because we attended different high schools, so our main method of communication was on the internet, and his dad wouldn't allow him online past 5 pm. I tolerated it for a while, I didn't want to be "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself" and he just got the game. I know when I get a new game I dedicate a lot of free time to it, too.
By the time March rolled around however he was still on it all the time. I was lucky if he spoke to me for five minutes each day, when he was signing out of the computer for the day. During these brief periods of contact I tried to arrange days he could play and days when he'd spend at least one hour with me so we could hold proper conversations again. He refused. I had enough and started calling out his addiction, he'd get mad and accuse me of being "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself".
Mid-late March we had a huge fight over the game and I broke it off because he found it completely unreasonable that he should spend more than five minutes a day talking to someone he claimed he loved. During this I said he didn't really love me, and he said I was out of line for accusing him of such a thing.
After that we didn't talk for a great many months. When he did start talking to me again, it was to tell me that he'd realized he was, in fact, gay, and that he was never in love with me. Y'know, like I said.
We were 15 and I broke up because I heard she smoked once (since I came from a straight edge household and all that I was convinced that's really bad)
in retrospect dumbest decision of my life because she gave her virginity to me, wanted kids when we were older and all that lol
If he wants to run off and sleep with the fishes, who am I to stop him?
Sorry about the late reply, but I really have no idea. He had no problem talking to me and hanging out before he got the game, I wouldn't have agreed to date him in the first place. If the game was the source of his gay awakening I'm not sure if he accepted it right away or not. I just think he became absolutely obsessed over the game and gave no fucks about the rest of his life after that no matter what he said. Like those Koreans that get involved with a MMO and then neglect their kid to death.It really makes me wonder what it was about that game in particular that flipped his switch for you. I doubt you would've chosen a guy like him otherwise, unless it was simply that he realized it during his time away and wanted to keep it that way? That's the only thing that makes any sense to me.
You know, that gay awakening thing reminds me of a personal lolcow I know who had one girlfriend, acted like a total fucking retard, she broke it off with him, and he decided he was gay because (his reason) he just realized it one day. I got the impression that he just didn't wanna deal with drama with women anymore and being gay just looked like fun. This was also before the troon takeover, when being gay was synonymous with dance music and dressing colorfully, not TDS and wishing death on "cis" people.Sorry about the late reply, but I really have no idea. He had no problem talking to me and hanging out before he got the game, I wouldn't have agreed to date him in the first place. If the game was the source of his gay awakening I'm not sure if he accepted it right away or not. I just think he became absolutely obsessed over the game and gave no fucks about the rest of his life after that no matter what he said. Like those Koreans that get involved with a MMO and then neglect their kid to death.
We had completely different tastes in TV shows. "Netflix and chill" becomes stressful when it starts out with a genre one of the partners detests.
My ex broke up with me cus I played to much wow and we lived far apartMy then-boyfriend got a MMO for Christmas (not WoW, this was two years before it launched), which he subsequently dedicated almost all of his free time on. This was a problem because we attended different high schools, so our main method of communication was on the internet, and his dad wouldn't allow him online past 5 pm. I tolerated it for a while, I didn't want to be "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself" and he just got the game. I know when I get a new game I dedicate a lot of free time to it, too.
By the time March rolled around however he was still on it all the time. I was lucky if he spoke to me for five minutes each day, when he was signing out of the computer for the day. During these brief periods of contact I tried to arrange days he could play and days when he'd spend at least one hour with me so we could hold proper conversations again. He refused. I had enough and started calling out his addiction, he'd get mad and accuse me of being "the girlfriend who whines when her boyfriend does stuff by himself".
Mid-late March we had a huge fight over the game and I broke it off because he found it completely unreasonable that he should spend more than five minutes a day talking to someone he claimed he loved. During this I said he didn't really love me, and he said I was out of line for accusing him of such a thing.
After that we didn't talk for a great many months. When he did start talking to me again, it was to tell me that he'd realized he was, in fact, gay, and that he was never in love with me. Y'know, like I said.