Would you date a bisexual? Do bisexuals make good partners?

[jethro]

No, but it’s a gut reaction and I can’t really rationally explain why not.

Simple, your gut is telling you there's something wrong with them.

 

[Catman from cat town]

Sexuality doesn’t mean psychologically secure. In the end, it’s on an individual level if someone is secure.

I understand why lesbians get pissy about bi women, it’s usually because the bi women doesn’t know what she wants. Does she want to birth her own kids and live in a nuclear family structure? Is she against having kids? These are important questions to ask a bisexual.

Being a bisexual women, I’ve thought about what I wanted and accepted I enjoy both sexes but I’m interested in having a traditional family so I’m focused on males for a long term relationship. I know what I want in the end. I feel like a lot of bisexuals don’t define what they want with a relationship because they think it’ll make them straight or gay.

 

[Queen Elizabeth II]

Yes.

If I was still in the dating game I would probably ask if they've thought about the problems they might have forming a family if they started up with me as a faggot and if they understood that any children we have might not be either of ours biologically but if they're cool with that...Sure? Why not?

Heteros cheat. Gays cheat. If they're willing to commit to me the same way I might be to them then why not?

 

[Apochrypha]

A few years ago I would've said no. Unfortunately I am now aware that I experience genuine attraction to both genders, so I can't really hold it against anyone else who does.

I am still wary of anyone who advertises the label, because there really isn't a reason to do so unless you're intending to live by the idealized and often performative promiscuity that subverts LGBT causes nowadays.

I personally don't go around sharing my sexual orientation and only intend to disclose my relationship history with someone who could be a potential partner. Partly because admitting that you're bi upfront just attracts people who are sneakily trying to get a threesome, and partly because I would rather end up in a long-term heterosexual relationship if I can help it. Being straight makes life a lot easier.

I have only ever cared for serious monogamous relationships and can only assume that there are other bisexual people out there who have the same desire. They are also probably not publicly visible for the same reasons as me.

tl;dr: As is usual in just about every LGBT subculture, exhibitionists ruin the image for everyone.

This. I can't even express how annoying it is to see straight people asking for threesomes when they find out someone they know is bisexual. It's so fucking cringe and quite frankly, very presumptuous to assume your bi friend is even interested in you simply because they like both genders.

I also do not tell people my orientation unless they are potential partners because of this reason. I once dumped a close friend because he knew I was bi, and kept pressuring me to have a threesome with another female friend of his. Fucking gross.

 

[Kiwi & Cow]

Only if it's a woman and not a tranny.

A bisexual woman is as much of a good choice as a straight woman is.

No. Bisexual is more likely to be a whore/have mental issues.

Take my suggestion and go back to /pol/ niggerfaggot.

 

[gang weeder]

Only if it's a woman and not a tranny.

A bisexual woman is as much of a good choice as a straight woman is.


Take my suggestion and go back to /pol/ niggerfaggot.

I appreciate your strategy of calling people faggots instead of actually counter-arguing anything they say.

 

[DuckSucker]

You should be more concerned about people calling themselves pansexuals. They'll bang anyone that moves or everything that exists.

Honestly one way Ive heard that described it "they dont have a preference, what matters is how much they like the person, even over attractiveness". Which honestly seems the most normal.

I think Ive posted this somewhere else but I believe everyone is kind of some degree of "bisexual" even if its only just "thats an attractive dude", and people who say theyre bisexual more often than not either go for men or women but in theory they would fuck another person of the same sex. They may think or fantasize about it but if they had to actually do it, may not be so willing. They may go some kind of far with another of the same sex but it probably wont be full on sex the way most people consider it, more like 'experimenting'.

 

[gang weeder]

Honestly one way Ive heard that described it "they dont have a preference, what matters is how much they like the person, even over attractiveness". Which honestly seems the most normal.

Yep, it doesn't mean anything. "I like people that I like." It's a virtue signal.

 

[Shidoen]

Bisexuals are still people who didn’t lob off a part of their body so they’re cool. I dated this one chick who had girlfriends more than boyfriends before. No joke she gave me a blowjob and instantly I came because it felt like the velvet robe of an angel on my cock. So in general, bisexuals are the same as straights in terms of dating them.

 

[Mochi14]

I really don’t want AIDS so no.

 

[Whatevermancer]

I probably would.

 

[WaveBreak]

I wouldn't date a bisexual woman I think, no.

Straight people cheat. If you're so anxious about someone staying faithful to you that you're worried about "competing" with both genders, stay out of the dating pool. You sound like an insecure mess and that's not attractive to anyone.

losers cheat.

 

[Jimmy Olsen]

Coming from a bisexual chick perspective, my ideal partners would either be a bisexual man or a lesbian woman. I know it sounds weird, but I feel a bisexual man would understand that asking me for a threesome the instant I confess my sexuality is insulting, in a way some (not all, I'm not a straight man bad person) straight guys don't really get. Yes, I like girls. No, I don't want to make out with them so you can watch because you're the person I'm supposed to be in the relationship with, whether or not you find my doing so 'hot' and want me to act on it.

Bisexual women don't tend to try and pressure people into three ways as much, but the reason they're not on my ideal partners list is because at my age (early zoomer) a lot of them are just straight girls who want to feel more special. I am fully aware of the hypocrisy of my situation given bisexual female is the category I fall under.

These are only ideals though. Straight men and bisexual women aren't on my nono list. They just aren't what I picture when I think of what kind of person I want to fall in love with, it doesn't mean I couldn't love one if I liked other things about their character. The only people I would under no circumstances consider a relationship with would be a FtM, MtF, or someone who thinks they're a nonexistent gender.

Spoiler: Halffag theorizing about various flavours of faggotry

Both transsexual and cisgender (aka normal) people often don't understand why transgenders would be on a bisexual's nono list, since 'You're attracted to both genders, why wouldn't you want one of us? Besides, a lot of bisexuals like masculine women and feminine men anyway.'

Well, that's the ticket. A lot of us like masculine women and feminine men due to our particular breed of mental problem. But we want masculine WOMEN, not girls who literally think they are men, and feminine MEN, not men who literally think that they're women.

(Note, by feminine men, I am not referring to crossdressers).

Some pretransition and prehormone gaydiens are physically attractive to me, because I like more masculine women and they still look like women. The hotness isn't worth the delusional-ness, and it all goes away once the hormones start. Even if they don't go on hormones and stay attractive, I wouldn't want to be with them, since I am not going to decide a long term partner solely on how physically attractive they are. Physical attraction is necessary, but it is far from enough.

I find good looking effeminate men attractive (think the David Bowie look) but the second they start wearing frilly dresses and calling themselves women, they instantly lose their attractiveness (no SRS or hormones necessary), whereas nice looking gaydiens stay physically attractive to me until they start fucking up their bodies. The second a man starts thinking he's female, I feel not only completely unattractive, but frightened. Gaydiens get annoying, but I'm not as scared to be around them, since women (which they are no matter what they want to believe) tend to express mental illness less violently than males.

There a small part of me that wonders if some trannies are just extra crazy bisexuals who have taken to mutilating themselves, but who knows?

TD;LR: Even the bisexuals don't want each other, and I'm sad because my warped sexuality made me attracted to masculine women and feminine men, and neither of those exist anymore because they all transition. Sometimes I wonder if transgenderism is a severe form of bisexuality, given that I view anything non-heterosexual as a mental illness with varying degrees of severity.

 

[stupid orc]

the “bisexual men are just fags who haven’t come out yet” is a meme that comes from worst kind of gay men. total cum brained retards. the kind that insist everyone is secretly gay the same people that hit on straight men just to get a reaction or to make them uncomfortable. the only kind of person more obnoxious then trannies.

 

[Mayor Adam West]

If she's perfect other than that and is willing to remain faithful to me, then sure. Why not? After all having same sex attractions isn't what is wrong. Acting on it is.

 

[Mayor Adam West]

1.) Yeah. I am. I have. I would again.
2.) It depends on the person.
Simple as.

Yo wtf is your profile picture?

 

[Filthyphil]

I set up my chick with a lipstick bi girl who was friends with the neighbors.
One night they were eating pussy on my living room floor and I try to get in the middle. Both bitches rejected me.
I made sure that bitch was gone the next day. There were other reasons but that was the final straw

 

[Mayor Adam West]

I set up my chick with a lipstick bi girl who was friends with the neighbors.
One night they were eating pussy on my living room floor and I try to get in the middle. Both bitches rejected me.
I made sure that bitch was gone the next day. There were other reasons but that was the final straw

Yeah that's weird. Like why do bi people not like threesomes anyway?

 

[Shiversblood]

Bisexual girls are just straight girls who want attention, and bisexual men are rapists.

 

[The Cunting Death]

Bisexual girls are just straight girls who want attention, and bisexual men are rapists.

I mean you're kinda right