Would you rather die alone or have a physically unattractive life partner?

Would you rather die alone or have a physically unattractive life partner?

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If a woman isn't physically attractive to me in some way, then I can't bring myself to love her - and if I don't love a woman, I don't waste her time pretending that I do. So, in that way, yes, I'd rather die alone.

However, it depends on what you mean by "physically unattractive". For me, the only guarantors of that are being black or being fat. If she isn't either of those things, especially if she takes care of herself, there will be something that catches my gaze. It could be how she looks in a plain dress. It could be her nose and her smile. It could be her laughter and the darkness of her hair. It could be the blue of her eyes or how her thighs press against the sofa. There has to be something that makes me want her. Without that, what's the point?
 
They can be amazing in every other way and basically perfect for you but they're so ugly they make people uncomfortable in the street.
Tough question. I think beauty is really in the eye of the beholder, and that's the key to the answer.

Would I mind a partner that most other people find unattractive, but to whom I am attracted to? Absolutely not.

Would I settle with someone I find repulsive just so I don't die alone? Absolutely not.

People who crave human relationships, but somehow fall short of getting others to appreciate them are probably the ones who would go for this. That's not a big pool.
 
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I choose therapy to address my low self-esteem issues, grow as a person, then get somebody more attractive as a partner.
 
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She can be attractive to you but wider society thinks she's super ugly and judge you when you go out in public.
If I want her and she's mine, I couldn't give less of a fuck what society thinks. You do have a point though. I'm not about to be that white youtuber in China with a chink ape girlfriend. I have standards. But you do have to keep in mind that most everyone who eats right and works out is attractive. Short of genetic defects, the only ugly you really see is what people put on themselves, like fat or drug abuse. Genuine beauty is extraordinary, but attractive is common in the healthy, particularly the youthful.
 
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