Would you rather die alone or have a physically unattractive life partner?

Would you rather die alone or have a physically unattractive life partner?

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I voted no uggos, I'd rather be lonely and miserable than seen in public with an unattractive woman.
Do you need a 9 or a 10? Do you also believe the State is controlling your destiny and perhaps even your penis? Asking for a friend.
 
She can be attractive to you but wider society thinks she's super ugly and judge you when you go out in public.
No brainer, I'd be perfectly fine with that. Society already looks at me funny anyway, so nothing would change.
 
Most people die after a lifetime of being made to feel alone in the company of those presumed to be most precious to them (homely or not).
I feel like this is more of a "wherever you go - there you are" situation. Everyone I know who complains about feeling alone in their relationships is just the type of person who tends to feel alone in relationship - their poor partner isn't "making" them feel anything. Some people have this compulsive need to blame their emotional problems on their partner, torpedo their relationships, and then start over again and be shocked when the next one doesn't work out.
 
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I feel like this is more of a "wherever you go - there you are" situation. Everyone I know who complains about feeling alone in their relationships is just the type of person who tends to feel alone in relationship - their poor partner isn't "making" them feel anything. Some people have this compulsive need to blame their emotional problems on their partner, torpedo their relationships, and then start over again and be shocked when the next one doesn't work out.

If I may be permitted to further this: I think human ingenuity is best demonstrated in contriving new ways to be the author of one's own misery (which is how I explain why the world has so many flags). Contentment is a natural byproduct of self-sufficiency to be shared with others - Not to expect others to afford. Yet many of the people whose complaints I have heard out went on to die believing they were cheated out of something withheld from them by the world, despite their being the only one of the two with the agency to deny.
 
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For me dying alone is irrelevant. I don’t understand people that don’t want to die alone. If I’m dying, and it’s inevitable, I’ll just stare at the sky, stare at something nice, and just pass on with a serene face so the person who finds me isn’t shocked.

Because what comes after this life is so much better than we can imagine, and even better than that even.

But still, don’t try to take a shortcut to heaven. We were made in God’s image and so to destroy yourself is like an insult to Him. Not to mention the wake you leave behind in others lives at your sudden absence

So yeah give me a wife with a rad-ass ass
 
I cannot be in a relationship with someone who doesn't take care of their body. I did that once, I won't do it again. I don't have the bandwidth to worry about your health and mine. If you don't work out, neither will we.

I don't mind bad genes to a point though. I have no intention of ever having children anyway, and if I did I'd choose to adopt a kid who's already alive and suffering. Doing your best in spite of a bad hand is endearing and admirable. The real uggos are people who choose not to take care of themselves, because they're ugly inside and out.

What's more important is that we want the same things in life, and want what each other is able to give. I'd rather be alone than settle in that regard.
 
I voted no uggos, I'd rather be lonely and miserable than seen in public with an unattractive woman.
Life partner doesn't mean you sleep together. A life partnership to my mind is what people fall into when they age out of dating and would rather live with their best friend than die alone

I'd rather live with my best friend than to suffer loneliness and isolation until I die.
 
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Unattractive, dumb and shallow < Attractive but dumb and shallow < Alone < Unattractive but smart and compatible with me < Attractive, smart and compatible with me.
Basically this. You feel more alone with your typical idiot than you do by yourself. You only feel truly with a partner when you are with someone that is like you but different at the same time and has a lot going on in that head of hers. People need to learn the value of silence and of being alone with your thoughts.
 
Don't worry dyn we wont laugh about your uggo gf.........not in front of you.
From personal experience women are much more likely to date below their level lookswise if you bring enough other good shit to the table.
That applies to men too, the whole "why all hot chicks are crazy/lazy/dumb" is because hot chicks can get away with being crazy/lazy/dumb or even all of those combined, because horny retards will still put up with the bullshit for a crumb of cooch. I also seen women going with a himbo for the same reason.

I was dating this girl who was meh, rather basic, not fat but her bod was nothing amazing and she was kinda short, but she was loaded, had a cushy job and connection so yeah she was not as hot nor had DD cups like my other ex, but she wasn't a bipolar dropout like that ex either.
 
I can't fathom inviting another person into my life, at least not yet. Maybe the years will change my mind because I only moved out last year and I've got a roommate now so I think I'd enjoy a little solitude for a while
 
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I suppose for me it would depend on the why of the unattractive.
Nobody is as attractive at 75 as they were at 25. You’ll both age. Hopefully you’ll age in a healthy way but you’ll be wrinkly and grey and gravity takes its toll. Maybe you’ll have some scars from an accident or illness. I know an old guy who’s just had a big chunk taken out his face after a skin cancer surgery and a failed graft. Maybe you’re married to a solider who got blown up. That kind of thing is just why you have ‘in sickness and in health.’
Maybe you just met someone who looks like the back end of a bus and in all other ways they’re perfect and a wonderful person. . That’s no problem either.
If they’ve destroyed themselves by trooning out? That’s a no. Ditto tattoos that are excessive or body mods, or turning into Nickocado. That’s a red flag for me becasue of the kind of person who does it.
 
If they're ugly, but have a good soul - I'd rather that than dying alone.

Behind every beautiful woman, there's a guy that's tired of fucking her.
This. I'll take a fun and pleasant to be around woman over a prettier one. The fallacy is that most people assume uglier women make it up in personality. They often don't. Nowadays I can only imagine what it's like. Every landwhale thinks she's a 10. It's disgusting.
 
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